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Topic: Goodbye......
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fayte.m
Knowflake Posts: 9809
From: Still out looking for Schrödinger's cat. fayte1954@hotmail.com
Registered: Mar 2005
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posted June 27, 2005 05:41 PM
 
Edited June 27-05..I WAS going to buy a banner! And have drawings for feebies!Note I asked before if anyone wanted me to leave...it would have been kinder to say so before I felt happy here.... Sorrow runs deep when one thought they were amongst friends!
fayte.m
Knowflake
Posts: 1281
From: ohio
Registered: Mar 2005
My apologies to all those who have been kind to me here at Lexigram Magic and LL.
But the following responses....especially by a moderator is my cue that I do not belong here. I did not realize people could be so nasty and cruel.
I will not be back to Lexigram Magic.
I hope you are all so very happy. May you get what you give!
You naysayers do not even understand what inneryou is about! You never asked!
Again thank you to the wonderful people who have liked my lexigrams! And to you much blessings! Good bye. And to those who have been cruel.. Linda would be ashamed of your kind!
I gave away lexigrams I did not have to. But I wanted to contribute. Posting here was a direct conflict of interest with my husband’s company. But I was enjoying myself! I said that I would leave LL. When I got a sign that it was time to leave. I am not sure what I will do now….I am very saddened….I thought this was a place of love and tolerance…acceptance and other ways of looking at things. My loving nature and giving everyone a chance has again slapped me in the face! Again thank you to those who have been kind.
God bless you!
And to those who think it is fun to treat others with utter rudeness and vile attacks…may you get back what you have given! Good Bye
From a very disappointed and very shocked Fayte.m PS.Here are a few of the mean reactions to my posts at Lexigram Magic************************************************************************ LibraSparkle
Moderator posted June 26, 2005 05:29 PM
Is this a commercial?
I much prefer my T.V. to be commercial free.
posted June 26, 2005 06:01 PM
$20 bucks for a single name?!
What a rip off... I can do that myself for free.
What would possess you to help this inneryou.com rip off the people of LindaLand?
juniperb
Knowflake posted June 26, 2005 11:01 PM
We know Linda`s position on that! leoelf
Knowflake
posted June 27, 2005 10:11 AM
Absolutely.
I thought this site was an honor and tribute to Linda Goodman. Not to befriend her fans, dishonor her, and try to make $$$.
Yes you have a right to your opinion and that is fine. But this forum looks like a damned spam zone because of you. *********************************************
pixelpixie
Moderator posted June 26, 2005 10:42 PM
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This website is Linda-Goodman.com. I mean.. you are allowed to disagree, absolutely, to take your ideas and make them work.....but it does get a little tiresome to hear all about you and your husband's business/money making strategies.... and then discreditting the site that lets you advertise.
I 'moderate' here, but I find I can't even post, or start a lexi..... Nothing against you as a person. You have been generous to a lot here.
But LibraSparkle touched on it, and I have been keeping it in.... I guess when someone says something, it makes you more confident to speak up in agreeance.
********************************************* Bluemoon
posted June 27, 2005 12:24 PM
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Pixie, AMEN!!!!! This site is here to honor Linda Goodmans philosophies if you want to advertise, please purchase the banner from the site.
********************************************* ********************************************** I am so saddened by the above....This hurts...I cannot believe this could happen here......
So as you can see…the naysayers have won! Congratulations!
Good Bye!
PS. The final nail in the coffin...as I was posting this I got the message loud and clear...so thank you Leo Elf!
Everyone can that Leo Elf for making the final decision.....
leoelf
Knowflake
Posts: 244
From: In My Head
Registered: May 2005
posted June 27, 2005 05:18 PM
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LoL
Fayte, you deserve an Oscar.
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trillian
Knowflake Posts: 4050
From: The Boundless
Registered: Mar 2003
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posted June 27, 2005 06:04 PM
Vile attacks? Sorry, I don't read any vile attacks. I think you may have a lack of objectivity about yourself, fayte. You and I didn't see eye to eye about many things, but so it goes. C'est la vie. But you were sometimes quite disparaging about the things Linda wrote, especially about Lexigramming. And some of the things you said indirectly (but obviously) about people here at LL and their beliefs could also have been construed as attacks.Knowflakes come and go. Some bring more drama than others. If it's time for you to leave, I wish you an enjoyable path.  IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
Knowflake Posts: 5301
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted June 27, 2005 06:44 PM
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum8/HTML/001435.html
IN the interest of clarity.And Thank you as always, Trillian! IP: Logged |
SunChild
Moderator Posts: 4032
From: Australia
Registered: Jan 2004
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posted June 27, 2005 07:00 PM
Fayte.
Your post is out of context by the way. But I am sad that you feel you have to leave, please for a moment understand why the moderators said something.
If you buy a banner that's great...
But your posts in the lexi forum were growing into 'linda's way is no good', come use my way, and pay!
Not all of your posts were like this, they were just becoming more frequent.
Pixel Pixies reply was NOT out of line.
Even thought you were offering your time to others, which is lovely, you still found the time to advertise in nearly every post, and suggest Linda's way is not reliable.
