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Topic: STICKS AND STONES
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MARY
Knowflake Posts: 397
From: Danville, IL.
Registered: Sep 2002
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posted October 02, 2003 11:10 AM
 
Hi,
To all of you... I really don't know what is going on??  But I would just like to send out friendly,
soothing, healing, energy to all involved.  I still haven't any idea why all of this negative energy is here at Lindaland.
But there is something that everyone fails to realize!!!!
STICKS AND STONES CAN BREAK MY BONES BUT WORDS WILL SCAR ME FOR LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Please try to remember that, next time you attempt to hurt someone with words. Once the words are out there you can't take them back, bruses heal and we forget about them, unless of course if they are servere..
Words are always remembered. Love, Healing,and Light to all,
Mary IP: Logged |
theFajita3
Knowflake Posts: 1457
From: Sunny South Florida, USA
Registered: Feb 2003
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posted October 02, 2003 01:24 PM
You speak wise words Mary!------------------
Namaste! IP: Logged |
MARY
Knowflake Posts: 397
From: Danville, IL.
Registered: Sep 2002
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posted October 02, 2003 04:42 PM
Thank you, Fajita.I have just realized over the years, that words which have been spoken, hurt far longer than any pain... I do speak from experiance.... IP: Logged |
silverbells
Knowflake Posts: 1506
From: The second star to the right (which shines in the night for'eer)
Registered: Apr 2003
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posted October 02, 2003 08:56 PM
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Get some Love in your groove, just get hip to Forgive...- Michael Franks IP: Logged |
La-Tee-Da
Knowflake Posts: 1445
From: New Orleans, Louisiana
Registered: Feb 2002
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posted October 03, 2003 01:28 PM
I agree Mary. I think we should treat one another with love and mutual respect. If someone is having a bad day, send them love and healing energy. If they lash out at you, ignore the remarks and send them love and healing energy. Don't engage them in more vicious words.So much ugliness in the world already, without turning this place into another cesspool of anger and hate. Think about how you want to be treated and base your treatment of others on those feelings and principles. If you hate to be belittled, then don't belittle anyone. If you hate to be demeaned, then don't demean another. And so forth and so on. Treat each other with love and respect and the rest of the trivial things will fall into place. The Moderator of this forum, Juniperb, is a prime example of goodness, kindness and love. Follow in her footsteps, and all will be happy!!! ------------------
Hugs,LTD ~~The struggle keeps us young~~Daring to make mistakes and knowing there are none.~~DGM IP: Logged |
financechick
Knowflake Posts: 728
From:
Registered: Mar 2001
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posted October 03, 2003 04:48 PM
yes..this is why I "left" because of Bissie and her evil tongue/words.I no longer feel "Welcome" here anymore. I still somet o read once in awhile. IP: Logged |
La-Tee-Da
Knowflake Posts: 1445
From: New Orleans, Louisiana
Registered: Feb 2002
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posted October 03, 2003 05:16 PM
Financechick......a BIG HUG for you!!! No one should be subjected to ugliness...for any reason!!! I remember you as always being nice and friendly...don't let outside influences ruin who you are deep down inside!!!------------------
Hugs,LTD ~~The struggle keeps us young~~Daring to make mistakes and knowing there are none.~~DGM IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 25287
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted October 03, 2003 05:18 PM
Financechick, I very much Love your positive Energy. You and Bissie probably have Karmic issues, but why let one person drive you away from all your other friends here? ------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
juniperb
Knowflake Posts: 6830
From: Blue Star Kachina
Registered: Mar 2002
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posted October 03, 2003 05:51 PM
Ditto ditto financechic  We miss you!!IP: Logged |
WychOfAvalon
Knowflake Posts: 633
From: Los Angeles
Registered: Feb 2003
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posted October 03, 2003 06:45 PM
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i don't know where you are now -we shared a dream of being together.. you led me to the light, yeah - for this i would like to thank you forever IP: Logged |
purplezen
Knowflake Posts: 888
From: outer space
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted October 03, 2003 07:42 PM
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MARY
Knowflake Posts: 397
From: Danville, IL.
