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gem
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posted June 07, 2004 06:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for gem     Edit/Delete Message
With the lead up to the European cup I've noticed England flag waving is on the up (in England).

I notice a large number of Lindalanders are from the States and I'm interested to know your feelings on 'flag waving'- patriotism, nationalism or xenophobia? Do you like the existance of pledging allegiance to the American flag in school?

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Randall
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posted June 07, 2004 09:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message
I think everyone should celebrate their nationality and be proud of their country. In America, this is even more important, as we are a melting pot of cultural diversity.

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TINK
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posted June 07, 2004 09:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TINK     Edit/Delete Message
Oh dear. I find myself agreeing with Randall here.

Although I am against prayer in school, I'm all for the Pledge of Allegiance. From time to time I'll hear someone bemoaning the fact that Americans are given to inordinate amounts of chest-thumping. Probably. Probably even a bit more so than other nationalites. We do certainly seem to think we are the best at everything, don't we? Of course one can imagine how distasteful that can be for others. But to be an American is so different than anything else we have seen before. I can move to, say, Italy and learn the language and customs and aquire my citizenship but I will never be truly an Italian. I haven't a drop of the blood in me. Every other counrty is based on blood. An American citizenship is based on philoshopy. There's no such thing as American blood. It's all based on, "what do you believe in?" And therein lies the difference. It is a matter of great consequence and one I think we should all be proud of.

still waving my flag with pride
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Nackie
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posted June 07, 2004 01:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nackie     Edit/Delete Message
Well...maybe I should stay out of this...well...no, i SHOULD stay out of this but...

America is NOT AT ALL the only country that is so "unique" to be a melting pot. Of course, you have to agree with the whole "melting pot" theory. Maybe take a little look up north to your cousins? What about Australia? There is not a "melting pot" mentality in thos countries, but rather a "tossed salad", where not everyone is the same, but all the different pieces are what make the salad taste great. A plain lettuce salad would be pretty boring. We don't expect people to turn into a perfect "Canadian", we expect them to be a perfect "xfill-in-the-blankx" and contribute to our DIVERSITY.

Did you know that in Germany there are 85 million inhabitants, of which 15 million!!!! are of Turkish descent? That's not including the huge number of "others" living in Germany, including Americans. Look to England, with it's Indian population, so many of whom have British passports. Or France, with the Algerians, Africans and Asians, again, many having French nationality despite growing up in a totally different part of the world and speaking a "pidgeon" dialect of French. Or in New Zealand, what "blood" do you need there to be considered a reall Kiwi? Maouri? English? French? A nationality is as much as you make it, and as little as you let it be. It is a stake that many people drive between themselves and others different from them, using it to be able to stagnate in their human development.

Flag waving is only acceptable to me up to a point. In my not-so-humble point of view the Americans have taken this attitude way beyond a healthy stance and have turned it into just as fanatic a view as the fanatic Islamist states. Those fanatic Islamics looking outside of their world into yours see their side of the story just as you see your side: we're right, they're wrong, HOW can they not see that???? I'm proud to be a Canadian, yes. But I'm not so proud to be Canadian to infringe upon the right of someone else to believe that their country, their way of life and their culture is the best way of living...because for them, it is.

Personally, and I know this will **** off about 90% of you guys here, I wouldn't live in the States. I grew up on the border to the States (Windsor, Ont/border to Detroit) and saw enough of it to last me. I think there's lots of things that need to be cleaned up in your country before you can stand up and yell, "hey, WE'RE the best!". Fix your school systems, fix your health care, fix your social welfare programs, fix your gun laws, fix your narrowed views on the "rest of the world"...

Sorry to step on your guys toes...and Canada has a lot to fix in it's way, too...but then again Canadians as a rule don't go thumping their chest (and opponents), trying to convince them that only they could be right.

Nackie steps off her soapbox now and ducks the flying tomatoes!!

