posted February 24, 2025 07:35 AM            

I met someone last year who I felt a connection too, it’s been a very slow burn and we are just becoming friends. I can’t shake the feeling that this is something important, that there’s a lesson to be learnt here and it is important for my life perhaps… I’ve been triggered in a variety of ways, lost of past traumas and hurts are coming up, even though he hasn’t done anything, it’s just the subject of the connection and I’m still not fully sure of him yet, but I’m willing to work through the lesson being presented to me, even though there’s a lot of resistance and I don’t know the outcome. I’d love some interpretations on these charts, and I’ll give some of mine too.

Some notes: I feel like the synastry could be more fun but he has a couple planets in my 7th house(I’m the Gemini sun), of which his Venus is conjuncting my Chiron (strange because Astroseek puts his Venus in his 12th house but astroseniest puts it in the 11th); if I bring out the orbs to an unrealistic amount his Venus is opposite my moon by 14 degrees (which is ridiculous I know), and puts our moons conjunct by 14 degrees. I know those numbers are just a touch, but i like knowing they are there. We have an ascendent/moon opposition, which is nice. Saturn/Jupiter conjunctions, which is curious… not sure how that could play out. Nevertheless, I do see some nice aspects but also some problematic ones.

The composite is another beast all together, I get a feeling of stability and love from it, but I’m not sure if that’s just my wishful thinking as Neptune/uranus conjunct is opposite the sort of love stellium in the 7th house; keep in mind that we are of very different cultures, he is Chinese and I am South African - he also has a child from a previous marriage, on top of that we work together (I don’t see him every day though). So those planets opposite the stellium make me worry that it would contribute to the relationship being extremely unstable, but that’s not exactly the vibe I’m getting from the chart, or the Saturn/jupiter/NN is contradicting that in some way. I know Chiron is opposite Saturn (widely) but I seem to have that repeated everywhere I look so, I think it’s just something that I need to learn. Interesting Saturn is conjunction the north node and Jupiter, which I find interesting - it makes me wonder about being pushed to learn lessons together, grow together in commitment even if it takes time. Mars/Pluto, I’m not sure that counts as a conjunction but I’m not too sure how sexy that is in the 11th house haha - also mars is coming to **** everything, as its square to Chiron and that entire bloody north node stellium, what the hell does that mean? Fear of going deeper into friendship? Lots of people watching us? Struggling to share finances or something…. Also the moon has zero cushioning which worries me, the 4th house isn’t a bad placement but it’s squared literally everything and if we count wideish orbs it could be widely conjunct both our moons. Also sun conjunct DC? With vertex apart of the stellium…

The Davison looks a little more favorable for the moon, and everything is on one side of the chart basically - not too sure how the Davison is relevant. If you have anything to say, please be gentle, I feel like this is a good man but right now the connection is still forming and is delicate. I’ll also be going through my saturn return this month, so yay me…

I’ve inserted the charts below, I hope you can read them clearly, I left the orbs to the general one Astro does, and I couldn’t seem to add any of the other asteroids. Thank you ☺️

Let me know if you would like me to add natal charts ~

posted February 24, 2025 07:41 AM            

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posted February 25, 2025 11:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
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posted March 01, 2025 08:14 PM            

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Originally posted by PlutoIsMyTeacher13:
Hello,
So still learning but just looking at the composite, you’ve got the a stellium in cancer in the 7th house, with the vertex there too, which is lovely… BUT it’s all in opposition to the Uranus/neptune conjunction in the 1st house. Then you’ve got a helluva t square with the moon at the peak… Then no positive aspects from the moon… So, there may be love and good communication/ connection but there is also disillusion and instability. I had composite with similar aspects with the moon and Neptune and the sun/venus and it was a very difficult relationship. Also didn’t help that we had a Pluto Saturn square!!

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