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From: durban
Registered: Nov 2002

posted October 01, 2003 05:43 PM         

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Hello all you fearful people

My greatest fear is BEING LONELY(and I mean totally lonely) for the rest of my earthly life.It just scares me to think i might be lonely forever.

Please tell me what your greatest fear is and dont be afraid to say so as we all are here to help and comfort you.

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From: Los Angeles
Registered: Feb 2003

posted October 01, 2003 07:10 PM         

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Having my son being taken away from me for any reason.
(I don't mean like when he goes to school and stuff)

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From: Blue Star Kachina
Registered: Mar 2002

posted October 01, 2003 07:19 PM         

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After the wind,rain,hail,thunder and 4 inchs of snow I battled thru today to rescue my chickens after the storms ripped thier coop up, I don`t fear a darn thing right now

Actually, that is one of my fears. That a horrible harm will come to the four leggeds who own me. A fire is the worst fear . How would I ever move so many critters to saftey? I have plans but they don`t chase the fears away .

juniperb

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From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005

posted October 01, 2003 07:34 PM         

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Spiders!!
Naw!! Just kidding. I fear that something will happen to my loved ones that could have been prevented through my actions. Irrational, perhaps, but when are fears ever rational, they're there to let us know what is truly important to us, at the end of the day. I fear that I will be unable to express myself fully, as I am so often misinterpreted, I don't even know what I am fully saying alot of the time. I fear that I won't be recognized as a good person. I fear that my children will be taken from me and I can't do anything about that. I fear not being able to fulfill the things I am supposed to. I fear letting go. I fear......so much. But I try not to let it consume me, to adopt a try anything attitude in order to overcome it. I am not really uptight in attitudes, but I definately have a proclivity toward fears, founded and unfounded. I think I live opposite to that as a coping mechanism. I fear growing old in body, and to cope with that, I don't take the best care of myself, even though I could. Which is self defeating. At least I am aware of it though, and that's the first step to change.I am always trying to evolve and become a better person, but in doing that, I think I miss the point. I spend time in self-reflection, and studying others, instead of interacting and asking questions or observing. FEAR FEAR FEAR......The driving force of alot.
I fear I will break my bones, I found out they are quite weak, as I was pregnant and breastfed both my children for quite a while, and didn't take care of myself. I lost weight though, too bad it was from my bones! So, I am vain, I am irrational, I am self-destructive, and I fear people will see me as that. I just told everyone too, so there! I am confronting another fear. Gawd, I am so bad.

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From: Ontario Canada
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posted October 01, 2003 07:43 PM         

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I guess I also fear that people won't really love me if they see all the gross stuff that gets splattered on the table when exposing a part of yourself for all to see. Maybe the key with me, is finding a person who will quietly look me in the eye, pat me on the shoulder, tuck all those negatives back in with a kiss, and say " I understand."
~ Good luck with that, I know ~

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From: California
Registered: Feb 2003

posted October 02, 2003 12:25 AM         

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Losing my mind. I was delirious with fever once, and it was the most terrifying thing I have ever experienced because I wasn't in control of myself.

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Hello everybody! I used to be QueenofSheeba and then I was Apollo and now I am QueenofSheeba again (and I'm a guy in case you didn't know)!

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From: Germany
Registered: Aug 2003

posted October 02, 2003 02:33 AM         

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I fear being stuck, alone--going no where, stuck at home with a kid who one day grows up and leaves and a workaholic (cappy)husband that doesn't have time for you and a never-ending load of household chores and nothing else--for ever and ever amen. *Shudder* My worst fear, that keeps me going through all the stress and badness in my job!

Nackie

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From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000

posted October 02, 2003 03:12 AM         

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Moondreamer, are you in a relationship now? If not, e-mail me. I think I can help.

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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark

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From: durban
Registered: Nov 2002

posted October 02, 2003 02:27 PM         

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HI RANDALL

Just wanna know what is your e-mail address?
thanx.

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From: Columbus, GA USA
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posted October 02, 2003 02:43 PM         

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webmaster@linda-goodman.com

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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark

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