posted October 24, 2024 04:11 AM
don’t quote pleasehey gals, any updates, how the connection current stands? curious about the endlessly-steady saturn saga. did ya’ll grow some sea legs?
from what i’ve learned, having a saturn-sun synastry double whammy, the conjunction and trine, (saturn sextile sun+venus in composite) is giving oneself the permission to be yourself.
with my guy, his Saturn/descendent conjuncts my Sun.
http://youtu.be/uluj31ZWdfA
with this particular scene in mind, we do happen to have other comforting, joyful aspects to cherish each other by (playfulness) besides the god-be-d*mned self-seriousness
i think what works for us in connection, rather what Saturn works with (as it can only solidify what already develops in the chart—they are not an abyss, rather THE structure), is
his moon is conjunct my moon, both our jupiters trining them,
his moon in my 8H, mine in his 5H
a sun-venus sextile double whammy,
my venus in his 8H and his in my 11H.
his venus sextiles my Ascendent, trines my descendent and IC, sextiles my sun, squares our moon. i light this mf up romantically and emotionally and in saturn fashion he acts reserved (and courteous)
his descendent trines my ascendent
his ascendent conjuncts my IC
our ascendents themselves are sextile
he has moon square venus natally, but i guess his saving grace is i’m both his archetypes, the madonna and who*re for his own psyche, then, that my Sun (self) literally points him directly to his own descendent [conjunction]
could i have expected that i might be the one necessary to reform another’s life? no, but, on the other hand, who was I ever to imagine that any man would be ready from day 1XX for the real deal (well, all-ready before meeting their person, when in fact, they scramble to get their act together, major clean up, failing and/or suffering a bit along the way over this process, and only once they know her and only then, what to be doing as it now relates to her) even if we don’t make it, in the sense of him full-on committing or not (to accept this is ultimately my own choice, which the possibility for rejection is also a terrifying factor for saturn lol), my mere presence in his life has supported his own task for maturing in and for partnership. he can also choose to pay it forward; i don’t mind.
saturn’s lesson: when the fear is met with [radical] acceptance 🙏
and most of all, i let him f*ck up. Live and let live. when someone is not literally threatening your life, Saturn will teach you that responding to struggles are not that big of a deal. i think with saturn connections,, you’ve must to allow (grace) the other’s own conscience to do the job, growing pains, don’t be a punitive or antagonistic partner yourself. be gentle and democratic. can you accept what life entails? will or won’t you give them the chance? in sickness and in health? if you don’t want them for them as they are, let Saturn go.
one small caveat but prominent tip: in saturn connections, it’s best to just take sex off the table until “marriage”. don’t sleep with them; it’s easier. being “traditional minded” will make the most sense in/when/if dealing with Saturn-energy in general, even when neither are naturally like this. have some discipline, patiently witness (find out) what’s really at stake (going on) for both persons, without letting “the sex” influence the commitment and standards that are attempting, by virtue of the energy and karma, to subtly develop, be revealed and established… mind us, a chastity tip coming from a freaky aquarius sun, capricorn moon conjunct uranus, uranus in the 7H native ✌️
if that sounds impossible—that you need sexual activity [to be bound] with them so badly that you shouldn’t/can’t move forward in life without proving them consistently in this way—saturn, your own, probably also wants you to get your priorities straight
Lindaland
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