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posted June 03, 2005 12:25 PM         

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Ok ladies and gents plse give me your comments on this, this has been a serious topic for me and a few girlfriends of mine.

Im confused I know a guy that I am interested in and I know that he is watching me too. He has said plenty of flirtatious things to me ask me questions that only a man interested in a women would ask. He seems so shy though we see each other twice a week in the gym. At first I was chatting with him a lil then a few days I just waved got my things and left I could tell that he wanted to chat real bad with me but I just kept it moving. One time he came all the way to the top bleachers where I was sitting mind you all this other space he could have sat but did not say a word to me. I could tell then that he was a lil shy but wanted to say something. Anyway now that I am interested and have been chatting with him and flirting just a lil he seems a lil distant. The last time I saw him I kind of blew him off and he wanted to talk. So now do I make a move or let him continue to show me that he is still interested and let him ask me for my number. A few girlfriends of mine say wait a few say go get him. What you guys think...

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posted June 03, 2005 12:28 PM         

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> He has said plenty of flirtatious things to me ask me questions that only a man interested in a women would ask

I would like a couple of examples.
What are those questions that ONLY a man interested in a woman would ask?

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posted June 03, 2005 12:34 PM         

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Ok, Basically it really is small talk but he ask me questions like where do I live,how long have I been taking this kickboxing class, do I like motor cycles why do I come way over here to work out, do I work out anywhere else can he see my tatoo on my leg that my 6 yr old told him I had. Things to let me know that he is interested in me. Plus I noticed from day 1 that he started speaking to me but never speaks to the other ladies not unless they speak to him first..

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posted June 03, 2005 12:56 PM         

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Smile, be open, don't walk away in a hurry.
Or just say HI.

My *very hard* advice.

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