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Originally posted by mir:
Wow how impressive you could do that ^.____________________________________
Another thing. Called [b]STRII DIRGHA.
I now found out that there are 3 things you better would NOT have together (rajju dosha / vedha dosha AND a-lack-of STRII DIRGHA)
Unfortunately WE share the blemish of NO Strii Dirgha.
In fact, it's very simply to determine this yes-or-no blemish;
Strii Dirgha exists for a couple when the Nakshatra that contains the Moon of the male is more than 13 Nakshatras (some say more than 10 nakshatras) AHEAD of the Nakshatra that contains the Moon of the female
^ In Western terms your Moon has to be AHEAD of his'.
Example;
His Moon Gem
Your Moon Libra
^ Your Moon is AHEAD of his, which is great.
His Moon Libra
Your moon Gem
^ Blemish.
Globally, the further away his Moon from yours the better.
But now here the text I found about it... it took my breath away, really!
So, do YOU share a lack-of Strii Dirgha, and if yes, do you resonate with the text below?
[QUOTE]
Strii-Diirgha
You don't have Strii-Diirgha matching. This means that the distance from the woman's Moon to the man's is not far enough; the shortest distance is from the woman's Moon to the man's. This causes the creative energy in the relationship to flow from the receptively centered female to the action and initiative centered male. Masculine energy and, therefore, most men feel most loved when their thoughts and actions are respected. Feminine energy and, therefore, most women feel most loved when their feelings are respected and they are loved for themselves, rather than for what they do. Since Strii-Diirgha is not present the energy tends to flow from the woman to the man, causing her to initiate more of what happens in the relationship. This causes the woman to wonder and question if the man is really there for her; if he thinks of her and loves her, since she is doing more, investing more, etc. in the relationship. She generally finds it more difficult, therefore, to feel secure in the relationship. The man, in fact, usually does think of her, but before he is ready to begin or initiate something, it is already getting too late for her and by then she feels like she has to get things moving. She also does not have the opportunity to be cherished and loved for herself, since she is more often thrown into the active, doing role in the relationship. The man also suffers as a result of Strii-Diirgha not being present. Since the creative energy tends to flow from the woman to the man, he has little opportunity to have his actions and thoughts respected, resulting in him not feeling loved. Before he has finished a thought or initiated an action, the woman most likely has already done so or, if not, she has already asked him to do it. If she has already done so, then there is no room for him to be appreciated for what he may do for the woman. And worse, if she always asks him to do stuff, then he begins to feel pressured or nagged.
Feminine energy bonds when it receives, masculine energy bonds when it gives. (When a woman receives a gift from a man, she feels, "He loves me." When a man receives a gift from a woman, he thinks, "Great, I don't have to spend my time shopping for underwear, etc." and then he may think, "How nice/sweet of her." Only occasionally will he think, "Wow! She loves me.") Therefore, when Strii-Diirgha is not present and the energy flows from the woman to the man and the woman is put into the more active, doing, giving role and the man into the more receptive role, neither person bonds fully to the other. However, feminine energy bonds stronger sexually than does masculine energy, so after having sex the woman ends up being more bonded to the man than he is to her. Strii-Diirgha not being present has not allowed the man the opportunity to invest in giving the necessary time, energy, money, thoughts, etc. into the relationship that would bond him to the woman. The result is that eventually the woman is more bonded to the man than he is to her and so even though she may do everything for him, he will eventually leave her. That is why this matching is called Strii-Diirgha- length of wife, if it is not present the relationship does not last long and the woman suffers most because she ends up being the more bonded of the pair. If, on the other hand, the relationship does last longer, then the woman usually ends up drained from all her doing, until finally she has to leave. The lack of her being cherished and not receiving has not recharged her.
Since the communication between the two hemispheres of the brain in a woman's brain is much faster than that in a man's, a woman has a lower capacity to do something she has planned when she no longer feels like it than does the man, since her emotions can so suddenly override the rational, determined side of her brain. Therefore, in times of duress in the relationship, since Strii-Diirgha is not present, the woman, who may be emotionally sick of the relationship at the moment, is forced into the role of deciding what to do with the relationship. At that moment, her emotions having a high capacity to overrun the rational side of her brain can cause her to forget about the good the relationship has given and any commitment made, she can only feel that the relationship is perhaps not meant to be. So she goes to the man and says, "I don't think we should be together." The man replies, "maybe you are right," because the lack of Strii-Diirgha has not allowed him to organize his thoughts and decide how to handle this problem, and he doesn't want to risk infuriating or hurting the woman more by arguing at that moment. This reply usually makes the woman feel worse, because what she really needs to hear is, "We have a pretty good relationship and love each other, we can work this little problem out, etc." Not hearing this, she does not feel secure in the relationship, and even if they do get back together in a few days or few weeks time, the foundation of security has been weakened.
Since the communication between the two hemispheres of the brain in a man's brain is much slower than that in a woman's, a man has a lower capacity to do take in something new when he is already engaged with something else and see how he honestly feels about it. Therefore, since Strii-Diirgha is not present and the energy in the relationship flows from the woman to the man, the woman may often come to the man and propose something to him while he is otherwise engaged. It can actually take him 20 minutes just to see how he feels about her proposal, during which time he is generally feeling irritated, pressured or nagged and she is felling unimportant, not heard, or not cared about.
As can be seen, Strii-Diirgha not being present can create a host of problems. It is, in fact, one of the main reasons that relationship fail after time. Fortunately the worst effects of Strii-Diirgha are avoided and the relationship becomes possible if Rasi Kuta is met, or if there is an exception to Rasi Kuta not being met, so keep reading and find out if you will be able to make this work.
@[/B][/QUOTE]I think the Tamil one is more accurate, in tamil they are having 5/10 compatibility with their rashi lords being friends, Jupiter and Mars. I don't think why Jupiter and Mars can be enemies. Rajju, Veda are good and Stree Dhrirgham is satisfactory.
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