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posted July 12, 2024 04:13 AM            

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Kinda at a lost right now and feeling low so i figured i’d try to understand some more. As the title states, im always being abused by men when it comes to my relationships. Mostly verbal, mental and emotional abuse but it’s so prevalent. Especially the verbal. I’m only 22 but my love life feels like i’ve been on this earth for over 80 years… i’m just so tired. Any insights? To add, all my ex’s have been water signs - mainly scorpios and one pisces.

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posted July 13, 2024 11:59 PM            

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posted July 26, 2024 05:22 PM            

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I’d think it’s mostly Venus (in Aries <3) square mars and Venus square Chiron. Venus square mars can create a feisty, sometimes angry tension that wants to be right and fight. It can show up this way if it hasn’t been worked through. The evolved version of it is a sassy, sexy and assertive yet humble power. If you don’t own this energy in yourself, there’s a good chance you’d choose partners who have a version of it. And then, square Chiron, your relationships can be at odds with your deepest wounding. You gotta do the work to heal your Chiron and be aware of those wounds so that your Venus isn’t so affected by them. With Chiron in the 8th house, conjunct mars, there could be a lot to learn there.
Typing this short and direct because I’m super pressed for time but wanted to respond because I feel you! I haven’t been studying astrology half as long as others on here so I hope others can give you some better feedback!
I’d check your asteroids too… especially Nessus.
Much love - it’ll get easier with time

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posted July 26, 2024 05:26 PM            

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PS I also really recommend doing shadow work and looking into sneaky ways you might feed their abusive behavior, without really realizing it. What were the dynamics between men and women you knew when you were little? What did you learn through those dynamics? Do you have any passive aggressive behavior that invites the active version of it in another person? <333

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posted August 23, 2024 10:52 AM            

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posted August 29, 2024 08:20 AM            

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