posted April 03, 2011 03:40 PM            

Thank you again Tux for the lovely story I do appreciate it.

posted April 04, 2011 12:56 PM            

It looks like you are too ATTACHED to the desired outcome. I can't blame you for feeling that way since you've been waiting already for five years. And I have to remind you again that you need to shake off the vibes of lack that you have accumulated in those 5 years. You have to give up the story that "you've waited for 5 years" because the more you drum up that story the longer it sticks to you.

You can't be where you want to be if you are keeping yourself stuck where you are (I am speaking here in energy terms). Those are two very different places.

Have in mind the so-called "snowball effect". If you keep believing that you won't get what you want, you are making that thought (the snowball) bigger. Just imagine how big that ball is now that you've made for the last 5 years up to last month, and compare that to the ball you've been making in the last 30days. Can you see the difference? One is a huge ball the size of a building and the other is the size of a basketball. Which ball are you going to roll?

So what you should do now is to PIVOT, turn around and choose the positive version of that ball. And the only way to do this is to stop noticing the negative ball and focus on the positive ball.

I know it's been one month since you found this thread, but honestly speaking, your case is normal. For most people it usually takes a month before they see positive change take place. (If you want faster results, do something that helps release negative programming such as EFT, Sedona, hypnosis, etc). And most of them give up early in the game because they don't see any positive change at all. They say "But I've tried it and it hasn't worked. I don't think it's going to work so I'll stop now."

Most people give up 5 minutes BEFORE the MIRACLE.

What people don't know is that the first sign of change should happen inside them, not outside them. So if you feel that you are changing for the better, then the process has started alright and you are on the right track. But if you feel that you are still the same person and there is no change in you at all since you started, then you can't expect things outside you to change.

I repeat: If you feel that you haven't changed since you first came here to this thread, if you feel that you are still stuck, that there is no hope... then that's a very clear sign that there is no progress. But if there is even a small sliver of change in you (positive change) then you should celebrate, because it means you are making progress. As for the time factor, don't compare the speed of your progress with that of other people. No two paths are exactly the same.

What normally happens is, negative things (sometimes even WORSE) happen during the transition period. Just like in detox, people have to go through something that feels very bad before they can reach the good part. It's all part of the cleansing process. This is because the force that you are trying to maneuver is very strong (remember the snowball thing). The good thing here is that you don't really need to counter that force with an equal force. What you need to do is to relax and flow.

You have to be on the positive side of the equation as much as possible. And even if you see negative stuff happen, you should not pay too much attention to it. Just acknowledge and let go, acknowledge and let go. You have to be aware that the more you pay attention to something the more you are giving it fuel to grow. Have you noticed that people who complain a lot get more and more things to whine about?

And as for religion and faith and prayers, it is not necessary that you have faith in anything outside of you, if you are not comfortable with the idea. But you have to at least have faith in YOU.

Btw, I noticed a huge contradiction in your post and this may be what's preventing your success. You said that you don't do the prayer/faith thing but then you also said that: "I feel a bit sleighted that whoever is up there handling our fates or desires is just not ready to help me out here..."'. Do you see the incongruence? You believe that there is a force or power or source up there, that it looks like it's not granting your requests. What this is showing is that you believe that there is someone that decides whether one is worthy to receive or not. And maybe you believe that you are not worthy.

You have to make your expectations congruent with your beliefs. If you don't care for God/Source/Infinite-Intelligence/Whatever, then erase it completely from your mind. Just tell yourself: "I don't know how ____________ (state your desire) is manifested, I only know it is so now and I am grateful and fulfilled." (Btw, this is from The One Command book). You have to believe that you will get it, it doesn't matter how or when. So take a look at your beliefs and make sure that they are compatible.

You don't need to beg or make your requests again and again. Even the formula or method you use is irrelevant. All manifesting techniques are the same, they work only if you allow them to work. Some people can attract good things to them even if they are not consciously asking or using manifesting techniques.

posted April 04, 2011 07:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Deux*Antares:
Hi Maxine,

I know it's been one month since you found this thread, but honestly speaking, your case is normal. For most people it usually takes a month before they see positive change take place. (If you want faster results, do something that helps release negative programming such as EFT, Sedona, hypnosis, etc). And most of them give up early in the game because they don't see any positive change at all. They say "But I've tried it and it hasn't worked. I don't think it's going to work so I'll stop now."

Most people give up 5 minutes BEFORE the MIRACLE.

And as for religion and faith and prayers, it is not necessary that you have faith in anything outside of you, if you are not comfortable with the idea. But you have to at least have faith in YOU.

[/U]Btw, I noticed a huge contradiction in your post and this may be what's preventing your success. You said that you don't do the prayer/faith thing but then you also said that: "I feel a bit sleighted that whoever is up there handling our fates or desires is just not ready to help me out here..."'. Do you see the incongruence? You believe that there is a force or power or source up there, that it looks like it's not granting your requests. What this is showing is that you believe that there is someone that decides whether one is worthy to receive or not. And maybe you believe that you are not worthy.

Just tell yourself: "I don't know how ____________ (state your desire) is manifested, I only know it is so now and I am grateful and fulfilled." (Btw, this is from The One Command book). You have to believe that you will get it, it doesn't matter how or when. So take a look at your beliefs and make sure that they are compatible.

