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CHARISMATIQUE
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posted July 26, 2001 06:58 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dear Laura Elizabeth,

You have an extremely well thought out and well rounded opinion on the subject of abundance. Many thanks for sharing it with Lindaland!

We have the same middle name-beautiful, isn't it?


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posted July 26, 2001 07:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That was beautiful, Laura. Linda practiced what she preached by giving away 50 percent of her money (after bills) to charities and strangers. We sometimes forget that angels often come in very dirty, unkempt, and untidy packages. Otherwise, it wouldn't be much of a test. Thank you for sharing such wise words of wisdom.

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posted July 27, 2001 12:15 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
WOO HOO!! Laura....you nailed that directly on the head
WELCOME TO THE SITE...

And being an accountant, you have first hand knowledge of just what money can do or not do. People need to remember that money is just an idea...how you handle that idea is up to you...

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Laura Elizabeth
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posted July 28, 2001 07:27 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you all for the Welcome and your kind words!

Charismatique, I like the middle name too

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Laura Elizabeth
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posted July 28, 2001 08:07 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Poverty happens to be one of my "causes", if you will. That's why I jumped into this thread to begin with.

I've worked for years on all sorts of poverty issues, mostly in developing nations. Currently I'm working on land issues (and really should be writing that paper rather than playing here ).

When you or I are lucky enough to buy our first home, it's a given that the land undernearth belongs to us as well - it's part of the deal. That's why you and I can get a mortgage (aside from having the credit it to do so) - because if we default the bank can foreclose and sell the land (with house) to someone else. It's never about the physical house.

In developing nations, land is not for sale. In most countries, no one really knows who exactly owns the land. There were never records kept - mostly information handed down from one jefe or tribal chief to the next. And, human nature being what it is so often (sigh), enough bribes can get you what you want, even if the person you are bribing has no right to give it to you.

In South America and Africa (the two countries I deal with most), it's a deeply tangled mess. And without this one simple step in the process, economic progress for most of the poor is out of the question.

Why? They can't get a loan to farm or create goods to help improve their financial standing. They can't buy the farm land, in most cases, but if they could take a loan on their homeland (they can build a house, but they never owe it), they can't buy seeds or tools to farm it correctly. A mother cannot buy something as simple as an old sewing machine to make clothes for her family and have enough left over to sell. It's not a lot of money, but it means the difference between having just enough to survive and having just a little more to send a child to school (which isn't free in SA or A as it is in the "developed" world). It can mean the difference between having only grains on the table for dinner and having protein and grains occassionally.

When I came across this particular issue several years ago (while working on a degree in economics - college does have some uses ), I was amazed to realize how this one simple piece of buracracy, one small step, can create such a difference in a life. Something that I never really thought about before - because it isn't a problem in the developed nations. I can take a loan out to build my business or create a new one, because I own my land and my home. Without owning the land, I would never be able to do that.

I've really wandered off topic here, I know! And I orginally had a point, but I seem to have lost track of it! LOL I thought of deleting the above, but realized that others might not know about these land issues as well and be just as amazed as I first was. So, I'll leave it.

I also think my higher self is telling me to get to work!

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posted September 01, 2001 07:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How did I miss this Post? Very wise words, Laura.

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posted September 02, 2001 04:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Angelique     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Randall, I was just thinking the same thing myself.

I try to save money, but I do it because I have a future I have to start. This world is so expensive to live in, even the basics are staggeringly high priced now. If only I don't have to save so much, but I *did* withdraw from my all-holy-do-not-touch savings account on a recent shopping spree I spent over $130 on it too, and I didn't care a bit. Money's the least of our riches in this life. Who needs money when you have friends?

Regarding the poor, impoverished people and helping them.. one of the things I am most proud of my mother for is giving a bum $20 once. Personally, I think everyone should give money to those who need it. That way, you're happy, they're happy, and that "green energy" I read about flows better. Plus, we can't take it with us when we leave. Might as well let others enjoy it.

Holy cowbells.. I sound much older than I truly am... is that good or bad?

In any event, there's my opinion, and I fear it sounds self centered.. so I apologize if it does.

