posted February 10, 2005 12:43 AM            

I could say so much more.....
I won't change anyone opinions, nor do I want to.
We are all sacred, unique and beautiful.

Trillian, as usual, I agree with everything you say. My soul sister!!!

posted February 10, 2005 01:10 AM              

No, that's exactly it. I've been told the same. LMAO!!!

posted February 10, 2005 01:21 AM              

Sorry Randall. *nervous laugh*

Pix youre absolutely right. Us Bulls and Scorpions dont even need to communicate.....yep, similar style. I know what youre saying.

posted February 10, 2005 02:02 AM              

Yea and you are right about the men who try to talk to me and have actual conversations with me. They aren't such "neandrathals" if they are attracted and want to get to know ME. And I suppose if men weren't so attracted to women, sex would be no fun But why can't they JUST be attracted to the woman they fall in love with. Yea!! That would be my perfect world hahaha. I know I'm crazy, but I really would love it if thats how things were. cuz then there would be no more cheating and love would be so much better for me.

Anyways back to reality...I guess you make some good points that I should really consider. Like weather guys are "wired" to be the way or conditioned..still not sure what I feel about that. And yea I can't be bothered by men every time I go out in a skirt, I think my perception should change and I should learn to lighten up a little.

But I still hold my beliefs about prostitution. You can just come in and change ALL my beliefs now hahaa Well thanks for your input. What you said really hit home for me..I have a lot to think about and learn about men. Any other advice?

posted February 10, 2005 09:58 AM            

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When you open your heart enough to feel that kind of unconditional love for someone,

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Ahhhh....unconditional love. Darling LeoSweetHeart...monogomy is a condition.

btw, I'm all for wearing short skirts. I find men constantly try to take women's power away and suppress them, and I don't mind a wit empowering myself.

Pixie You and 26T are like family to me. I love your beautiful, free spirits so much, you make me think, and you always, always make me smile. And sometimes guffaw at inappropriate times at work!

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I however am so scared of how sexual everyone's becoming. I'm scared to death that no guys will be left to really fall in love with when this sexual revolution hits full swing

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We've always been sexual beings. Now, media in the 1950's and 1960's didn't like to portray that sexuality accurately, which has unfortunately given us a sometimes skewed idea of what our recent past was. But don't be fooled. There's no revolution (in fact, right now I would say we are in a horrible state of semi-repression). Shakespearian kind of love? Do your realize how bawdy they were in the day?! You're more likely thinking a Hollywood silver-screen kind of love.

And yes, you are capable of changing the world.
Change your perception, and you change the world.

posted February 10, 2005 10:01 AM            

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I won't change anyone opinions, nor do I want to.
We are all sacred, unique and beautiful.

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Amen, and Awoman, sistah.

posted February 10, 2005 10:04 AM            

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Name a prostitute who's heart is open to love and a deep relationship who hasn't been scared badly in her life by men or lack of men...

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You could easily substitute the word "woman" or "female" for "Prostitute." So many of us bear scars, w/o having been prostitutes. And I think I named two examples of what you're saying in an earlier post.

posted February 10, 2005 10:11 AM              

Ewwwwwww let it drool out of your mouth. OK I'm gonna have nightmares about this for the rest of my life very cute - but why didn't you mention my name? Am I hated that much for my views. I'm gonna go cry now.

Ahh LeoSweetHeart congratulations on your engagement, I'm so happy for you and I wish you the best I love what you said about not wanting power just equality - couldn't agree more - I'm a Piscean so I detest power but I also hate being overpowered. Let's all just be free and be done with it.

If my boyfriend went "elsewhere" it will be the last time he'll see me ( my Piscean evasiveness FINALLY comes in handy ) there are certain things you just don't DO. I don't run around looking elsewhere then make excuses about not "getting it" at home. However, considering he has his Sun & rising in Scorpio, Aries Moon and Cancer Mars I better not even think about it.

Before I met him I played hopscotch with fire signs and was proud of it. Not that I looked for fire signs - it's just I usually end up with them for some strange reason. I love them all though. Why is it guys get to have all the fun. I want mindless "fun" too - at least while I'm young and free. I've never hurt anyone and we were all adults. Well...young adults.
I'm selfish in bed and proud of it. He can take it or leave it - I don't think anyone ever left it. I'm so sick of hearing about their needs and what happens if they don't get it. Forget it, I'm not a charity.

You have to be fair, if he gets the "prize" then he has to pay for it with his prowess and stamina - it's only fair. After all, nothing is free.

