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Topic: I've been out on two dates with this new guy
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6376 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted May 22, 2024 08:24 AM
I've been out with this new guy twice already in the last week (we matched last week). So far I do like him and he says he likes being with me. But I'm worried about my Mars conjunct his South Node in our synastry. And also about our Composite Chart with all the squares to Mercury and Venus square Uranus.He also doesn't seem to communicate well when we aren't in person. We are going to meet again in a few days. I also notice that he has natal Venus retrograde in Aries. I like him but I'm just trying to make sure I'm not being delusional lol. As I currently have transit Neptune on my Venus. He told me he's currently getting rehab due to having issues with drinking another red flag? He has Mars opposite Uranus and Neptune in his natal chart. We also have the same birthday. [IMG] IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 191278 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 23, 2024 09:19 AM
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itisokay Knowflake Posts: 158 From: canada Registered: Oct 2023
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posted May 23, 2024 09:54 AM
How does mars conjunct southnode going? I have this with a friend but I can’t seperate this aspect because we also have pluto and asc at that point. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6376 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted May 23, 2024 02:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by itisokay: How does mars conjunct southnode going? I have this with a friend but I can’t seperate this aspect because we also have pluto and asc at that point.
I don’t know yet we just met last week and have been out twice. I had this aspect with another guy. Eventually he told me he felt like I was holding him back he was the Mars person. But we didn’t have any North Node aspects. But with this guy I do have Mercury/ North Node. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3875 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted May 24, 2024 02:12 AM
Hi, your Synastry shows strong affinity as there are lotsa conjunctions and Moons are in sextile signs… In composite Moon also forms a kite with the outer planet which shows emotional harmony. But you may have communication issues (his Mercury square your Neptune, quincunx your Pluto; your Mercury square his Neptune/Uranus). In the composite Mercury is also your most stressful planet, followed by cVenus. It’s indicating that many arguments can happen most likely due to both your straight talking manner, characteristic of Aries Mercury.IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6376 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted May 24, 2024 07:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by Hikaru29: Hi, your Synastry shows strong affinity as there are lotsa conjunctions and Moons are in sextile signs… In composite Moon also forms a kite with the outer planet which shows emotional harmony. But you may have communication issues (his Mercury square your Neptune, quincunx your Pluto; your Mercury square his Neptune/Uranus). In the composite Mercury is also your most stressful planet, followed by cVenus. It’s indicating that many arguments can happen most likely due to both your straight talking manner, characteristic of Aries Mercury.
Thank you for your input it seems like he might be the clingy type. Like wanting to see me everyday I’m not sure why. Right now he’s off from work in rehab (for drinking) he’s already told me all about it. I feel like things might be moving too fast. I haven’t known him for a month yet. And he’s tells me personal stuff and wanting to see me all the time. We’ve only known each other for a week I need space and I also want to date other men. Venus square Uranus in the Composite chart could indicate things not being long term. It is at 8 degrees so maybe it won’t be bad. I do have this aspect in my natal chart and he has the quintile in his natal chart. He also has Mars opposition Uranus and Mars opposition Neptune in his natal chart. I think those aspects might be problematic. With drinking and drugs which is what he’s currently going to therapy for. IP: Logged |
itisokay Knowflake Posts: 158 From: canada Registered: Oct 2023
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posted May 24, 2024 08:33 AM
In composite mars/uranus midpoint is conjunct venus. This could mean an accident or some not fully thought actions may take you two to ocassions where you show each other affection, some unpredictable events may bring you together. This could also mean that, when things get fast, excited and unpredictable, you will more likely to like this connection and feel dedicated to relationship, but this might not be same for the other party. It would be nice if you keep in mind that he may not continue to be the clingy member of this rs forever, roles may change. But I think cancer mars tends to be clingy most of the time. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6376 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted May 24, 2024 01:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by itisokay: In composite mars/uranus midpoint is conjunct venus. This could mean an accident or some not fully thought actions may take you two to ocassions where you show each other affection, some unpredictable events may bring you together. This could also mean that, when things get fast, excited and unpredictable, you will more likely to like this connection and feel dedicated to relationship, but this might not be same for the other party. It would be nice if you keep in mind that he may not continue to be the clingy member of this rs forever, roles may change. But I think cancer mars tends to be clingy most of the time.
So he needs a woman with Cancer placements then?
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 191278 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 21, 2024 12:08 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 191278 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 11, 2024 01:21 PM
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6376 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted July 19, 2024 09:52 AM
We are still seeing each other so far I like him. He's nice to me and he puts in effort. I know before I mentioned that I didn't like the clinginess but I don't mind too much. I just like how things feel so far. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 191278 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 26, 2024 11:11 AM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 191278 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 23, 2024 10:54 AM
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