Ja ne!
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I can say this, that all of my needs have always been provided and some 'more'. I know people that would feel very poor indeed if suddenly they lived in my material world. Although in a way it seems I have nothing and am in need, I have always been able to give the shirt off of my back. I take pleasure in 'giving to others' especially when I know it is needed. It seems that all my things 'last forever', like my major appliances. Never had new ones, yet the simple old and cheap ones,or bargains never breakdown. And if they do finally wear out, still they have lasted twice as long as could seem possible! then after doing without for a short while/the thing I needed,without my ever saying so, SHOWS UP in my lap! Even our computers, along with desks and swival chairs! Once we needed a refrigerator badly, no funds to buy a used one. Well, we 'suffered' a couple of months, some family 'knew' and offered no help, (missed THEIR opportunity to 'give') then, although we never bought lottery tickets, my hubby bought one for 5 dollars AND-AND we WON EXACTLY to the penny enough for a brand new one, and we didn't even know beforehand how much we really needed. We picked out the one we wanted and then ask how much?? Then we ask about getting it in a color other than 'white'BUT that was 10 dollars more than what we WON! So, we got the white one, and it was to the penny! And there have been a few times in my life that I could have sworn that 'food' just appeard in my cabinets, and no one had been over to the house to 'put it there'. So we have to buy very little,but then our needs are little, too. Like we didn't want and couldn't afford car payments we we needed 'another car' so I prayed for the most basic need and bygolly Got it! LOL we got a truck for 500 dollars and have no break down problems at all. No it doesn't have a/c but heck what can one expect for that amount? Anyway we are expecting to win a big lottery soon and we are going to 'bless many' with opportunities to 'help themselves' to a better life!
Have a day full of smiles!!!!!!!!!

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posted January 27, 2002 12:02 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A Mantra for the Money Mystique Iv'e been broke,but I've never been poor.
Being broke is temporary.
Being poor is a state of mind. -Mike Todd-

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posted January 27, 2002 11:54 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Fan...look at the meaning of 24. Seems to fit you

Sweetpeas...

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Pisces Moon
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posted January 28, 2002 12:31 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wonderful thread!

I can only say that I agree with a lot, especially Little Black Cat and Jools, and that's how I try to live too. I love nice things (not necessarily expensive things), and having them makes me love God more and makes me feel more generous and loving and forgiving towards others, so I can't say that poverty would make me a more spiritually fantastic person.

I have a Neptune trident on my Apollo mount - that's a three-pronged fork under my rng finger. I was told this means you will never lack money when you *need* it (not *want* it). And whenever I need something, it comes along.

Here's another "money mantra":

"I been poor and I been rich. Rich is better"
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posted April 11, 2002 09:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted April 22, 2019 04:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ballerina     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
..poverty grows everyday. ...

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posted June 24, 2019 07:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted November 13, 2019 06:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted November 14, 2019 11:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Poverty is a nightmare....
Not sure how we can climb or crawl out of this too long a nightmare.
Not giving details at this time;
except how do two disabled people get ahead?
Very scary times here to say the least.
And hating having no furnace to boot.
Sooo fraking cold!
Wearing coats and hats and gloves in bed. Ugh.
Still a spiritual person;
just not religious.

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posted November 15, 2019 06:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The universe is abundant. Why would it want us to be poor and suffering. We need to change how we see money. Although I do see it as a way of how we make it is important.

Making ourselves wealthy through other peoples suffering is not the way to do it.

There are many wealthy people who are spiritual, Deepak Chopra is the first one that comes to mind..

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posted November 16, 2019 11:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lexxigramer {{ }}
This Trump economy is "supposed to be" SUCH A Great BOON for America?
oh my..
Many people are boasting about how MUCH-Better off they are?

But, that doesn't seem quite true for over 70% of Others?
{I don't know the actual statistics.}

Those in the 'middle' ranges, and those who make less-than-that, are being stripped of the ability to have "leftovers" {i.e. = money available after their basic bills are paid} as COSTS are soaring in the USA.

People used-to have a greater ability to "give" to another person from their own finances.

