posted October 28, 2004 11:20 PM         

One thing I should mention.. it is literally a cabin ( two actually) .. to get there, you take farm roads, dirt roads, and finally this tiny little road, practically inaccessible in the winter, *we used to have to ski-doo in, in the winter* there is no running water, and two outhouses.... a cook shack, where we used to make maple syrop, a pond to swim and bathe in, and a spring for fresh water. The whole no bathroom thing isn't pleasant, but it certainly takes you back to nature. My grandfather built (welded) a huge trampoline when we were small, the material isn't even available now... I guess it wasn't very environmentally friendly, so I can't imagine what it was made of... some high density rubber.
Anyways.. there are paths all through out the forest, a few springs, and neighbours' land with a huge pond. I haven't been in a very long time, and now that grampa's gone... well.. it isn't very magical as of yet.. it'll get there again, I know....
The wood stove isn't as romantic as an adult when you have to cook and wash dishes and heat the cabin with it....

posted October 29, 2004 03:26 AM         

It's nice to see the turn this thread has taken. I so want to be at 'Cedar Hill' right now pix. Sounds magical, thank you for sharing that with us. How romantic that your husband proposed to you there too.....

Tink,
I just want to clear something up. I know in the original post, Daf specifically mentioned things about the homosexuality thread, but I also caught the fact that he was refering to other threads as well. First of all I never replied to that particular thread (homosexuality), so it wouldnt make sense to single me out as one of the people he picked out in his original post here. There were other things stated that led me to believe he was refering to the Guru thread as well. (also, I had always gotten along well with him until - unknowingly - recently) *puzzled look on face*
You mentioned that lately youve noticed "far too many aggressive, mean-spirited, accusatory posts". I find that interesting, because in my view, LindaLand has been more lighthearted than usual lately, and others have stated the same feeling (though....I have been staying out of GU lately so..... ).
The Guru thread stirred up a lot of things for some people, still others seemed to be completely accepting of this man and what he came to do. Both of these reactions are fine.
No one got attacked for blindly accepting everything this man has said. They were free to express their opinions on him, like we all are. But it seems the people here that were outspoken in their opinion that they didnt take this man to be a Master/Guru are the ones that are being blamed here.
One is not more right than the other. By someone conveying their own positive feelings for the man, doesnt mean others who feel differently are somehow missing the boat.
There were some very hurtful things mentioned about some people here. (Although I dont take it much to heart, because it is only one man's opinion) But I believe that Daf is sincere in his apology and find it big of him to make one. We've all done things we arent proud of - all we can do is learn from the mistakes and try not to repeat them. It only makes us better people when we do. No one is perfect.
And I've got to say, I get the feeling you still hold a grudge about that time I playfully called you "Tinkle" in GU awhile back. (it was brought up in other posts and you said you were going to avoid me after that) I tried to tell you that it wasnt mean spirited when I did it, that it was just me, being wacky (sometimes cheesy) ol' me. So please forgive me for it. I know it really offended you at the time, but it really wasnt meant to hurt you in any way. K?

Daf,
I've always enjoyed the wisdom youve shared with us Knowflakes in the past. You are an intelligent soul with a lot of love and wisdom to share. I didnt think we were on bad terms. I found I usually agreed with alot of your views and would like to see your s-elf back here. There are people who care about you here. I know this place is (was) a 'home' for you as it is for so many of us. To me it's like a family. We help each other out....and sometimes fight with each other. But we are all come here for the same thing.
In any case, much love and light to you on your path. Hope to see you around again.

yawn......*rambles herself off to bed*

posted October 29, 2004 08:59 AM         

Good Morning to you too!

To those who defended me, 26T and Tink, LS and Pixie, many thanks.

Daf, be a man, please put your original post back so I may absorb it and respond to it. I've no idea what it said, I was working till late last night then packing to enjoy a weekend away. Again, if you have those feelings towards me, and you thought they were worthy of posting, then please replace them.

If daf doesn't have the guts, perhaps 26T, or Tink, you will kindly email me with the details. Don't worry, I have thick skin, and I always consider the source.

I can't accept an 'apology' until I know what the apology is for.

I say what I mean and I mean what I say. I stand by what I say, too. I am not a coward. I feel no need to defend myself. There are those here who will like me, and those who will not. C'est la vie, C'est la mort.

posted October 29, 2004 09:14 AM         

That's quite ok. I was, admittedly, taken aback a bit by the "tinkle", but not really offended. Offended is a strong word, I think. In fact, if someone had asked me who said it I wouldn't have remembered. I don't recall it being brought up in another thread though. I certainly have not tried to avoid you. Very honestly, there is no one here I have tried to avoid. Even Jwhop and carlos! And that's saying something. Speaking of Jwhop, yes, I have been playing in GU too much this past week.

posted October 29, 2004 10:39 AM         

Nothing brings families together faster than forgiveness. That should make it Step No. 1, but most of us find forgiving hard. We associate it with weakness and losing when, actually, the reverse is true. When you forgive, you gain strength and come out a winner. You break free of control by the other person's actions.
· Dr. Joyce Brothers -

Love to all,

posted October 29, 2004 10:52 AM         

But glory be, I ain't divine yet. Still only human. And luckily, I only mentioned forgiveness 'cause daf posted more prose, supposedly an apology.

Frankly, there's nothing to forgive. And even if there were, it's himself he needs to forgive. He needs nothing from me.

Daf has a right to his opinion. But he posted it in a public forum under the auspices of some twisted moral high ground, then ran away, couldn't even stand by his own self. That ain't nowhere near divine, either.

posted October 29, 2004 11:26 AM         

I you Tril You have a fabulous way with words... cut through the crap... just say what you gotta say.

posted October 29, 2004 01:49 PM         

Interesting that the women (women!!) named in the original post are all the strong-minded, self-sufficient type of woman that I admire so much. No one could accuse us of being sychophants of any sort.

I'll be away for the weekend. Ladies and gents, enjoy your Halloween. And remember, in a year or two, in a breath or two, none of this will matter. But it's kinda fun while it lasts.

posted October 29, 2004 02:50 PM         

Trillian , youre welcome.

Daf,
I think your best bet, if you really want forgivness from these ladies, would be to let them read the first post - unaltered. I do think they have a right to know and respond in their own defense. And believe you are the only one who can finish what you started. I'd like to stay out of it. I think it's the only way to give this whole thing full closure. And they deserve that.

In any case, I love you girls. Have a Happy Halloween. I was actually honored to be lumped into the group with all of you. lol
If we're bad, I have no idea what good is. Let's face it, we rock. Some men can't handle strong women.

posted October 29, 2004 09:43 PM         

You ladies are some of the strongest, women that I know!!!

Just love you guys!

Hands Up Too you, lets celebrate!!!

26taurus,

posted October 30, 2004 11:18 PM         

Men are so disappointing. Why do men prefer subservient, submissive women?