posted April 24, 2003 09:01 AM
Morgana, Sunmeadow Glades Bless you both for your kindnesses! Yesterday (Wednesday) turned out to be a nightmare.
First: I found out that this woman patronized a restaurant where a friend of mine works as hostess. When the time came to pay the bill, this person accosted my friend..."announcing" who she was, who her mother was, loudly telling her how "retarded" it was of ME (by name) to end a lifelong friendship over a phonecall (there is much more to it than that of course, but by over-simplyfying it she made me look like the bad guy again)...then proceeded to inform my friend (one of the Aquarians I mentioned in another forum, bless her) that my daughter (also loudly saying HER name) is "******* my boyfriend"...!!! She then continued to call my daughter several ugly names using foul language, loudly enough for customers seated at nearby tables to hear. My Aqua friend didn't know what to do. Ultimately, she pretty much said she didn't know anything about it and urged her out the door. Later, my friend told me if this woman shows up there again and behaves in like manner, she will be thrown out. As it was, my friend was on the verge of summoning the manager because this crazy woman was drawing a lot of attention to herself by this time.
...Did I mention that this woman and her mother both have Scorp influences? The mother has Mercury, Venus and Saturn in Scorpio and the daughter's Ascendant is Scorpio. BOTH have afflicted Mars placements too, and I believe it is this, combined with the Scorpio influences that propells them to act in the aggressive and malicious manner they have been.
...All of this wasn't bad enough: Right after hearing about this, I had to leave to take my YOUNGER daughter (Pisces Sun, Taurus Moon, Sag. Ascendant) to get a physical in order for her to have her driving permit and working papers processed. All went well until, while lying down, her midsection was examined. In the procedure of "pressing down" on her lower abdomen, an abnormal "hard swelling" was discovered. TWO other physicians were called in to check, doing the same pressing down. Ruling out pregnancy (which isn't the case because my younger daughter isn't sexually active; she doesn't even have a BF), there is the concern that "something" is growing in her uterus and an ultra sound was ordered for Monday morning.
Naturally, we were told it could just be fibroids...but this is not common in someone so young (she just turned 17). I am sacred to death. People here are telling me to "not worry" until I know what's going on...yeah, right!!
When alone, I have been crying nearly non-stop; when with my daughters, trying to be "strong". But I don't know how much more I can take. When my older daughter sees the doctor on Friday, I wouldn't be surprised if she needs an ultrasound also, due to the hemorrhaging she's been suffering with.
I have considered starting a new thread in the "Health and Healing" forum, and possibly here in "Free-for-all" on the subject of this recent problem with my younger daughter, because if we ever needed prayers, love and healing light, it's now! PLEASE...anyone reading this post...pray. I am one person, and to having to cope with both of my children's welfare being in danger is fast becoming overwhelming.
I can't say anymore right now. I'll post more as we learn more. Thank everyone for listening.