You don't need to beg or make your requests again and again. Even the formula or method you use is irrelevant. All manifesting techniques are the same, they work only if you allow them to work. Some people can attract good things to them even if they are not consciously asking or using manifesting techniques.

The only requirement is for you to be ready to receive. [/U]

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Deux*Antares there is no incongruence with what I said up there I really don't know what, who or where these manifestations are brewing from I just said that cause all of you guys kept mentioning that faith or god or whomever or whatever, something/someone is responsible for these concidences that positively manifest with such synchronicties with each of our lives. I just haven't been lucky enough to even see or hear or feel these changes.

I do feel good that I can make someone's day with a surprise & a smile that gives me utmost joy that I can do that. But its when I read these threads of how folks chant this affirmation or leave a few bucks here or there or write out there goals on a piece of paper or make visions boards and within MERE hours, days and weeks there request or need for job or money or food or shelter just come through in a matter of an instant makes me feel so low & bad. I am working my end of life here as hard as I can to manifest a job a FT accounting job with health insurance and decent overtime & yet when I "let go" of my outcome/desire its pure complete nothing that happens .

I can wish till the cows come home with a massive smile plastered on my face pretending (said goals/dreams) will come to me but I'm not gonna give up BUT I can only fool myself for so long that things will just get better in months & months worth of time....its been 4 ro 5 years since I've worked I don't want to live with my family any longer I need freedom and a life of my own. And that word "praying" makes me feel uncomfortable cause praying "to me (not trying to ruffle anyone's feathers I mean to me", means begging and hoping and squinting my eyes and wishing my situations change ASAP from whatever entity, place or thing these manifestations come from just by saying words each & everday for chnage and still nothing has happened.

What I see as change is my gratefulness to open my eyes each & everyday & be grateful for an ounce of joy & happiness I can pass on to anyone else. Its just the recriprication of that kindness I have never ever felt or seen at all in my life and that hurts ALOT.

posted April 05, 2011 02:18 AM            

Our imagination creates an invisible blueprint of what we want, and that blueprint becomes tangible and concrete as soon as we allow ourselves to get in synch with its vibration.

I believe that anything that I want already exists somewhere and that all I have to do is just to line up with it, meaning, get myself in the same frequency with my objective. And there is not just one means through which my objective will come to pass. There are plenty of avenues for my desire to come true -- something like 10 or twenty or more -- and all the universe asks of me before it will deliver the goods to me is for me to get into that state of readiness to receive. And what I have to do to be in that exact position is to be happy, playful, relaxed and totally in the flow. Take note: no stress or desperation or resistance. This is why it's easy for me to manifest things, I know that if I want something, the adjustments I need to make are in me and not in anything or anyone outside of me.

There is nothing wrong with you. You just have to find the right way, the way that works for you. We are all wired differently, and you may not be wired for the kind of stuff that works for me.

Wait, instead of The One Command, I suggest you read books by Lynne McTaggart such as "The Intention Experiment" and "The Field". It all clicked for me when I merged what I have learned from the two seemingly opposing camps of science and spirituality. Don't buy books, just borrow from the library.

And maybe you should start manifesting small, frivolous, fun stuff as a start. When I was a beginner I tried to manifest 3 different kinds of foodstuff that were not easy to come by where I lived. They were specialities from a certain country and my condition was that they should come to me through other people, meaning for FREE. I visualized those 3 items one after the other for 68 seconds each. The first one came in less than a week (from my brother), the second one the next week (from my neighbor), and the third one on the 3rd week (don't remember the source). My point here is: manifesting should be fun and effortless. Don't work hard, work easy. Don't try hard, try easy.

You may need to build your manifesting muscles first by working on things that are easy for you to accomplish. Small baby steps, you know. Perhaps your mind needs several small proofs before it will let you believe that you can manifest big things such as a job. We are usually too attached to outcome when we are manifesting big intentions because we equate size with effort . . . and this attachment creates resistance, which is equivalent to "worry cuts flow".

As for your new moon list, just hide it maybe inside an envelope or something. Remember, you don't have to repeat a request. All you have to do is to place yourself in the position of receiving your desired result. I know it is easier said than done, so maybe you should manifest your "readiness and openness to receiving" before you try to manifest whatever you want to receive.

posted April 05, 2011 04:06 AM            

One thing that really slammed my self-esteem in late 2009, I can actually align with negative thoughts and feelings that had suddenly hit me at the time (they manifested through another person that is no longer in my life, because of more than one thing that happened in relation to and after that). It was like too many things were happening at once, and I pretty much sank - I've been in "just keep swimming" mode ever since. I don't know if I had anything to do with what happened (re: attracting it to me) or if I sensed it all before it happened (that's happened, too) - that's sort of a chicken and egg thing for me. It does annoy me, though, that the negative can seemingly come along and dump on the built-up positivity, so easily.

posted December 29, 2011 08:23 PM            

I am still making it although, viewed by some, I am broke. I still end up with jsut enough and sometimes a little more so.

The heart, the Spirit, the at-one-ment, the not giving to get, the trust in the universal codes, these are the 'what counts'-i am far from perfect, i worry, fear, whine, and fret but i am learning to improve each day.

since November over 800 dollars has flowed into and out of my fingers through various people-right now i have maybe 6 dollars to my name! hahahaof course the money worries stalk me and of course things are always ending up or continuing ok!