posted October 07, 2024 08:26 PM            

Humbly looking for general feelings and advice concerning this relationship. We’ve been friends since 2015, and met around the time of the Pisces/Virgo eclipse. I got married to someone else and then divorced, we stayed friends throughout that time. He was also involved with someone else and has been single for 3 years now. He never made a romantic move until now, and have been just friends but now that he finally made a move, I’m triggered! But it is a very supportive and sweet connection so far, and would love to get some feedback about the potential role we are supposed to play in each others lives. He and I are both heavily Plutonian personalities, and I’m just wondering if this has a chance to go the distance or are we just going to tear each other to pieces? 😅 Thanks in advance.

posted November 12, 2024 05:01 AM            

Also the synastry with who is who would be useful to see.

I have quite a lot of Pluto in my composite with my partner, including Pluto conjunct the NN and the IC. I can see you have Pluto conjunct SN and the IC. Also I have Pluto making a t square with Mars and our Venus/Sun conjunction. It’s been a year but so far it is a beautiful, kind, gentle, respectful and equal relationship. Our sun and Venus and Jupiter are all in cancer though so the issues that come up (and there have never some) are resolved quickly and easily. We both have Pluto in our natals though so are comfortable with the energy.

posted November 26, 2024 06:45 AM            

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Originally posted by PlutoIsMyTeacher13:
Could you post the composite on its own with the aspect chart included? I find it really helpful. The composite with natals chart is very small when I open it.

Also the synastry with who is who would be useful to see.

I have quite a lot of Pluto in my composite with my partner, including Pluto conjunct the NN and the IC. I can see you have Pluto conjunct SN and the IC. Also I have Pluto making a t square with Mars and our Venus/Sun conjunction. It’s been a year but so far it is a beautiful, kind, gentle, respectful and equal relationship. Our sun and Venus and Jupiter are all in cancer though so the issues that come up (and there have never some) are resolved quickly and easily. We both have Pluto in our natals though so are comfortable with the energy.

If you are curious: http://imgur.com/a/rWlopUu

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You do have that T square with Pluto! We have one too with Venus and the Moon. I am honestly terrified of mars-square Pluto aspects because in my experience, I natally have moon-mars and I can take it to another level when I’m pushed enough. It takes a long time tho.

posted November 27, 2024 10:14 AM            

I’ve learned a lot about how to prevent myself from boiling over and basically it requires a lot of honesty and vulnerability. I like to be owned but not controlled too so totally get you.

I’d say our relationship is quite Plutonian in its intensity and ability to transform but we’ve got some really great communication aspects. Also our composite Venus and sun are in cancer. So far it feels very nurturing, deeply loving, kind and gentle. We communicate with each other incredibly well and sort issues out very quickly. There is a lot of acceptance and depth. We’ve been together for a year.

I was in a relationship that had only one difficult Pluto aspect which was square Saturn and it was a wide orb. It was literally the most toxic relationship ever but I feel like it was down to barely any loving aspects.

I honestly don’t think that all Plutonian relationships are doomed particularly when both are Plutonian and want a bit of a challenge and intensity.

Look at the rest of your chart, and if you are both evolved enough I think it can work. The strongest aspects we have are sun conjunct venus, with the conjunction sextile moon, mercury and Neptune sextile Pluto and a Mercury square with Uranus. Which are yours?