Nackie

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trillian
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posted June 07, 2004 01:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for trillian     Edit/Delete Message
I'm not fond of idolotry. Pride, sure, but we've elevated a symbol into an idol, when there's a law that says I can't burn a piece of cloth or even let it touch the ground or risk fines and jail time.


I'm not touching anything Nackie said, 'cause last time I spoke innocently about being an American...well...it wasn't so pretty.

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trillian
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posted June 07, 2004 01:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for trillian     Edit/Delete Message
And yes, please remove 'under God' from the Pledge.

Ooops...look at those worms flying out of the can!

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Nackie
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posted June 07, 2004 01:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nackie     Edit/Delete Message
lol Trillian...

you know what, I get along really well with Aries...you can discuss with them and even if it gets heated, it generally doesn't get taken personally...

go ahead, rip me to shreds...lol Seems to me to be my purpose in life lately anyways! lol

Nackie (kneeling for her flogging)

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trillian
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posted June 07, 2004 01:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for trillian     Edit/Delete Message
Nah...I loves ya Nackie! Geminis are some of my favorite people. Your opinion is your own.

None of us is perfect. I love my country very much, but I am well aware of its shortcomings.

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Nackie
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posted June 07, 2004 01:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nackie     Edit/Delete Message

Aries are just too cool...my fave people, well after geminis that is...lol

Nackie

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pixelpixie
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posted June 07, 2004 01:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
When did this thread become sexual?

sorry, my bad.
Countries are neat. A bunch of people agreeing to disagree and getting over it and hopefully working together to find the kind of unity they can all deal with.
Good to be proud.
Whatever makes your boat float.

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Philbird
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posted June 07, 2004 02:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Philbird     Edit/Delete Message
I really have a hard time waving the American flag. One, I live just on the border of Mexico, and there is so much poverty just a quarter of a mile away. It feels as though I'm rubbing their face in it. I can take my dollar across the border and it's 11 x more valuable over there. And the people have to work very hard to earn their daily bread. They cross the border to get jobs that by American standards, are very low paying. ESPECIALLY WAL-MART. (they exploit the hell out of those people) If they have family here in my town, they use that address as their own so they can send their children to school.
Barefoot, skinny people trying to sell everything from pieces of candy to tamale's.
Most people living near the border have to walk quite a distance to work at Wal-Mart, so, you know what they did? Those greedy ******** turned the regular Wal-Mart into a super Wal-Mart and moved it closer to the border! I know it helpes the Mexicans but totally encourages labor at a cheaper cost. Hence, putting a lot of American citizens out of work. Not to mention putting almost every Mom and Pop shop out of business. I heard a comment on the one radio station we have in town and the broadcaster said "Well if the small business comunity can't compete by keeping up with technology, too bad".
So back to the flag, I am very greatful that I live in a country where I have choices. But I don't fly the flag for at least two reasons.
1. I live near a military base and with the political atmosphere, I don't want to draw attention to myself.
2. I refuse to hang a flag in a town with a greedy corperation that exploits desperate people. I worked a a Wal-Mart back east, and my pay was three times higher than it is here!.
I support the troops. But not by hanging a flag in my front yard. And no, I do not think president Bush is trust-worthy.........

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LibraSparkle
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posted June 07, 2004 03:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LibraSparkle     Edit/Delete Message
I agree with a lot of what Nackie had to say. I'm from the US, and most of the die hard flag wavers aren't people I would choose to associate with. From my experience, the majority of them are bigots.

I would also like to remove "under god" from the pledge.

I pledge my allegiance to the Mother that is the Earth and her inhabitants. I don't have a lot of national pride, but I love this country. I love the people. I do not think the US is more important or better than other countries. There are many things about other coutries that I envy. For instance Cuba and their public education, and Canada for their health care.

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Aphrodite
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posted June 07, 2004 03:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Nackie,

Are Turks allowed to become German citizens? Last I read 5 years ago, this was not the case.

A.

