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Topic: Cheating husband vs Scorpio lust
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Cancergrrl Newflake Posts: 2 From: United States Registered: Jan 2023
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posted July 16, 2024 08:56 AM
Cheating husband vs Scorpio lustMy world fell apart when two years ago I found out my Aries husband and father of my two small children was cheating on me. I was completely blindsided. He was the love of my life. It continued for 6 months. He told me he had fallen in love with her. Since then I’ve caught him in multiple lies, texting other women inappropriately, lying about sending $$ to the woman he had an affair with (as recently as this April), all while saying he loves me and begs me to stay by his side. If we didn’t have small children together, I’d be gone. A girl can only take so much. Around the time his affair first was discovered, his new Scorpio coworker and I locked eyes one night at a work dinner. Things haven’t been the same since. He brazenly told me I deserved better that night. Did I mention my husband is his boss? Nothing physical has happened. We don’t text. We don’t talk on the phone. But we see each other a lot in group settings within our friend group including my husband. We have the deepest conversations in plain sight. He’s held me while I cried. But then he’s also told me the steamiest little one liners in crowded rooms. Wishing I didn’t have pants on, wanting to have me on every surface of every room. There’s this deep mutual understanding/knowing that we would be incredible together. We’ve even talked about it. We’ve never even kissed. He’s in his own toxic relationship of almost a decade as well with lots of baggage. No kids. Not married. They’re in therapy. We respect each other too much to push it any further. I just tell him to find me in another life to which he says, “infinite lifetimes” I’ve never felt an attraction this intense before. Will my husband ever change? Am I stupid for staying with a cheater? Is this just a grass is always greener scenario? Is this Scorpio just a distraction/crush or something more. I can’t stop thinking about him. [img] http://ibb.co/KmZykC6 [/img]
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 191555 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 17, 2024 09:26 AM
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6377 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted July 18, 2024 05:32 PM
He's a Gemini Venus he probably won't change. With the Scoprio guy his, Moon is conjunct your IC and you have Mars conjunct North Node. Can you post the Composite Chart? If it were me I'd see what's up with the Scoprio. Even if it's just to take your mind off your cheating husband but that's just me.IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 28005 From: Here Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 18, 2024 06:11 PM
Please don't blame his Gemini Venus. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 28005 From: Here Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 18, 2024 06:13 PM
I'm so sorry that your husband has done this to you. This other guy? I don't like the sound of him, either. IP: Logged |
kikoman Knowflake Posts: 59 From: Registered: Apr 2024
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posted July 18, 2024 10:27 PM
First of all, I'm so sorry you are going through this. Sending you warm hugs.It seems like you had an Eclipse episode. There was an eclipse on April 8 at 19 degrees in Aries, which is just 1° degree from your DC and opposite your Saturn & Pluto in Libra. This likely revealed an uncomfortable truth that is strongly karmic. Eclipses often wipe out things that don't have the strength to continue. This eclipse series isn't over yet, as there is a Solar Eclipse on March 29, 2025, at 9° Aries coming up. This last Aries eclipse might be the day of closing this whole saga with your cheating husband. After the last Aries eclipse, if you still want to stay with him, it will require some time and effort, likely a minimum of 6 months. I've experienced a really bad Eclipse episode with someone before and have done some research on it, so I understand how it flows, you can save the relationship but it requires a serious effort. Eclipses work as a series, like chapters in a book. This **** is like an earthquake that helps you redirect and evolve into your true soul path. Regarding the Scorpio guy, I see why you’re attracted to each other. there are many positive and tight contacts. The Uranus contacts make the connection feel electric, but they could also cause things to end suddenly. I'm not sure if your relationship with him has staying power, but it could be fun while it lasts. IP: Logged |
TooMuchVirgo* Newflake Posts: 5 From: Citizen of the world Registered: Feb 2021
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posted July 22, 2024 06:13 PM
Please leave your husband to save your self- esteem, self respect and to actually leave your life open to someone else who will love you, respect and actually wants to be with you-- a future soul mate. (If that's what you want. ) He will never change, this marriage will get worse with time and he might leave you. How much worse will you feel if he's dumping you??? Do you really deserve this? No . Save yourself. The universe/God will reward you for loving yourself💙💙💙. Also, you block any blessings coming your way when he's still in the picture. IP: Logged |
antiphon Knowflake Posts: 57 From: Registered: Aug 2018
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posted July 29, 2024 10:28 AM
I don’t see a lot going on with the Scorpio guy. It makes me think he might be just taking advantage of your situation. IP: Logged |
antiphon Knowflake Posts: 57 From: Registered: Aug 2018
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posted July 31, 2024 09:06 AM
I don’t see a lot going on with the Scorpio guy. It makes me think he might be just taking advantage of your situation. IP: Logged |
Cancergrrl Newflake Posts: 2 From: United States Registered: Jan 2023
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posted August 01, 2024 11:55 AM
Thank you all for your input. Here are the composites: [img] http://ibb.co/93CVwY0 [/img] [img] http://ibb.co/z4vvtKG [/img] IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 191555 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 25, 2024 06:47 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 191555 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 30, 2024 12:41 PM
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