I remember my time in religion-churches in the past.
One day, our pastor remarked how there WERE some very 'wealthy' people in the congregation; however, the finances for the running of the church-operations were taken-care-of by tithing-folks who were in the middle finance ranges.
{..He was meaning that the 'rich' people weren't tithing??, which would have relieved the burden OFF the rest of the people, for paying utilities, etc?}

Same goes for the tax-burdens on this nation?
Very lop-sided??

'Compassion' and Compassionate folks are the 'Healers and Sustainers' in a Society. They CARE about the welfare of Other-People.

I hope some "spiritual" and generous-hearted WEALTHY-people {a-la Chopra-types?} would donate a high-quality kerosene heater with fuel-supply for the two of you in your little house in West Virginia.

They would reduce the amount of "suffering" for the Collective, in this world, in a PRACTICAL hands-on way.

Frankly? I'm personally shocked that you had gone through this PAST WINTER we had, without someone IN that West Virginia community {even from the religion-churches there} not having come forward to offer to FIX your furnace!! Or, replace it-- so you'd have heat EVERY winter.

Idea--- You could contact a local "TV Station" to have a story taped on your 'need' for a furnace or heater-fix-up person for you-two?

They could even arrange for a LOCAL Commercial Heater Vendor/Business to get some free "air-time" for Helping the Community?? {Brings *them* more notoriety, and therefore increased business and potential profits??}

Sounds like an Ideal kind of show right now, as the message of DOING Kindness has gained more prominence?

We are soon entering Sagittarius Time.
Christmas Season! is a season of Giving.
Opens people's Hearts!

Your TV story would be very effective?
SOME people LOVE to GIVE, and are looking for those whom they might Bless.

Good Luck to you BOTH.

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I thought you were here in Ohio Lexx. Although it’s no warmer here than WV.

I don’t remember the last time we had “leftover” money. If the universe is abundant, then it needs to take care of my medical bills.

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posted November 16, 2019 01:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Amen to THAT, Teasel!

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posted November 19, 2019 05:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
mirage29
No way to doing TV or going public.
That would definitely spell doom for us.

The city is looking for ways to purge the poor from it.
So no way do we want put in the spotlight.
The house is unsightly.
The chimney is also shot.
The pipes too; so looking into getting a few gas wall units when we can somehow pay for them.
One would help; but even having just one that does not require chimney venting; and having it installed and all would cost about $700 or so; and we actually need 3 of them.
One is almost a month income for our household;
and we have so many other far more dire need expenses that override that so no way at this time.
So have to wait.
As for getting free help.....
The people who should be helping will not.
in fact the trend is now to condemn properties and kick folks out to the streets.
That is no joke.
They have already tried to force us out and we are rather scared and trying to not be noticed by the snobs trying to purge this city of the poor and handicapped.
So no; not going public.
(plus I am anti television)
And the churches this past year stopped helping unless you are a church going member for the most part.
Atheists not welcome.
We already contacted the various charities and government helps; but virtually nothing and totally nothing from most of them.
We are not the only ones in dire need; but we are not making babies or being Christians so it is pretty much screw us over.
And handicap accessible is a joke even for places still helping at times.
And...losing more medical coverage come January due to changes in Medicare etc.
So just doing the bundling up again here.

teasel
Yes in Ohio.
We will survive somehow.
My husband is helping a tarot reader with her website etc. in betwixt his seizures.
Hopefully that will bring in some money.
They wanted to do brain surgery on him but we said no way.
We are trying but being disabled and poor and needed new computers makes writing and trying to get ahead very difficult. Lots of days one or both of us bed bound. No fun. My vision is a mess and I can barely walk.
New ills have hit and old have gotten far worse. Ugh.
With us bot totally disabled and poor;
it is so damn hard not to give up.
Having cats who love us and depend on us helps some. Extra costs but their love helps us stay optimistic.
So we must live;
for the cats.
However yes;
I am scared; So is my spouse;
wondering if we can realistically continue to survive.
But hey.....
We have to just keep going;
keep trying and trying.
Adapt or die.
We want to live;
trying to continue to do so;
One moment at a time.
Sigh.
I could rant on for pages;
but enough for now.
Ranting here helps.
Thank you both.