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Nackie
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posted June 07, 2004 03:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nackie     Edit/Delete Message
@Aphrodite:

yes, they are allowed. My boss' husband is a Turk, with German citizanship. Of course, they have to give up their Turkish citizenship, because you are only allowed one passport in Germany. Unless you have parents of two nationalities, then you have both (my son is Canadian/German with both passports). There are about 6 million people with dual citizenship in Germany, so I don't know what the big deal about it is from a general point of view, but German beauracracy is legendary...

Nackie

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BloodRedMoon
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posted June 07, 2004 04:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BloodRedMoon     Edit/Delete Message
I have no problem with being patriotic. Not to the point of being completely blind to anything else, naturally, and not to the point where you think your government can do no wrong.

It seems it's ok for people in other countries to be proud of where they come from but if you're American now it seems to be looked down upon.

I think if more Americans were a little more patriotic it'd bring more voters to the polls. Damn the turnout is really dismal.

I'm not against the Pledge in school but "Under GOd" should be taken out.

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Philbird
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posted June 07, 2004 07:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Philbird     Edit/Delete Message
Hello, I'm back.
Talk about synchronicity..... My husband and I received a free flag for signing up for the newspaper. We had it in the car when we went to pick up a co-worker who recently moved from Mexico to the U.S.
The flag was in the car next to him and he said "Wow you have a nice flag". I said, "Yeah, do you want it"? He said yesssss!.
and ooohhhed and aaaahhhed about it and then said "This is the greatest gift I ever got" And tears were running down his face. I believe I learned something today.
I am genually happy for him.

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Everlong
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posted June 07, 2004 10:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Everlong     Edit/Delete Message
I think having pride and confidence in your country is a great thing. I'm all for the 4th of July, man. But some people just get, well, over-excited. Too eager and confident. They don't realize that hey, we're not the only cool country out there, and that America has a lot of disgusting faults. I'm not anti-American at all, but it's the truth, as it is for every other country. I've found that people have taken patriotism to the point of bigotry over other countries. Like, it's annoying when an American goes to another country and thinks that everyone should do everything like Americans do. Do you get my meaning?

I'm alright with the Pledge of Allegiance, as long as it's not ridiculously enforced. IE, giving a kid a detention for not pledging along.

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TINK
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posted June 07, 2004 11:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TINK     Edit/Delete Message
Oh I don't think you should stay out of it at all Nackie. On the contrary, I don't think you post often enough. Anyways, after rereading my post I noticed I wrote "every other country is based on blood". You're quite right - my mistake. I should have said most.

I would say though that the interestiing phenomonon of 15 million Turks in Germany is recent one. What I was trying to say is that being an American is based on citizenship rather than blood. I can become a citizen of China but I can never become "Chinese". But a "Chinese" man can become American. Or Canadian if he would rather. I think this is a monumental change in the course of human history. Countries were once, up until quite recently, based on blood and tribe.

And I agree with you that there are many things in America that need to be fixed. And I've no doubt that there are some things the Canadians do better than we do. But I've found nothing else in the world, past or present, that can beat the Declaration of Independence. Do we always live up to those most high ideals? Nope. Less and less it seems. But when I wave my flag I'm thinking about those ideals. I'm thinking about our birthright.


Trill ~ I truly feel it is my God-given right as an American to burn the American flag. I haven't done it yet but I'm sure I'll get around to it at some point.

Where's Jwhop?

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LittleLadyLeo
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posted June 07, 2004 11:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LittleLadyLeo     Edit/Delete Message
I wasn't going to get into this, but then, as usual, I changed my mind. I feel I must respond to Nackie's statement about Canadian's and Aussie's look on the "melting pot." That term has not been used since I was in elementary school over 20 years ago. Most Americans prefer the "tossed salad" theory, as we have realized that the "melting pot" is an antiquated term of a bygone age. We don't expect everyone to be the same or conform to a standardized mode, but we also do not appreciate someone who was born outside of this country coming in and saying "You have to give me special consideration and attention because I'm not from here." My German ancestors learned to speak English because that is what the majority of their neighbors spoke. They did not whine or cry out "Bigotry." They came here by their own free will (as do all immigrants today), and "when in Rome."

