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Diana
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posted May 24, 2024 11:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diana     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Did you ever have this conjunction with anyone? I have it with someone and I hate him. He's one of the only people I argue with, or fight with, and it's even been violent. He's so argumentative and I get totally irritated by him.

PS -- I'm not attracted to him at all. I believe Venus hates mars because Mars is a brute and Venus is refined.

I also heard that Mars/moon is terrible too.

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posted May 25, 2024 03:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.

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posted May 26, 2024 02:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have this with someone, and I hate him, too. His mars conjunct my moon, Venus, and south node. Also vertex, in the 8th. Square my mars in the 4th, trine my Pluto, sextile my Jupiter, inconjunct my Uranus/ascendant.

Never been attracted to him, but he hit on me several times, caused trouble for me. He’s married to a family member.

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posted May 27, 2024 04:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hearttreasure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Diana:
Did you ever have this conjunction with anyone? I have it with someone and I hate him. He's one of the only people I argue with, or fight with, and it's even been violent. He's so argumentative and I get totally irritated by him.

PS -- I'm not attracted to him at all. I believe Venus hates mars because Mars is a brute and Venus is refined.

I also heard that Mars/moon is terrible too.


Are you the Moon or the Mars?

I and my husband have this combo. He is the Moon and I am the Mars.

At first I wasn't attracted to him but he was crazily.

In our relationship he is the one who can be annoyingly irritable. But I think it's because he has Mercury/Mars conjunction in a close aspect. Even in a small discussion, he can trigger an argument to an explosive banter and seems enjoying the argument IF his opponent has a very smart way of thinking and also have a way to make him listen more so he can't find a way to keep pushing the argument too far and longer in duration. I have met lots of Marcury/Mars people and, yes, they enjoy a good argument a lot and can look down at you when you can't keep up. Our argument is around about stupid things he thought I didn't know anything. Now I know how to stop him continuing stupid arguments with me.

We had big fight and violent moments, but it was about him cheating and being dishonest to me or when my Mother in law tried to control our marriage. It's always about a third person and rarely about our relationship itself. When those third party wasn't around our relationship anymore, the relationship feels more peaceful and run smoothly.

It's steamy in bedroom for sure, but I think it's important to know how to properly talk and act around each other.

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posted May 27, 2024 05:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't like this aspect either I've had it with both men and women. And I don't like it with either one. The woman who's Mars conjunct my Moon likes me in a romantic way. Men with their Mars on my Moon Is bad too. The only Mars in Aquarius I like is the singer Lizzo.

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posted May 27, 2024 09:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Librapurr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It should be hard if there’s no attraction or desire to be attracted.
From my experience, it might work well when you have some activities to do together, but it’s hard to have leisure time with those people. They spoil your down time, pick a fight, spoil your mood intentionally, try to make you work somehow. (Different aspects with mars)

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posted May 29, 2024 01:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have this with my husband very loose (like 7 degrees), so maybe I don't feel it as much. While I don't think I "hate" him per se, there are many times I find myself irritated by him or I feel he is insensitive. He tends to affect my mood a lot. If he's not in a good mood, then I'm also not in a good mood. I can always sense whenever he is tense because I start feeling the same way. When he is in a great mood, I also feel it. We have this in Cancer, so it hasn't really been all that physically violent. Yelling and screaming during fights, yes. But nothing that doesn't get resolved the next day or 2.

I think this aspect can go either way and it really all depends on what the chart says. He and I have many other aspects that indicate attraction, so maybe that counteracts the negative stuff as well. If the rest of your synastry with this person is more on the negative side, then I can see why you may feel you hate this person. This sometimes I see in people who have a love-hate relationship.

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posted May 29, 2024 04:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I find people with their Mars on my Moon relentless in regards to trying to get involved with me.

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posted May 29, 2024 10:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My husband's Cap Mars on my Moon. It works like a charm! I am also hugely attracted to Cancer Mars which would be op my Moon and conjunct my Sun.

Perhaps it differs depending what Moon you have? My Cap Moon is not very "sensitive" to aggression. I also have Mars conj Asc so I won't shy away, or back down, from it.

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posted May 29, 2024 02:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DualGemV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think the conjunction comes of too strong...after awhile it might smooth out.

Trine and sextile have a more natural flow.

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
I have this with my husband very loose (like 7 degrees), so maybe I don't feel it as much. While I don't think I "hate" him per se, there are many times I find myself irritated by him or I feel he is insensitive. He tends to affect my mood a lot. If he's not in a good mood, then I'm also not in a good mood. I can always sense whenever he is tense because I start feeling the same way. When he is in a great mood, I also feel it. We have this in Cancer, so it hasn't really been all that physically violent. Yelling and screaming during fights, yes. But nothing that doesn't get resolved the next day or 2.

I think this aspect can go either way and it really all depends on what the chart says. He and I have many other aspects that indicate attraction, so maybe that counteracts the negative stuff as well. If the rest of your synastry with this person is more on the negative side, then I can see why you may feel you hate this person. This sometimes I see in people who have a love-hate relationship.


But that's the thing with Cancer Mars or Moon there's a lot of "feeling" and nedd to be comfortable.

I've had mars conjunct moon double whammy multiple times. The worst part when it happens is being the guy that's unsure because of the Cancer mars.

I'd initially be repulsed by the Aries mars energy conjunct my moon. I'd be thinking this girl is crazy, lol.

After a while it tapers off and you realize the Aries mars person is sticking themselves out for you and it flows more naturally.

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Randall
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posted June 24, 2024 04:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted June 24, 2024 04:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AquaMoon323     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I’ve had Mars conjunct moon a few times im referring to romantic relationships being both Mars & moon. In my experience it has created a hypersensitivity it’s almost like we just don’t speak the say language. A lot of unintentional hurt feelings. And as Mars it doesn’t make Mars a bit more aggressive in pursuit as welll. I disliked being the moon the most. My Mars in in pisces so when I’m Mars and the guys has moon in Pisces it gives him a soften side which I love. But I Dated a guy his aqua Mars & Venus conjunct my moon & it was like a constant round trip between heaven & hell!!

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