posted July 16, 2024 08:56 AM            

My world fell apart when two years ago I found out my Aries husband and father of my two small children was cheating on me. I was completely blindsided. He was the love of my life. It continued for 6 months. He told me he had fallen in love with her. Since then I’ve caught him in multiple lies, texting other women inappropriately, lying about sending $$ to the woman he had an affair with (as recently as this April), all while saying he loves me and begs me to stay by his side. If we didn’t have small children together, I’d be gone. A girl can only take so much.

Around the time his affair first was discovered, his new Scorpio coworker and I locked eyes one night at a work dinner. Things haven’t been the same since. He brazenly told me I deserved better that night. Did I mention my husband is his boss?

Nothing physical has happened. We don’t text. We don’t talk on the phone. But we see each other a lot in group settings within our friend group including my husband. We have the deepest conversations in plain sight. He’s held me while I cried. But then he’s also told me the steamiest little one liners in crowded rooms. Wishing I didn’t have pants on, wanting to have me on every surface of every room. There’s this deep mutual understanding/knowing that we would be incredible together. We’ve even talked about it. We’ve never even kissed. He’s in his own toxic relationship of almost a decade as well with lots of baggage. No kids. Not married. They’re in therapy. We respect each other too much to push it any further. I just tell him to find me in another life to which he says, “infinite lifetimes” I’ve never felt an attraction this intense before.

Will my husband ever change? Am I stupid for staying with a cheater? Is this just a grass is always greener scenario? Is this Scorpio just a distraction/crush or something more. I can’t stop thinking about him.

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posted July 18, 2024 10:27 PM            

It seems like you had an Eclipse episode. There was an eclipse on April 8 at 19 degrees in Aries, which is just 1° degree from your DC and opposite your Saturn & Pluto in Libra. This likely revealed an uncomfortable truth that is strongly karmic. Eclipses often wipe out things that don't have the strength to continue. This eclipse series isn't over yet, as there is a Solar Eclipse on March 29, 2025, at 9° Aries coming up. This last Aries eclipse might be the day of closing this whole saga with your cheating husband. After the last Aries eclipse, if you still want to stay with him, it will require some time and effort, likely a minimum of 6 months. I've experienced a really bad Eclipse episode with someone before and have done some research on it, so I understand how it flows, you can save the relationship but it requires a serious effort. Eclipses work as a series, like chapters in a book. This **** is like an earthquake that helps you redirect and evolve into your true soul path.

posted August 01, 2024 11:55 AM            

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