posted March 12, 2025 01:39 AM            

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(I am Blue/Partner A, he is Orange/Partner B).

His Venus sq my Pluto (we both had this natal too). His Mars sq my Moon. Intense stuff, right?

We became involved quite quickly (probably too quickly), for one month. He was the one that pursued me, asked me out, was very forward with his affection and interest but as soon as I reciprocated this he pulled away and said he is "not ready". Which ultimately I (sadly) interpret as "not ready for a relationship", i.e. "not ready for a relationship (with you"). I've come to learn the "with you" is often silent. It's not always there but a lot of the time it is.

Regardless, I am still trying to wrap my head around it all, (working thru) lessons that have propped up for me through meeting him, and whether anything here indicates that we have unfinished business… I am doing my best to get on with my life… I know we weren’t together long, but the separation is still fresh. I'm just not sure now why there's any other reason the universe threw this person at me other than to learn yet another Venusian-Plutonian lesson in love.

So much 12th house overlay here... I have dreamt about him, unsure if he has about me… I didn’t ask. Which I find interesting because I have read many threads on here saying that can definitely happen with 12th house overlays, but typically it is the house person that has these dreams?! Just want to clarify that or any thoughts, or others experiences, with that.

Also, I’m not sure how much this could mean but we met on February 1st, and that week from January 27th to February 2nd we had the rare triple conjunction between Venus, Neptune and the North Node (which I don’t believe has happened for 166 years?! :uh-oh