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Topic: Will I Stay Single for Ever ?
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Somna7H
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posted July 16, 2018 05:10 AM
  
Hi,
I'm 36 year old single male.
My time is not running good since year 2000. Currently facing lot of trouble regarding career. Still I want to clear some confusion from my mind. Please help me. I have few questions.1. Will I ever get married ?
2. If Yes then Arrange Marriage or Love Marriage ?
3. If I will marry someone then when(approximate time),how(possible circumstances) and to whom(features, characteristics of that woman etc).
Please forgive me if I asked too many questions. 😷 My Basic Vedic Chart:  IP: Logged |
AnastasiyaEnchanted
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From: Canada
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted July 16, 2018 05:21 PM
Hi,
I am not very good at reading Vedic charts but the one thing that struck me is that your 7th house lord, Mars, is conjunct Saturn. Saturn also aspects your 7th house and aspects venus, the planet of relationships.Saturn represents obstacles and delay. On the positive, it represents commitment and stability. Saturn does not deny it just delays. So since your 7th house of partnership and relationships is under the influence of Saturn, it would mean that love relationships will simply come later in life. However, when you do meet that woman your relationship will be long-lasting and committed. She could potentially also have some Saturn qualities in her. For example, she might be significantly younger than you are or much older (Saturn represents a large age difference). She also could be hardworking, responsible, and mature emotionally if not in age. Don't worry! I can't tell when you will meet that woman but you eventually will. Your relationship should be long lasting and full of commitment  IP: Logged |
Somna7H
Knowflake Posts: 1915
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posted July 16, 2018 06:55 PM
Thank you. 😃Most of the things delayed in my life.
Completed Education later in life compare to other. All class mates were way younger than me when I was doing Diploma in Architecture.
Delayed to get first job.
And still struggling in career and no stable Job yet. Only good thing I can imagine that Saturn will not gonna deny anything.
When you do things later in life than it should be the experience is different.
I'm not saying good or bad.
It would be great if someone answer my specific questions. I'm still waiting for more help.
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Somna7H
Knowflake Posts: 1915
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posted July 16, 2018 09:12 PM
Currently running Saturn/Saturn till end of 2020. Saturn is dominant now.------------------
My Chart: http://imgur.com/m0qQlLl IP: Logged |
mirage29
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posted July 18, 2018 06:21 PM
Happy Birthday, Somna!! (July 19)   May the ways of finding Prosperity come up to the portals of your life, and knock incessantly and LOUDLY!!  Birthday Blessings!!  IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted July 18, 2018 07:08 PM
Thank you very much. 😁
Hope all of your word become true.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted August 08, 2018 05:05 PM
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Randall
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posted August 09, 2018 03:07 PM
Happy Late Birthday!IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted August 09, 2018 07:17 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
Happy Late Birthday!
Thank you and I'm still single. 😂 IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted November 06, 2018 11:47 AM
I suspect you will find someone soon.IP: Logged |
Somna7H
Knowflake Posts: 1915
From: East India Company
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posted November 06, 2018 11:46 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
I suspect you will find someone soon.
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My Chart :
http://imgur.com/hCRDawD IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted April 21, 2019 01:22 PM
Bump!IP: Logged |
Somna7H
Knowflake Posts: 1915
From: East India Company
Registered: Apr 2018
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posted April 24, 2019 07:16 AM
Good news!
I'm still Single. 
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Originally posted by Randall:
Bump!
Thank you!
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Dumuzi
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posted April 24, 2019 07:51 AM
navamsa (d9) chart would be helpful with telling you that, but you also have 2 malefics in your 5th house which isn't going to help you in that department also 30's so navamsa is even more important your 7th house ruler is a malefic that's sharing a house with another malefic which adds to the delays jupiter in the 6th can cause delays in having a child so i would include that in there the saturn-mars conjunction really ***** **** up though natal chart wise i get this feeling the vibe you give off is pushing women away have you considered just messing around and finding a couple hook ups to get rid of some of the tension you have with women? inconsequential hook ups might help you sort your head out IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted April 24, 2019 09:39 PM
Thank you!Inconsequential ?
My Saturn in making me very serious.
I always serious about relationship and I always care about consequences.
