posted April 30, 2024 01:06 AM            

Thoughts on longevity with a 12th house stellium in synastry?

The closest synastry I´ve seen is King Charles´ and Camilla Parker Bowles (there are many similarities actually)!

posted April 30, 2024 10:05 AM            

I always felt like he didn't understand my feelings and where I was coming from and vice versa. Our values and goals weren't alined which probably contributed to the confusion.

posted April 30, 2024 11:57 AM            

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I always felt like he didn't understand my feelings and where I was coming from and vice versa. Our values and goals weren't alined which probably contributed to the confusion.

As far as the relationship itself... very private and very "intimate". Not too many prying eyes and towards the end things got really cut-off because of the tension/embarrassment. Our relationship was just there one day and completely gone the next. We went through
the typical break-up stages like any couple, but this is how it felt on my end. I was devastated.[/B]

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What were the relationship troubles that you both had, when did they become apparent in your timeline, and what attempts were made to address those along the way? What was causing tension and embarrassment?

There's no secret/unusually private element to our bond. We've hung out with each other's friends several times. He invited me to meet his family in month 2. We both take/post pictures of each other and aren't shy about PDA. Our values for marriage/no kids/where we want to live are aligned.

I guess my only issue with him is that, as a Capricorn Sun/Venus, he doesn't express his love verbally (he's acts of service/quality time), so sometimes I have to prompt him to say how he feels. It doesn't bother me that much though; I know he cares deeply for me.

posted May 02, 2024 07:17 AM            

You’ve got a few similarities with my current synastry with my boyfriend. Check out my most recent post on asking for a synastry/composite cold read and you’ll see what I mean!

So all of our angles are conjunct too, though more tightly than yours, also Leo ASC. His Venus conjunct Saturn is in my 12th house. Obviously there are many aspects that are not the same, including some that promote a lot of harmony (besides all angles conjunct) Venus is conjunct his ASC and his moon. It’s always difficult to figure out which is which I find but my experience is:

Our relationship definitely isn’t a secret. Though it wasn’t immediately obvious to me that he didn’t think of me of anything other than a friend (his Sun in my 11th house). He’s taken some time to warm up to me and I am very obviously affectionate to him. I feel my Venus conjunct both our ASCs is very helpful for his Saturn Venus conjunction in the 12th. His Leo moon loves all the attention my Venus in Leo gives him. We approach each other and our mutual friends very similarly because of our ASC conjunction.

I am sometimes confused by his behaviour, in that his love languages are slightly different from mine, . He’s a terrible texter. His texts are very dry but then in person the way he looks at me and treats me and how physically affectionate he is are big clues as to how he feels.

There is a very strong emotional, intuitive and almost psychic connection. We can literally read each others minds , and he can read my mind like no one I’ve ever met. Though he has got a lot of positive Neptune aspects and Mars in Pisces natally. Also his Pluto is conjunct my Mercury which are both conjunct our mutually conjunct IC.