Registered: Sep 2002
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posted October 04, 2003 11:37 AM
Fiancechick,
Honey there are others here who WON'T be unkind!!
To all of you thanks for all of the posts!Love & Light IP: Logged |
MARY
Knowflake Posts: 397
From: Danville, IL.
Registered: Sep 2002
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posted October 04, 2003 11:33 PM
I saw the other thread that was started...
I just want to appologize to anyone that got offended if that is the case..I truley live by what I wrote, I just thought others might benifit?? Mary IP: Logged |
Oxychick
Knowflake Posts: 2626
From: neither here nor there
Registered: Jul 2002
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posted October 05, 2003 01:35 AM
Hi Mary,No, no offense at all! (If you were referring to me) I love what you've said and think it's a valuable lesson.  IP: Logged |
financechick
Knowflake Posts: 728
From:
Registered: Mar 2001
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posted October 05, 2003 03:11 PM
Randall and everyone else, thanks a lot, it means a lot to me to know that you realized my absence.I've missed "Being" here...posting. Carlos did send me e-mail I guess just checking in to see if I was ok and it got me to thiking. I've been "here" awhile posting. I might not have a lot to contribute when people ask astrology specific questions so I totally apologize if I've ever made anyone feel like their problems where of no concern to me (Bissie said that this is how I am...that I never have an encouraging word to say for other people when they have problems yet I expect everyone to come to my aid when I have problems). I'm sorry if this ever seemed to be the case, I'm sorry if any of you ever felt that way. I'm really a very kind a sensitive person and would never say the types of things to anyone that Bissie wrote about/too me.
We're all in this crazy world together, I come here for support, I was made to feel..BY ONE PERSON that I was not welcome.
I should have known better than to generalize ONE PERSON's words to the whole lindaland community and for that you all have my my deepest apologies.
-Sherry IP: Logged |
juniperb
Knowflake Posts: 6830
From: Blue Star Kachina
Registered: Mar 2002
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posted October 05, 2003 05:25 PM
Good to see you back f.c. Yer right, one person don`t make the whole parade  juniperb  IP: Logged |
alchemiest
Knowflake Posts: 699
From: Somewhere over the rainbow
Registered: Sep 2003
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posted October 05, 2003 06:17 PM
wow. I never even knew that there was so much tension in here until I actually read a lot of threads this morning.
I don't know you guys well, since I am a very recent addition to this group of knowflakes. Even so, it seems to be (at least, the way it appears to me) that the people directly involved in whatever happened, as well as various others are now in sort of a 'stew' mode.
Guys, I don't know if I am qualified to say this, and I sincerely apologize if anyone thinks I am out of line. But I have to mention what I feel is important for everyone to realize:
Everyone here is human. We all have emotions. We all react if we think we are being hurt. It's understandable. Everyone does it.
However, you reveal your true identity in the aftermath of these reactions. If you were in Randall's shoes, with the responsibility of this site on your shoulders, would you too not have done what you deemed best for the continuation of this haven? How can any blame be put on his shoulders?
If you were in Andy's shoes, or in the shoes of any of the people who were on the 'other side', think of what they must have been thinking, what they were going through. How can anyone be blamed?
Everyone needs to understand that emotions are part of Who We Are. You have to understand that in yourself. You have to understand that in others. And then you have to let go. Don't attach so much importance on the way people react to you, or to what you say, because yes, people get angry and upset, but then they get over it. And you have to realize that. Don't look at what they say. Look at who they are, and love them for that. Nobody ever does anything wrong given their view of the world, remember. You just have to look at things from their point of view to see their justification.I'm sorry, this sounds all garbled, even to me, and I hope it makes sense to at least some of you. For what it's worth, I think this is a great site, and I am hapy to be a part of this community with the rest of you. in Love, Light and Laughter
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MARY
Knowflake Posts: 397
From: Danville, IL.
Registered: Sep 2002
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posted October 06, 2003 03:58 PM
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