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posted September 21, 2024 01:39 PM            

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I just thought of this, and I think it would be interesting. Is there a relationship you had with someone, could be any type of relationship, where that person's words hurt you a lot? Or destroyed your pride and your ego?

What synastry aspects did you two have, and what do you think was the aspect that caused their words to sting so much to you?

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posted September 21, 2024 03:13 PM            

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This is a great idea for a thread.

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posted October 01, 2024 06:30 PM            

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posted October 02, 2024 02:24 AM            

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I think I could say I have a lot of this energy with my long term FWB. Some of the aspects I think that cause that is our HEAVY Saturn aspects!!

His moon is conjunct my Saturn AND Asc in my first house. And I have an aqua moon Saturn Cap Saturn in my first house natally do ALOT coming on in my 1H!!

AND my moon is also in his 8H so I’m extremely emotionally raw with him and I feel his Cap Moon can be very cold & dismissive with me. His words can be extremely condescending and patronizing. He makes me feel like an emotional toddler throwing a tantrum when really he’s just a cold emotionally immature avoidant!

We also have sun square Pluto and sun opp Pluto so I’m sure that plays a part as well! Oh and not to mention his Leo sun opp my Aqua moon.

So yea in summary ALL OF THE ABOVE 😂😂 though I feel The Saturn aspects are the main culprit!

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posted October 27, 2024 04:33 PM            

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posted November 26, 2024 06:47 PM            

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posted December 19, 2024 09:51 PM            

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I believe any combination of aspects can be ego-destroying.. just in different ways/ areas of life.

Saturn - Authority conflicts. Insecurities. Making someone feel inferior. Imposter syndrome.

Venus - Insecurities. Outcast in social circles..

Mercury - Ridiculing someone's communication style/ thoughts.

Depending on someone's maturity level and self-awareness, anything can be ego-destroying. I would maybe look towards the 2nd house to see what the native values and then go from there? 2H 4H 8H 10H 12H? Whatever touches the deepest parts of us or the most exposed (on the opposite end) parts, tend to affect our egos the most imo/ ime.

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