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posted November 19, 2019 06:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As far as being spiritual.
Well personally poor or rich;
I see myself the same.
Rich I would simply be able to financially help folks instead of just being emotionally supportive and so forth.
I have always been impoverished;
so really cannot relate to having money.
I cannot imagine not wanting to help folks in need though.
The biggest thing I have noticed however;
whilst it is related to being spiritual or not;
is that sadly from what I have observed;
is that most folks; especially the not poor;
do not really seem to realize how fortunate they are and take too much for granted.
Also the wealthy here seem to be totally unable to put themselves in the shoes or lack of shoes of the poor.
(LOL...I need special shoes (born clubfooted)but wear swim shoes with extra socks...because that is all I can afford that works so I can walk; and tendon ruptures complicating things now; so ankles/feet and walking etc. is not easy; plus very painful up or down..
Well anyhow;
back on topic;
the wealthy I have observed actually think poor folks get lots of freebies;
or worse;
all for free!
Well yes;
somewhat better for them; certain poor families;
but around here;
only if they produce droves of kids and are young.
But disabled; childless; and elderly;
it is no real way.
Things rich folks have said;
1.Why don't you just go get free or 10 cents a pound steaks from the food pantries for the poor?
(yes; my spouse was told that by one of his doctors)
Where do the rich come up with such ignorant ideas/assumptions?
2.You get all your food and medical for free; why are you complaining?
(yes this city's snobs and even doctors have said such crap; they actually think the poor get everything for free)
It is always just do this or that or buy this or that from these clueless rich folks.
Sadly even the nicer ones also think that way.
Just just just.
Yeah right you clueless money bags;
or naive nice but totally comfortable but totally clueless folks.
Totally clueless.
Sigh...
Like a lady we know who kindly tried to give us $100 gift card for a closet organizer to come in and help us.
We did not know whether to laugh or cry;
so we did both.

When we tried to tell her;
that we do not have any closets; or cupboards; or kitchen or bathroom sink;
or any of normal people amenities;
she as with most wealthy folks could not even begin to fathom the plight of poor folks.
So I do see a problem with being wealthy and spiritual;
when one cannot even begin to really understand poverty;
when one in truth rather not acknowledge it; and as in this town;
would rather drive us out;
well then I feel spirituality is hard to come by naturally for some folks.

I feel that because I have been even lower than now'
eating from dumpsters;
stealing food;
sex for food;
and the list goes on;
well;
oddly even though in poverty now;
it is still strangely;
the best I have had in my life to date.
So yes;
I appreciate what I have and still try to help folks.
We both do.
So what is spirituality anyhow?
Caring and helping others as best as one can?
Well going by the first definition;
We are definitely spiritual;
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that fits us for sure;
our philosophies;
our writing projects;
our research;
and so forth.

However;
sure would like to not be impoverished.

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Originally posted by teasel:
I thought you were here in Ohio Lexx. Although it’s no warmer here than WV.

I don’t remember the last time we had “leftover” money. If the universe is abundant, then it needs to take care of my medical bills.


I hear you teasel.
Ha...ugh...."leftover money"?
Never had such a thing either.
Sad that you are in this bind too;
especially medical related.
Two bankruptcies and unless a miracle happens;
heading for a third.
Going in the hole deeper every month;
$$$$$ just paying for everyday things no frills none whatsoever.
I cannot see how we going to realistically survive much longer without a miracle here.
Medical needs are failing us; bare bones basics will not help us get better.
The medical community wants us to die.
It sucks to have to even stoop lower; and again have to consider stealing toilet paper; and other toiletries; but
making do with rags from thrift shops; rags cut from torn up old sheets; towels, t-shirts etc.,sucks a lot.
Ugh.
Another space heater died.
That is the 6th. one this Winter.
BBBBRRRRRRR........no fun.
Both of us have worsening health....ugh.
Poverty makes it all get worse.

We keep thinking of a positive spin on our dismal depressing situation; health; poverty, ugh......

DEPRESSION
Anagrammed=
I PRESSED ON!

A positive Anagram from DEPRESSION!:

So we continue to press on,
and look for our fortune to improve........


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