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Topic: Is my friend lying to me? - Opinion needed
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Emsie
Knowflake Posts: 1584
From: EU
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted February 27, 2024 01:30 PM
  
Hi Everyone,Could someone please confirm my thoughts about this situation? My Q was: Did A hide her instagram story from me on purpose? The chart: https://ibb.co/wc53Rms  I have a 'friend' who has recently been caught for hiding a certain thing from me online. I got to know about it via an unsuspecting common friend of ours who unintentionally shared some info with me. I confronted my 'friend' about this and since then she has started to get tangled into a spiral of unnecessary explanations and blaming the social media platform for a tech glitch while it was 99.9% evident she purposely hid the thing. She is clearly trying to blow smoke over the situation, too much wishy-washy stuff...
From a horary chart POV - I would definitely use the 8H (hidden things) and 11H (friends). 11H ruler Moon opposes 8H NN conj Chiron.
The other placement I would look at is ASC (me) vs. DSC (her).
ASC (me) ruler Mercury in Pisces 6H conj Vertex-Sun-Saturn = my restricted visibility.
DSC (her) ruler Neptune conj DSC = her trying to smoke screen things.
DSC (her) ruler Neptune opp ASC = she is doing the hiding and smoke screening against me
To me this seems like she is indeed hiding and lying. Do you agree, or do you see this as a technical glitch?
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Randall
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posted February 29, 2024 04:28 PM
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Emsie
Knowflake Posts: 1584
From: EU
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted February 29, 2024 05:26 PM
Thank you Randall for the bump.  I hope someone can jump in.Update on the situation: I've just ended the friendship due to major differences regarding our core values. Nonetheless, I'm still curious if my hunch is right based on the prior evidences. IP: Logged |
Librapurr
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posted March 04, 2024 12:51 PM
Usually Horary uses traditional rulerships. The querent ruled by Mercury and represented by moon. The other is ruled by Jupiter and might considered as moon also as 11th ruler.
Moon being in Libra in 1st, the friendship is significant here. There is an aspect between Mercury and Jupiter so the answer is yes. However, Mercury is in 6th and detriment, something obscures judgment negatively.
If we take 11th ruler, the answer is no and everything is much better.
Axises are mutable, the situation can change at the time of the question.
There’s a good aspect between moon and Venus and them being in Air signs so there is still an opportunity to improve situation and communication at time of question.
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Emsie
Knowflake Posts: 1584
From: EU
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted March 13, 2024 06:33 AM
Hi Librapurr,Many thanks for the valuable input and the confirmation. Definitely the first scenario came true shown by the Mercury-Jupiter aspect. Since then, I ended the friendship with this person permanently as it was brewing under the surface for a while and she started to change in a negative way I was no longer willing to tolerate anymore. She became overly materialistic and a show-off putting everything "glittery" in display. In return, she started projecting all her insecurities on me on purpose out of revenge, which wasn't entirely new for me as she can be revengeful and envious of others in general, but in this situation her reaction surprised me that for her after her pile of lies and denial I was the evil and not her. Could this be signified by the mutable angles? IP: Logged |
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