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Topic: how do you exorcise a past romantic link,....
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Virgo-AriesArtist
Knowflake Posts: 1409
From: USA
Registered: Nov 2001
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posted October 14, 2004 10:21 PM
 
a dysfunctional and undproductive one at that?
I'm feeling so strange, I mean, I've been over the Taurean b*stard for over a year, and yet when I was flipping through old e-mails, I just felt this surge of emotion that just sucked me into the time when I was still trying to break through his Pisces-Moon, Gemini-Rising walls, and I almost feel like even though he never acknowledged my romantic interest in him, he's still holding onto me...is that even possible? That would be sorta twisted, wouldn't it? I mean, this sudden force that's emerged (cause he's been oddly streaming back into my thoughts in the last 2-3 weeks for no good reason), does it mean he's thinking about me or something? He couldn't have cared about me at all or he would have done something tangible, there would be no point for him to hang on to something (me) he never intended to pursue... Am I making any sense at all? Please tell me I'm not crazy, and perhaps why the heck this is going on? PS, for all of those who've known me a few years, this is the guy I sent all those poems (the letter-poem included) to and never got a concrete answer. ------------------
-K
"Most people love with restraint
As if they were someday to hate
We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |
DeepIYM
Knowflake Posts: 355
From: Colorful Colorado
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted October 14, 2004 11:12 PM
Emotions can sometimes be foolers...
What can I say, I know the feeling. I usually find it to be myself that holds the problem... but maybe...
If he's not giving you concrete answers... then drop such a person immediately... I mean that is just a waste of time. If there isn't any quality communication now, will there ever be? I doubt it, but sail on my Virgo-AriesAritist...Please, take it from a Pisces Randall III IP: Logged |
astro junkie
Knowflake Posts: 10985
From: One of the billions and billions of cosmos hurdling towards a black hole :)
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted October 14, 2004 11:46 PM
Gem Nymph was saying something about how the Mutal Reception of transiting Uranus in Pisces and Neptune in Aquarius does stuff like this.For the last few days, I've been questioning whether loving couples ever feel a tremendous pull towards their love, with but a subtle cue ... cuz my friend's Neptune is in my 7th, and stuff must be bring out Neptune stuff right now. See where these two Planets are Transiting over your Natal, Uranus & Neptune, because they may both be sitting in the same House right now. They are both transiting his 2nd right now, and it's been a huge struggle. IP: Logged |
Gia
Knowflake Posts: 1154
From: California
Registered: May 2004
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posted October 15, 2004 02:35 AM
The reason you feel the energy drain is because he still continues to drain you. I know this may sound hard to believe, but if you've slept with the man this can actually be very strong indeed. He has left his energetic frequency in your body and now he is in your field. It's like you still carry a tiny part of his DNA if you like. In many respects he is hanging on to you. Your emotions will reflect that. Do you sometimes find yourself thinking about how much you like certain aspects of your relationship? This will go away in time. If it bothers you I can advise you on what to do to cut the ties that bind you. Part of that is letting go, getting rid of any ties you still have old emails, photographs, gifts and such.  Gia IP: Logged |
trillian
Knowflake Posts: 4050
From: The Boundless
Registered: Mar 2003
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posted October 15, 2004 08:31 AM
No Gia, she never slept with him. She loved him from afar. Sweetie, that unrequited love always comes back to haunt us. It's happened to us all. Heard about the new book featured on a recent Oprah? It's called He's Just Not That Into You. For all of us women who like to create excuses for explaining the behavior or lack of attention from men we fancy. I've been planning to buy it.  Good luck VAA. You will find a man who will give you the kind of attention you want and deserve.  IP: Logged | |
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