That's why I never engaged in casual fling or Inconsequential hook up. Should I need to reconsider it ? 🤔 quote:
Originally posted by Dumuzi:
navamsa (d9) chart would be helpful with telling you that, but you also have 2 malefics in your 5th house which isn't going to help you in that department also 30's so navamsa is even more important your 7th house ruler is a malefic that's sharing a house with another malefic which adds to the delays jupiter in the 6th can cause delays in having a child so i would include that in there the saturn-mars conjunction really ***** **** up though natal chart wise i get this feeling the vibe you give off is pushing women away have you considered just messing around and finding a couple hook ups to get rid of some of the tension you have with women? inconsequential hook ups might help you sort your head out
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Somna7H
Knowflake Posts: 1915
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posted April 24, 2019 09:41 PM
I have D9 and D10 in the do thread.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum38/HTML/000219.html IP: Logged |
Dumuzi
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posted April 24, 2019 11:11 PM
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Originally posted by Somna7H:
I have D9 and D10 in the do thread.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum38/HTML/000219.html
got one that's not a mess? i find the ones without the lagna being made obvious difficult to read and the north indian style is a ***** too not to be a picky mother ****** but... i can't read something i find visually unappealing to that extent IP: Logged |
Somna7H
Knowflake Posts: 1915
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posted April 25, 2019 12:00 AM
I don't know how to get D9 from astodircom
But if you unable read the image then let me write in words for you. If that may little help.D9 Auarius Asc.
Rahu in Pisces 2nd.
Mercury in Taurus 3rd.
Sun Conjunct Saturn in Cancer 4th.
Mars Conjunct Ketu in Virgo 8th.
Moon Conjunct Venus in Scorpio 10th.
Jupiter in Sag 11th House. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi
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posted April 25, 2019 12:41 AM
honestly, it's not the best chart for relationships, but maybe instead of focusing on that go outside and meet chicks and see what happenscant base life on astrology what exactly is it thats giving you such an issue with women? in your opinion IP: Logged |
Somna7H
Knowflake Posts: 1915
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Registered: Apr 2018
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posted April 25, 2019 06:37 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Dumuzi:
go outside and meet chicks and see what happens
Not bad idea.
See no choice left me. quote:
Originally posted by Dumuzi:
[B]what exactly is it thats giving you such an issue with women? in your opinion
Tough question.
I don't know the real answer too.
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Dumuzi
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posted April 25, 2019 07:01 AM
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Originally posted by Somna7H:
Tough question.
I don't know the real answer too.
well what do you think it is? what has your life been like that you have difficulty connecting? women are pretty much everywhere, a lot of them are forward, and people in general are usually friendly enough sometimes reflecting on what's going on there helps sort **** out, it seems like you're not reflecting enough if you can't think of reasons why
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Somna7H
Knowflake Posts: 1915
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Registered: Apr 2018
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posted April 25, 2019 09:29 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Dumuzi:
well what do you think it is? what has your life been like that you have difficulty connecting?
May be it's my economic problems.
Since born I'm always worried about money.
I have to sacrifice many things due to lack of money from family.
Had to left good school.
Failed to choose favourite subject even I have the capacity.
Some how manage to complete education and it was good enough. Way Better than any other in my league. But unfortunately failed to get good job and so same thing. I'm still economically poor.
So I was always busy with thinking about job and money.
But it can be an excuse.
I can't connect cos even poor people do marry. So ultimate I don't know.
Or may be you are right.
I'm unable to reflect myself. 🤔 IP: Logged |
Dumuzi
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posted April 25, 2019 10:51 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Somna7H:
May be it's my economic problems.
Since born I'm always worried about money.
I have to sacrifice many things due to lack of money from family.
Had to left good school.
Failed to choose favourite subject even I have the capacity.
Some how manage to complete education and it was good enough. Way Better than any other in my league. But unfortunately failed to get good job and so same thing. I'm still economically poor.
So I was always busy with thinking about job and money.
But it can be an excuse.
I can't connect cos even poor people do marry. So ultimate I don't know.
Or may be you are right.
I'm unable to reflect myself. 🤔
interesting because i was going to say your chart is very materially focused and less focused on other people, on relating on cultivating relationships etc there's a definite block there you know when you focus on your job what you get is a job, when you focus on school what you get is a degree; focus on women you get a woman that simple you don't need that **** for a relationship or to have sex or anything like that you've done a bunch of other **** in your life at this point except focusing on what you want which is connecting with people, why is that? you seem to care so why do you look towards everything else? are you insecure with yourself? IP: Logged |
Somna7H
Knowflake Posts: 1915
From: East India Company
Registered: Apr 2018
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posted April 25, 2019 11:28 AM
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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
are you insecure with yourself?
Yes, I'm Insecure Materially.
I'm so much focus on Jon still end up with cheap $hit job with no money.
May be same for Women too.
I'm trying to focusing but not good enough. Let's see how long and how hard I have to try.
Thanks for your help! IP: Logged |
Dumuzi
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posted April 25, 2019 11:39 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Somna7H:
Yes, I'm Insecure Materially.
I'm so much focus on Jon still end up with cheap $hit job with no money.
May be same for Women too.
I'm trying to focusing but not good enough. Let's see how long and how hard I have to try.
Thanks for your help!
how is a job going to help you find a woman though? that's what i'm not getting, the two aren't necessarily related you realize that right? you could be rich and that doesn't mean you'll find a worthwhile relationship, could be poor and still find someone who loves you
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