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posted April 16, 2005 03:47 PM         

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I say point and scratch! Ha Ha!

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posted April 16, 2005 04:28 PM         

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How are you, BTW, how's birdy?

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posted April 16, 2005 04:43 PM         

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We had a rough week! Especially Jay! He'll have his arm operated on Wednesday. Odd thing is, he says it doesn't hurt much and it doesn't look bad either! Thanks for asking.

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posted April 16, 2005 05:27 PM         

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LOL fayte.m and Philbird, great advice…I’ll try it out

Marcia, of course I get what you mean. Thanks for calling me a woman I often don’t feel that way considering I’m lacking in a certain part of my body but hey, it’s not like I’m a triple A or something jk
Actually it’s not that bad, my Virgo Moon is just hard on me. At least my figure more than makes up for it - and there’s always Wonderbra I think it was Cameron Diaz who got a part in a movie ( her first if I’m right ) because she was wearing a Wonderbra I think we’re the same size...Diaz that is.
Whoa!! How did I get to this.

Urrr…never mind.

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posted April 16, 2005 06:20 PM         

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disillusioned......Not funny

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posted April 16, 2005 06:39 PM         

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Neptune's Mermaid,

Small boobies are hot!

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posted April 16, 2005 10:39 PM         

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At least they dont get saggy! They bigger they are the quicker they fall.

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posted April 16, 2005 10:56 PM         

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"How long should you wait before having sex?"

At least 'til puberty.

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posted April 16, 2005 11:36 PM         

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not nice, not funny, plain cruel.......

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posted April 17, 2005 12:59 AM         

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posted April 17, 2005 08:46 AM         

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Cheer up everyone

Hello my lovely ladies, lol thank ya Marcia *trying really hard not to blush* I’m actually staring to feel better about myself. However, once summer hits I think I better whip out the Wonderbra.
I don’t mean while I’m wearing it…you know what I mean

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posted April 17, 2005 04:59 PM         

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I didn't think I'd get that upset. It was just that I had just gotten done pouring out my feelings on breast size, and how I'd love to be normal to flat chested. It really made me feel like some evision me as some kind of troll. That is why I erased some of my posts. Usually I can laugh at myself too, but the timing for ha ha ha about large breasts made me feel I'd made a fool of myself, and gun shy about telling anyone of my experiences to try and help.

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posted April 17, 2005 06:05 PM         

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Fayte, come on! We are just joking! Dont take offense. That's a scorpio thing! It's isn't directed at you personally! NO one is trying to hurt you.

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posted April 17, 2005 07:04 PM         

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fayte.m, it wasn’t me was it?

Being large does not make you a troll, why would you think that? There are so many women out there who would love to be busty…trust me it’s not fun looking like a boy. This is why I can't ever have short hair, I have to be stuck with the same hair style till I die.

BTW it’s ok if you get upset, I’ve gotten over emotion on these boards before - you know that I’d misunderstand something and get hurt - only to later realise, it was nothing. I haven’t been here long, but almost everyone here is completely cool. The way they communicate is different, not malicious - it’s something you have to get used to…it’s something I have to get used to. When you’re talking to someone face to face, or over the phone, it’s kind of easy to guess what they’re thinking. You pick up things like body language, their tone of voice and of course…their eyes. But when it’s writing, it hard to pick up the emotions behind it. A person could mean a million things, I guess it depends on your Mercury - Merc in Aqua here

Being honest does NOT make you a fool. And you did it to help…which is why it’s so much more great…and sweet. I appreciate your help, but if you feel uncomfortable it's ok…you don’t have to. Besides, people will make fun if you’re large or flat - they don’t care - their intentions are to hurt. There are MANY dumb people out there lol and I have unfortunately met too many of them…although I try not to judge I’m not talking about this site btw. I suppose we all have parts of ourselves we feel self-conscious about, it’s not like you’re the only woman that’s like that, and I’m not the only one that’s like this. Isn’t it funny how we both want…what the other dislikes. I suppose beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. OK it’s late…and this post is too long lol I don’t want to bore you. I hope you start feeling better ( and not the empty “I hope” - the REAL “I hope” ). lots of love

