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Randall
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posted October 03, 2011 01:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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Originally posted by juniperb:
Thses wise words came to mind today and thought well worth sharing.

[b] THE FOUR AGREEMENTS

by Don Miguel Ruiz

* Be Impeccable With Your Word* SCORPIO Eagle

Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

* Don't Take Anything Personally * TAURUS Bull

Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.

* Don't Make Assumptions * LEO Lion

Find the Courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

* Always do your Best * AQUARIUS Man

Your best is going to change from moment to monent; it will be different when you are as healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgement, self-abuse and regret.


A wise man who also wrote "The Mastery of Love"

juniperb

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posted October 03, 2011 04:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mblake, you find the greatest stuff!

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Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it. ~Rumi~

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posted October 04, 2011 09:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for abcd efg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Beautifulllllllll !!

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Randall
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posted October 05, 2011 01:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted October 17, 2011 07:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Starry, Starry Night     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Juniperb you are superb that's exactly how I try to live my life. It's not always easy to do but there is definitely no boredom in my life.

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posted November 12, 2011 02:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alma Sun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cool thread

My Jupiter likes you juniperb.

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"I am not absentminded. It is the presence of mind that makes me unaware of everything else." ― G.K. Chesterton

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posted November 13, 2011 11:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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"Life is like a box of crayons. Most people are the 8-color boxes, but what you're really looking for are the 64-color boxes with the sharpeners on the back. I fancy myself to be a 64-color box, though I've got a few missing. It's okay though, because I've got some more vibrant colors like periwinkle at my disposal. I have a bit of a problem though in that I can only meet the 8-color boxes. Does anyone else have that problem? I mean there are so many different colors of life, of feeling, of articulation...so when I meet someone who's an 8-color type...I'm like, 'hey girl, magenta!' and she's like, 'oh, you mean purple!' and she goes off on her purple thing, and I'm like, 'no - I want magenta!'"
-John Mayer

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posted November 15, 2011 10:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Junisuperb

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"The stars which shone over Babylon and the stable in Bethlehem still shine as brightly over the Empire State Building and your front yard today. They perform their cycles with the same mathematical precision, and they will continue to affect each thing on earth, including man, as long as the earth exists." Linda Goodman

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posted November 15, 2011 12:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alma Sun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hahaaha

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posted November 18, 2011 11:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Alma Sun... my aquariun sun likes likes your Alma

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posted November 19, 2011 10:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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"The stars which shone over Babylon and the stable in Bethlehem still shine as brightly over the Empire State Building and your front yard today. They perform their cycles with the same mathematical precision, and they will continue to affect each thing on earth, including man, as long as the earth exists." Linda Goodman

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posted January 25, 2012 10:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
*bump for Newflakes*

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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark

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posted April 02, 2012 10:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark

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posted April 21, 2012 08:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This always reminds me of teasel and wondering this a.m. how she is enjoying springtime.

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Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it. ~Rumi~

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posted July 28, 2013 04:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bump because the energy is so positive

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Christian, Jew, Muslim, Shaman, Zoroastrian, stone, ground, mountain, river, each has a secret way of being with the Mystery, unique and not to be judged.
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posted July 28, 2013 06:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow, a whole decade ago!

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posted July 28, 2013 06:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by juniperb:
This always reminds me of teasel and wondering this a.m. how she is enjoying springtime.


It does? Because I have so much trouble with the second one?

When you posted that, I think I was actually enjoying Spring, despite goings on at home. The day before my birthday, the 13th (Friday), I was sitting at the dining room table, trying out my Tea Leaf Fortune cards, in the beautiful Spring sunshine. I felt really happy and blessed.

Last Spring was mostly nice, even with the drama. The Summer... July 4th was horrible until the evening (and then I found out about the kid I used to babysit, grown up, a month away from his 21st birthday, had been killed in a fight - the day after July 4th). We'd watched a movie and salvaged the day, but then things kept happening. The year went downhill with everything, but I squeezed in a few happy days in the Autumn, and then before Christmas.

I really wanted to enjoy this Spring. It's my favourite time of year.

I really do have trouble with the second agreement. I wish I could change that. I read the book nine years ago, I think it was.

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posted July 30, 2013 10:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The last one isn't easy.

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This was the picture I took the day before my birthday: http://www.flickr.com/photos/50720256@N06/6938662000/lightbox/

I wanted it, because I felt so good and positive/happy. I thought the rest of the year was going to be that way. Oh, well, you can't blame an Aries for trying. Or maybe you can.

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posted August 03, 2013 11:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It didn't open for me.

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posted October 08, 2013 05:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by juniperb:
Thses wise words came to mind today and thought well worth sharing.

[b] THE FOUR AGREEMENTS

by Don Miguel Ruiz

* Be Impeccable With Your Word*

Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

* Don't Take Anything Personally *

Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.

* Don't Make Assumptions *

Find the Courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

* Always do your Best *

Your best is going to change from moment to monent; it will be different when you are as healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgement, self-abuse and regret.


A wise man who also wrote "The Mastery of Love"

juniperb

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About a month ago, I had a moment where I was taking something to heart and thought to myself, "What if I didn't take this personally?" I didn't, and everything was fine - turned out I had nothing to worry about.

It doesn't work so well when someone is deliberately trying to antagonize me - only when I'm already feeling good.

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posted October 08, 2013 05:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I used to be much better at this, but it's a nice tie-in to The Four Agreements:

quote:
1. The version found written on the wall in Mother Teresa's home for children in Calcutta:

People are often unreasonable, irrational, and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some unfaithful friends and some genuine enemies. Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and sincere people may deceive you. Be honest and sincere anyway.

What you spend years creating, others could destroy overnight. Create anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, some may be jealous. Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, will often be forgotten. Do good anyway.

Give the best you have, and it will never be enough. Give your best anyway.

In the final analysis, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.

-this version is credited to Mother Teresa


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posted October 09, 2013 07:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blueskiez06     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by juniperb:
Thses wise words came to mind today and thought well worth sharing.

[b] THE FOUR AGREEMENTS

* Be Impeccable With Your Word*

* Don't Take Anything Personally *

* Don't Make Assumptions *

* Always do your Best *

juniperb

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posted October 18, 2013 07:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
teasel, thats a great piece and it does fit nicely.
How are you?

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