posted January 20, 2003 04:18 PM         

Yuk, doesn't sound like a fun situation . I have had experience with Venus in Virgos and I must say, I really like this type of Venus, there is a certain charm to this placement. They can be very thorough and thoughtful about the relationship. The drawback being of course the perfection-seeking element (which is only a typical negative trait).

If he is at all of this latter style, I say, search for a higher love and give him a polite, loving goodbye. Enlightenment is the goal in life and love.

posted January 21, 2003 07:55 AM         

He has both Sun and Venus in his 12th.
Now Sun in Leo is very strongly placed as Leo is the sign the Sun rules. This placement can have a strong "ego". A Leo Sun inclines to be extroverted, theatrical, attention-grabbing. However, sitting in his 12th is not a comfortable placement for a Leo Sun. The 12th is where we hide things. The Sun very much likes to shine. I guess it could be a bit like "winking in the dark" - no one can see it. This could very well be one of the reasons you have problems in understanding him - you can't really see him (neither can anyone else).

Yes his Mars is in Gemini in his 9th house. Gemini the twins hey So can be two people.

Currently transiting Uranus is exactly (0 degree) opposing his Sun. Plus it's also conjunct (1 degree - so tight) his Moon.
As you know Uranus influences can be very erractic. Plus as his Moon is natally in Aquarius together with transiting Uranus being there....well I guess we can see a "double wammy" of unpredictability
Sue

posted January 21, 2003 09:55 AM         

When he said "that's the reason you've remained friends"......."friends is an aquarians "catch phrase"

Here's some info I've copied and pasted for you re Mystic Rectangles"......

Mystic Rectangle
A Mystic Rectangle is formed when two pairs of oppositions are sextile each other. The result is an aspect pattern that includes two sextiles, two trines and two oppositions. A Mystic Rectangle will always be in the same polarity, either masculine (Air and Fire) or feminine (Earth and Water). This is another "soft" aspect pattern in that it does not generate friction, discomfort or a need to take action. What a Mystic Rectangle does offer, however, is an extremely strong sense of balance and structure, of harmony between the four planets involved. Finding this balance is not a given ­ it will still take conscious effort and awareness. However, working with the Trines and the Sextiles will help to make more sense of and find the point of integration for the two oppositions.

Working with a Mystic Rectangle takes some practice because in order for it to hold up, all four planets must be working together and supporting each other. It is common for individuals with Mystic Rectangles to struggle with the two Oppositions, see-sawing back and forth between the opposing planets. Once the point of balance has been found, however, it becomes increasingly easy to maintain, and a well integrated Mystic Rectangle can be the most unflappable of aspect patterns. Once an individual has integrated a Mystic Rectangle, it represents a core of strength for them, and a solid foundation that can be a great gift in handling whatever else life throws at them.
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You mentioned about your Moons behaving differently even though both in Aqua. If you really analyse it you'll probably see some similarities but you need to look at your house placement and also what aspects are made to your Moons from other planets in your natal charts.

His Moon is in his 6th house.
It opposes his Sun (some some conflict there eg: Emotions vs Ego/self)
Mars quares his Moon
Jupiter sextiles it
Uranus trines it
True Node squares it
Chiron sextiles it.

Take a look at your own chart and you'll see where the differences are.
Sue

PS: The Mystic Rectangle in his chart (so you can recognise it when you look at his chart) is between his Sun, Jupiter, Moon & Uranus.