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posted April 18, 2005 01:00 AM         

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No neptune's mermaid, it wasn't you. It wasn't you either marcia. And I guess it wasn't really you Bluemoon, even though it was your post that actually set me off. I was having a bad boob, H cup day. Ever get one pinched in a dresser drawer and bruise it? Then go and bump your hot cup of coffee with it and get burned? Not a good day for boobs. I would love to be flat chested. I can understand though for those that are, how it could be an issue. Believe me being too well endowed is not fun. As I said in my post that I edited out---it hurts your back, bras are impossible unless they are those industrial strength nightmares that try to cut your shoulders. I have damage to my neck and can't even wear those, so I have no choice but to let nature have it's way with me. I also can't get reduction because of nerve damage etc. The jokes for having too much bust, I think can be much more foul than for small. I went through puberty at 9 and a half years old. To my horror even when I weighed 94 pounds I was a freak in most peoples eyes. Who ever heard of a 4th. grade student with a D/E cup? The guys only wanted me so they could grab them. Even now most men talk to my boobs, and never make eye contact. Mammographies are just so much fun! The people they have doing them usually get confused about how to get me to fit on the films. They also act grossed out or shocked. I kid you not! I nursed my son for a year, and even that was difficult because they were as big as him and I had to be careful not to suffocate him with them. I would love to be able to wear cute little things and tube tops. And those monthly breast self exams doctors tell you to do? Yeah Right, I.m going to find anything! Well, I have ranted and gone on again! Ok, I'm being honest again. I will try not to get upset again about anything anyone says about big boobs. I feel silly that being teased about them or stared at still bothers me. I guess it's cause, there they hang every day and night, and there's nothing I can do about it! I still envy the small breasted. I can't help it. Ok, I'll chill out. Thanks for the replys.

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posted April 18, 2005 02:18 AM         

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Fayte,

You're sweet, I love you.
I thought you were angry at the "wait till puberty" comment (no offense HSC)

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posted April 18, 2005 07:52 AM         

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Thanks everyone! This all made me aware that I have an attitude towards being too well endowed that I need to learn to deal with. So again thanks everyone!

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posted April 18, 2005 08:39 AM         

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wow, puberty must have been tough, but that’s all in the past. At least when you wear a tight shirt, you don’t look like a pre-teen. I think the thing with the jokes…they seem foul because you’re more sensitive to the large boob one’s - just like I’m more sensitive to the flat…ahhhhh I don’t even like saying that - flat, I feel so masculine. Seriously, I don’t feel feminine on most days, I look like my brother - I don’t mean my face lol. I feel the most uncomfortable around certain guys. Most are real sweet and don’t look at you that way. But the more curious ones ( or shall I say RUDE ) make me wish the earth would open up and swallow me. I don’t even want to think what’s going through their mind - I become so paranoid…which is normal for me - scary

I suppose it’s tough when you’re not what society considers “normal” whether you’re too small or too big. I think we need to realise the good that comes out of our assets If only I could think of some lol. But I will try…and I think it will help. Being negative about ourselves can not be healthy for our self-esteem. I think it’s best if we somehow raise above these things…and love ourselves regardless of what - then we’ll truly be happy. Only problem is, it’s something that’s incredibly difficult to achieve - but I have faith…in myself and in you.

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posted April 18, 2005 08:59 AM         

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Neptune, I totally can relate to being.. well.. undeveloped. I do not fit into an a cup, and it's only been recently that I've become comfortable with my boyish build. Accepting and loving our bodies is hard, whether we're big or small, and of course it goes beyond the size of our taa taas.

to answer the question at hand, I try to wait as long as possible before having sex. Which usually happens when I'm tired of hearing the mister complain that I never give it up.

