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Topic: what do you do (version -1)
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babylonphoenix
Knowflake Posts: 57
From: hell
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted April 30, 2004 12:00 PM
 
check it out,
if somebody says bad words or scream at you which you had done no nothing wrong??
and somebody hit you without a reason??IP: Logged |
gloomy sag
Knowflake Posts: 355
From: USA
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted April 30, 2004 12:14 PM
I get wicked pi$$ed when I'm am being blamed for something I haven't done. I usually scream back. I need to learn to fight back also  IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
Knowflake Posts: 5301
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted April 30, 2004 02:41 PM
*smiles at Gloomy Sag*IP: Logged |
lioneye68
Knowflake Posts: 6062
From: Canada
Registered: Apr 2003
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posted April 30, 2004 02:48 PM
Remove that person from your life. If you can't do that...avoid avoid avoid....If you can't do that, stand up for yourself...If you can't do that...bring in other people as buffers, and witnesses. Don't be alone with them, if you can avoid it.  Be good to yourself.
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BloodRedMoon
Knowflake Posts: 932
From: somewhere out there
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted April 30, 2004 04:05 PM
It really depends.if someone was screaming at me or accusing me of something that wasn't true my reaction really depends on the situation at hand. Sometimes I'd laugh it off, sometimes try to set them straigt, sometimes get really angry. If someone hit me.. geez.. I'd probably be really confused. If they hit me hard enough I'd grab the nearest cop. IP: Logged |
babylonphoenix
Knowflake Posts: 57
From: hell
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted May 07, 2004 11:33 AM
if somebody scream at me,I am sure I feel bad at the beinging,then I 'll let it pass.
but jesus said if somebody hit you on your left face ,let 's him hit also your right face.
that 's difficult ,huh?we are now in this world is full of anger ,we want to protest ourself,we don't want to get hurt ,feeling hurt.but things dose happens.
what is really holds in a karma sense I still need to study more to tell.
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lioneye68
Knowflake Posts: 6062
From: Canada
Registered: Apr 2003
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posted May 07, 2004 12:39 PM
Why are you sad?Turning the other cheek is more of a parable, which means a simple way of saying something complicated. I don't think it means to allow someone to beat on you regularly. It means don't seek retaliation for every wrong that someone does to you. You have to be able to let it go. But, I believe God also wants us to value ourselves, which means not allowing people to hurt us on a regular basis. Hurt me once, shame on you...hurt me twice, shame on me. (or something like that). But, then again, I never was much of a martyr, so this is only my opinion.  IP: Logged |
babylonphoenix
Knowflake Posts: 57
From: hell
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted May 11, 2004 09:16 AM
hi lioneye68,
thank you for your advise.
I was recently going though something very difficult,it seems like I now lost the meaning of life,I don't know which way to go.I can't continous the way to heaven since it is more difficult,but I don't want to stay in hell either.
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