Oh I don't know. I think something in my chart says that my way of thinking is ahead of everyone else. It's sooo lonely, I feel like I was born in the wrong era - my birth was ment to occur a thousand years from now. I feel depressed - I'll go to my lecture and sit by myself - I don't want company. You see unlike everyone else...I don't know how to drag my knuckles.

Ooooooops!!! That was a bit too b***hy. Bad Alex! bad!

*runs to pharmacy to buy foot in mouth cure*

Anyway I really do have to go. I love you all I hope you can understand my strange sense of humour

Bye

posted February 10, 2005 10:21 AM            

Anyone tried lexigramming prostitution?

posted February 10, 2005 10:35 AM            

We can't use the word PROSTITUTE, it has too many vowels,so like Eleanore suggested, we should use PROSTITUTION.

And the first thing that jumps out at me is:
NOT SIN.

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I think something in my chart says that my way of thinking is ahead of everyone else.

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posted February 10, 2005 11:34 AM            

PROSTITUTION a short lexi:

IS IT SIN?
NO, IT IS NOT SIN.
IT TURNS POOR INTO PROS.

posted February 10, 2005 07:58 PM              

See I think we are and always have been sexual beings yes, but I think sex is just becoming so overrated now. I am a sexual person and I enjoy it as much as the next person..but I'm being hit too much with sexual messages throughout my day. Its too much for me. I feel like I was born out of my time too Mermaid!!! I want to have a boomin sex life, but when it starts spreading to other areas of my life..I start getting irritated with it. Girls compete over who's the most beautiful..why? beauty commercials, sex appeal media (pretty much ie everything), men on the prowl for new meat (fed these messages as well by media). While women want to be given attention by males, esp single ones..I don't think we all are asking for men to think sexually of us before anything else. See I think theres attraction, then theres major lust. If I am not in a night club licking my lips and ravenously flirting, I'm not asking to be your newest sex toy by simply being an attractive woman. I just want to shake some of them and say get a grip of your hormones and lay off the porn geez! Life is about more than sex. Its becoming front and center in my world and I refuse to submit.

I want men to wake up and realize that they aren't the only ones who are sexual, we too have our own fantasies and desires. We love sex too! But I think we've shown them whats up..we're not seen as docile housewives anymore. Can't we lay off the guilt trip and live a balanced life?? And I don't it was balanced at all in the past..it was sexual repression, but now I think its obsession (and I'm sorry if I'm kind of qouting 26 from a while ago)....I don't feel I'm seen as a women the way I want to be seen yet...never have been..maybe I never will in my life time.

Hi Neptune's Mermaid! Don't cry we noticed you! I can totally relate to feeling like you don't belong in this era. It can be totally overwhelming sometimes when not many people understand your feelings But at least we can't be accused of not thinking for ourselves and conforming. (I am not others here are..you all have great arguments to back it up) Though it gets lonely holding onto dreams of how the world Should be because when no one else goes along, you become this unrealistic Idealist denying reality and the inevitability of change. Like I feel like a nun sometimes talking to more sexually provocative women. Sometimes I get sick of it, but theres this voice in my heart that whispers to me not to give up on my Ideals. They keep me in touch with ME. So I think we should always listen to ourselves because remember Truth can only be found within.

posted February 11, 2005 05:06 PM            

No one has a perfect one, Yes, I am very secure in his love for me. He tells me daily, and really means it, in his eyes. Ours was a mutual fascination with a lot of synchronicity running through it. We have been together almost seven years. Honestly, it has been great! He treats me wonderfully, and 'allows' me to continue to grow as a person, even if it frustrates him. We talk, try to understand things. Communicate... or at least try.. Our Moons are conjunct, that might help. But.. astrologically speaking, I am major Scorpio.. what are we known for? Jealousy.. I have been extraordinarily jealous in my past.. but not in the seven years I have been in this relationship. I KNOW with certainty he wouldn't search elsewhere.. he is extremely sexually happy. BUT.. Cheating isn't always sexual. I know I don't meet some more of his needs, - I am off doing my own thing, when he wants me home.... I am pursuing things in my life that are outside of our relationship, though I try to keep an open forum with him. So if he were to stray, it would be about companionship, not sex.. not finding others attractive. I don't know.. when I am secure, I will look right along with him.. I point out "Wow, she has excellent legs" or some such thing.... and it isn't a test, it is genuine appreciation of someone else's legs, and sharing the vision with someone who will appreciate it with me. There are times when it wouldn't be appropriate though.. when I was preggers, no bloody way would I point out let alone appreciate without a fraction of 'Har-umph'. So believe me, I have come a long way. I don't know.. he is an Aries... horny constantly. I love tht about him, as I am sort of abnormal that way. I have this wishful thinking that there are more sexually 'vibrant' women out there though..... They just aren't a vocal as I am. Of course he looks.. how could one not, with the landscape around us? So, put it in perspective. He also worships me, and well.. I'm glad about that.

