posted July 18, 2024 10:44 PM            

From my notebook:
This aspect indicates intense sexual attraction but can be a problem if you get into stupid jealousy games because it’s so intense that loyalty is expected. Generally, this aspect makes the Mars person more reactive, and impulsive with their words. If one partner is childish and selfish, it can turn ugly because any sign of betraying the relationship will be magnified.

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I find those words to be true in my experience, painful jealousy and anxiety like never before but I am sensing some strong positive transformation happening with him.

posted July 19, 2024 07:21 AM            

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Originally posted by kikoman:
I've been digging Mars Square Pluto cuz I have that aspect with my current partner. (we have a so many Pluto hard aspects tbh)

From my notebook:
This aspect indicates intense sexual attraction but can be a problem if you get into stupid jealousy games because it’s so intense that loyalty is expected. Generally, this aspect makes the Mars person more reactive, and impulsive with their words. If one partner is childish and selfish, it can turn ugly because any sign of betraying the relationship will be magnified.

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I find those words to be true in my experience, painful jealousy and anxiety like never before but I am sensing some strong positive transformation happening with him.

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posted July 22, 2024 04:18 PM            

I am sure Partner A is natally intense/competitive and you might be fascinated by that. and possibly you both have a lot of sexual attraction, possessiveness, or jealousy - emotionally charged.

I've read that A t-square is like a pressure cooker of energy, edginess, and stress in general, I bet it's similar in synastry and more intense in your case with Mars+Pluto involved in the mix. the middle "leg", the one squaring the two opposites, is supposed to be the clue that can help release/balance out the T-square tension. So in your case, my interpretation would be his Pluto - if he can channel the positive quality of Pluto, the intensity & control in a more constructive way, you guys would be able to handle the tension. Any synastry that involves hard aspects with Pluto requires the practice of open and honest communication to overcome, otherwise, it could get ugly and resentful.

posted July 23, 2024 07:48 AM            

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Originally posted by kikoman:
Ahh sorry, I was confused with the question. Sounds like a lot of his Martian/aggressive energy creating tension with your Venus energy. I think what sign, element, and house it's located in are also important factors.

I am sure Partner A is natally intense/competitive and you might be fascinated by that. and possibly you both have a lot of sexual attraction, possessiveness, or jealousy - emotionally charged.

I've read that A t-square is like a pressure cooker of energy, edginess, and stress in general, I bet it's similar in synastry and more intense in your case with Mars+Pluto involved in the mix. the middle "leg", the one squaring the two opposites, is supposed to be the clue that can help release/balance out the T-square tension. So in your case, my interpretation would be his Pluto - if he can channel the positive quality of Pluto, the intensity & control in a more constructive way, you guys would be able to handle the tension. Any synastry that involves hard aspects with Pluto requires the practice of open and honest communication to overcome, otherwise, it could get ugly and resentful.

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