As for flag waving - I think Americans are more apt to do this mainly because we FOUGHT for our independence. Canada still has strong ties to the United Kingdom and Australia is still part of the Commonwealth though they are independent nations. We have been raised with pride in this country founded by our ancestors who put their blood, sweat and lives into making it work. The thing is, we descendants are still doing the same today. No, America is not perfect. It never will be. Because people are not perfect, and this nation is Of the poeple, By the people, and For the people.

Blessings to all.

LLL

Oh, yeah. God Bless America.

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TINK
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posted June 08, 2004 12:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TINK     Edit/Delete Message
LLL ~ Good point about the difference between having fought for your independece and having it given you.

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LittleLadyLeo
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posted June 08, 2004 12:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LittleLadyLeo     Edit/Delete Message
Should I have warned y'all I have a degree in Social Science Education with a minor in History, emphasizing American History and Government?


LLL

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TINK
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posted June 08, 2004 12:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TINK     Edit/Delete Message
Oh never warn them LLL. Always treasure the element of surprise.

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Nackie
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posted June 08, 2004 08:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nackie     Edit/Delete Message
Oh, we fought for our independance...

in fact, didn't we burn down your white house FIGHTING for our independance?

I see you've rebuilt it -- it's turned out quite nice!

"As for flag waving - I think Americans are more apt to do this mainly because we FOUGHT for our independence. Canada still has strong ties to the United Kingdom and Australia is still part of the Commonwealth though they are independent nations."

Oh, I see, sorry. I thought BUSH was hooked up with the Brits lately...my bad.

And man, do I feel stupid, here I was thinking that Canada was also commonwealth. But then again, I only studied Liguistical Anthropology.

"We have been raised with pride in this country founded by our ancestors who put their blood, sweat and lives into making it work. The thing is, we descendants are still doing the same today."

Oh, now I see where the difference to other countries lies! doh! To think that I was under the impression that just about every country in the world can claim that of it's citizens...I mean, it's a pity my canadian grandfather died in WWII (btw, LONG before the Americans finally decided to help out). I almost thought he shed his blood and my family their tears fighting for Canadian ideals. Silly me!

"No, America is not perfect. It never will be. Because people are not perfect, and this nation is Of the poeple, By the people, and For the people."

Well, you can decide that no one's perfect, so why bother trying to be perfect. Or you can decide that every one is perfect in something they do, and learn from those aspects of your peoples. Therein lies the essential difference between us: America knows they aren't perfect, but doesn't care. Other coutries know they aren't perfect, but try darn hard to fix the fact!

And our freedom wasn't HANDED to us. We fought for it. Just in a peaceful manner. Agressiveness is not necessarily the only way or even the BEST way to go about getting what you want!

Nackie

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gem
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posted June 08, 2004 09:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for gem     Edit/Delete Message
Nackie, I am so with you (pls don't leave me!). You are also hilarious. I couldn't put it better.
The other issue is that, really, regardless of how patriotic people are feeling, other people's perceptions are absolutely crucial in today's world. Whether it's patriotic and positive or not, if the rest of the world sees it as arrogance, trying to impose itself on others, and a threat, then that is what will really impact. America is not the most flag-waving nation, but I do feel the burden of responsibility on more affluent and democratic countries to NOT give yet more ammunition to anti-American fanatics.
When I saw American flags burnt with glee on the news in the Middle East after 9/11 I was devastated, but the question MUST be asked: why?

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TINK
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posted June 08, 2004 11:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TINK     Edit/Delete Message
Oh I would have to disagree with the last statement. Negotiating for your freedom isn't half as much fun as fighting for it. Fighting a tyrant is good for the soul. Making a deal with one is somehow anti-climatic. The general character of Canada versus the general character of America maybe has something to do with our different beginings.

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