posted February 13, 2005 07:44 AM            

Happiness is necessary.
Confidence is important.

posted February 13, 2005 03:30 PM              

*breathing slowly*

Because I love you all I'll try to do it again but I'm gonna type really fast so there may me somethings misspelt. Here we go.

LeoSweerHeart we are nothing but children of the future

You guys seem to be a little confused about what I'm trying to say. Can't say I'm surprised, I type faster than I think - don't ask me how that works I like to think that my subconscious is typing

OK about the born in the wrong era thing.

When I was in high school I was unfortunately friends with shallow, spineless, malicious girls. My teen hood ( is that a word? ) was horrible because of it. Their influenced rubbed off on me so I viewed the world as a terrible place. Once I finally left high school I vowed to never become like them or anyone else.

I love what you posted trillian

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Change your perception, and you change the world.

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That's too true. My mother once told me when you look at the world you're seeing a reflection of yourself. If you lie the world is filled with liars, if you cheat the world is filled with two-timers, if you steal the world is filled with thieves and so on.

However, as for the REAL world - ego and emotions aside - nobody really knows whether there's more good then bad or vice versa. You can only speak of your own experiences.

Once I became an adult I had to change back to the free spirit I used to be, I'm still trying. High school didn't change me - it suppresses me. It made me feel bad for being different, kind of the same way I've been feeling in this thread. You see I'm not "normal" - and in this era that's taboo. I'm naive and idealistic. To me everyone is equal whether man, woman, black, white, gay, straight, young, old, rich, poor, deaf, blind etc. In my eyes everyone's equal - why does ANYONE have to be more powerful? Go ahead - call me naive, young, stupid - I don't care. The world has not yet chewed me up and spat me out - and I doubt it ever will.

NOBODY thought like me a hundred years ago and beyond, and nobody seems to think like me now - so maybe sometime in the future people might start to be like me. I never once said I was superior - just different, and that's really hard. Sometimes I wish I was like everyone else. Society does not control me. Nor did it cast me out - I chose to leave it's oppression out of free will.

I hate reading ( no offence to anyone ) men are like this or women are like this - or women do this and men do that. WHO CARES?

I don't think like any other women - and I refuse to be an ambassador to womankind. We're ALL different, am I the only one who sees that?

I hate it when poor biology gets dragged in. Every human's DNA ( yes men and women ) is about 98 or 99% the same - can't remember the exact number. Also the whole chromosomes thing is soooo over rated If we think we're different then we become different. If DNA is so powerful as to control human behaviour then explain this to me - I know identical twins ( so that means identical DNA ) where one is straight and the other is gay.

I, unlike so many others, am not afraid to think outside the box. I don't imitate the past nor pay any respect to it - they're all dead anyway - I think for myself and try to not be influenced by others.

Looking at women as powerful domineering sexual being is nothing new. Look at all religions, save Buddhism. Look at past civilizations. There's nothing "Aquarian" about that - IYSWIM.

I don't believe in that view because quite simply - I'm not like that, nor would I ever want to be.

I don’t believe we should make excuses for others. Saying thing like “ oh a guy did this and that’s so typical “. If someone does something bad let them admit their mistake then move on. If a child runs with scissors you don't say " Oh you're a child, running with scissors is so typical of you". Only difference is, with children it is typical.

Hope you guys can understand.

posted February 14, 2005 06:05 AM              

Thanks pixelpixie I'm not advanced, just very very different and strange. I guess I'm angry at myself for becoming what I was - that anger towards myself may have come off as arrogance but trust me I'm not like that, just upset. I'm in NO WAY better than anyone here. I expect myself to be so perfect and so politically correct it gets out of hand - this thread just hit a nerve. I don't care about prostitution and I'm not angry at anyone's views - I'm mad at ME and this thread ignited that feeling so I got upset. I don't know what you call that in psychology, I wouldn't no - I just have issues that I need to deal with. I hope I didn't come off as a bad person Thanks for understanding pixie