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posted April 18, 2005 09:04 AM         

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Puberty was VERY BAD, BAD! I was raped when I was 10 years old, amongst other things. I am happy that being a female has allowed me to experience the wonder of feeling a child growing within and giving birth to a WONDERFUl and HANDSOME son!
But I feel I am really a guy inside. I have arm wrestled and won several trophies professionally. I could (before being injured in an industrial accident) lift more than most men. I could pole vault and jump and more "guy" things, even with the BIG boobs. I have to admit if I didn't ace bandage the things down they'd hit me in the chin! And the bouncing hurt! Yes I can see how we are flip sides of the same coin. You can't wear your hair short or people will think you look too boyish. I can't either or they'd have nothing to distract them from the big issues{ha! ha!}. Without my almost 4 feet of hair I'd feel even more exposed. Gotta go! Talk to you later! Hi
Laglady!!! Your post came in as I was replying to Neptune's mermaid. I guess I never realised that the opposite of my problem is no fun either. Thanks all for giving me this food for thought.

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posted April 18, 2005 09:35 AM         

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I really didn't mean to offend! I guess I need to take more consideration be for I speak! We all need to try to be happy with what our maker gave us. Which is not at all easy!!!!!!!!!! to all! and always feel free to tell me if I get out of line. I am not trying to hurt anyone!!!!!

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posted April 18, 2005 10:13 AM         

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Bluemoon.....no problem anymore....I think I needed that wake up call. It was an issue I needed to take a very long hard look at and didn't see it! Hee! Hee! Even though "they" were right out in front of me! maybe I should name "them" bounce and yoyo!

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posted April 18, 2005 10:40 AM         

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fayte.m I’m really sorry about your childhood. It must have been terrible. But God blessed you with a beautiful son…and probably in sooo many other ways too. I believe you can make anything good come out of anything bad. Perhaps you’re meant to rise above this and reach a level of more understanding and awareness. I can only imagine what something like this can do to a person…but somehow, emotionally, I understand more. I’m sure you’re meant to grow beyond this and move on - which I pray your achieving. It seems motherhood has profoundly changed you for the better - and I’m really happy for that

I would love to write something really beautiful…but writing is not my top subject lol I’m a maths dork. So I dug up a link and found a quote, which is for you…and your beautiful son

“There is no difficulty that enough love will not conquer;
no disease that enough love will not heal;
no door that enough love will not open;
no gulf that enough love will not bridge;
no wall that enough love will not throw down;
no sin that enough love will not redeem...
It makes no difference how deeply seated may be the trouble;
how hopeless the outlook; how muddled the tangle; how great the mistake.
A sufficient realization of love will dissolve it all.
If only you could love enough you would be
the happiest and most powerful being in the world...
~Emmet Fox~”

Lots of love to you both

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posted April 18, 2005 10:41 AM         

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I found it in a thread BlueRoamer started - it’s pretty cool, although I have only looked at the love quotes. http://www.sfheart.com/peace.html

Hey I do plenty of guy things too, but I’m not very physically strong - I was born a weak, but feisty, baby lol. The career I’m aiming for is very male dominated - but the hell with it, like I’d ever follow any rules Besides, at the end of the day it’s all about making £££ or $$$ lol
We’re very alike, although I couldn’t do most of those things, I suppose we’re the same on the inside. Lots of love, be talking to you soon darling

Ladlady, I still wear vests *sigh* but I can just about fit a cup…with some imagination of course lol. The older I get, the more comfortable I feel. I just have to let go of what the world expects of me - once I do that, life will get easier. And yeah, it’s not just about our boobs, we all have issues about different things on our bodies. But I think if we realise this is something everyone goes through, regardless of age, gender, race, sexuality etc We might stop seeing ourselves as singled out by life… and grow and move on

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posted April 18, 2005 11:23 AM         

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Neptune's mermaid....Thank you for the reply and the poem! I am blessed! I have a wonderful husband and a son{by a previous marriage}, and so much more. I have survived rape, abuse, nearly died a couple of times, been a homeless person...Hey those big dumpster like things people put clothes in make good nests! Well that was like 30 years ago that happened.... I have counted even the bad things, as actually good things in the long run! If I had not endured so much, how could I be who I am? How could I understand and try to help others if I had never walked in their shoes? Blessings come in a variety of packages, and yes! I am blessed! Gotta go for now........

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