Being a part of Linda-goodman.com, I would not like to see every newbie to the lexi forum be confronted with those suggestions.
Me, like many others, began to question your intentions.
Please open your mind to understand that.
I know we've had a little misdunderstanding in the past about lexigramming, and I was so happy that we were able to agree to disagree. That was what was so lovely about you fayte. I hope that you can see where we're coming from, and for the interests of the knowflakes at Lindaland.
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"The dream was always running ahead of me. To catch up, to live for a moment in unison with it, that was the miracle." Anaïs Nin IP: Logged |
angel_of_hope
Moderator Posts: 1394
From: Palmer, AK
Registered: Jul 2004
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posted June 27, 2005 08:02 PM
just in case you miss my post in the other forum .... awww, fayte, please reconsider and have a change of heart. You are a beautiful soul. I enjoyed reading so many of your posts.
I have an idea. Since this is indeed a confilct of intrest (although i know you enjoy doing lexi's (whether it be your way or linda's makes no difference) maybe just stick to the other parts of the forum. universal codes is one of my favorite spots to read your post. Such as the info on your past live's, your summons story (which i just read this morning). You have alot wisdom to share with many people here who enjoy your knowledge and outlook on life itself. I love you! I love your stories! I love your wealth of wisdom!!! please reconsider, just cause some dont get along with you or visa-versa, dont abandon us all. Just stay away from those who harm your soul and integrity. For the ones who truely enjoy you, are the ones that are hurt and saddened the most. You are truely a unique person. If you dont change your mind, know that you WILL be missed as well as everything you have to offer!!! Love, a saddened know-flake,
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Yang
Knowflake Posts: 2296
From: A temporary home
Registered: May 2004
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posted June 29, 2005 04:34 PM
 That is how I feel!IP: Logged |
LostInStrangeWorld
Knowflake Posts: 195
From: Bristol, England
Registered: Mar 2005
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posted June 29, 2005 04:57 PM
I don't know what's gone on, but I always liked you Fayte, even if I haven't been here as long as the others- and I remember you giving some pretty cool posts. So please don't go. People fall out all the time. Allow yours-elf some time to cool off a little and try to see things from a different perspective. Don't just think about the bad things, the bad feelings that you have experienced- remember all the good experiences too.Let bygones be bygones. And please, knowflakes- no more squabbling. We all have our own point of view. We all fall out from time to time. I'm not saying that this is the case here, but I've seen some pretty ridiculous squabbling before, every so often, on this site. What a waste of Time!
If we could all learn to walk in each other's shoes a bit more, think what a better place the world would be. Don't take this the wrong way, but you knowflakes aren't half over-sensitive! Well, I guess that's a byproduct of being spiritually inclined. I'll let you into a secret- I'm extremely sensitive myself. However, I've had to put up with so much wotsit in my life that I've come to the point that I just don't care anymore. 'Don't pass judgement on other people, or you might get judged yourself!' -Brian, Monty Python's 'Life of Brian' LOve "If we could only learn to love each other enough, all miracles would become possible" IP: Logged |
trillian
Knowflake Posts: 4050
From: The Boundless
Registered: Mar 2003
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posted June 29, 2005 05:12 PM
Dear Lost,that was a lovely, inspiring post. Thank you, sincerely. It may be inappropriate to post here, but your post got my mind to spiraling, which is always the best side-effect of LL, IMO.  So since reading your post, I've been musing on our ability to squabble, or not squabble. For, are we not born to be passionate, emotional creatures? While a balance in body mind and spirit seems like the ultimate aspiration, on the other hand, does one truly want to give up one's emotional nature, with all its variables, ups, and down? Would we know how to love if we did not also know hate? As a writer, I would prefer to have someone passionately hate my work, than to be ambivalent, or emotionless, about it. I say these things because I've seen these 'squabbles' at LL many times in my tenure, and I have come to believe it is necessary, and contributes to the sustained energy of LL. If passionate people did not come here, then, there might be no reason for LL to exist at all. Feathers get ruffled. That's life. Even here, in the virtual life. And 'round here, after the fall-out, it often smells like a spring meadow. ------------------
The less I seek my source for some definitive, the closer I am to fine. -Indigo Girls IP: Logged |
pidaua
Knowflake Posts: 7314
From: Schweinfurt to Grafenwoehr all within 6 months LOL
Registered: May 2002
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posted June 29, 2005 05:15 PM
Very well spoken Trillian.. as usual (My fellow rebel) IP: Logged |
LostInStrangeWorld
Knowflake Posts: 195
From: Bristol, England
Registered: Mar 2005
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posted June 29, 2005 05:34 PM
I agree with you, Trillian. I believe that argueing can get things out in the open and bring people closer together, if they handle it in the right way. Or it can drive people apart. Some of us are more sensitive than others, and this too should be taken into consideration. I believe that love makes things grow, not the opposite.I've just been reading about rose quartz, and we could definetely do with some rose quartz vibrations here! So i image them to you. I'm not sure whether leoelf could do with some to, I didn't get round to reading that thread. It's late, so I must get some sleep- been tired lately. By the way, I too am a passionate soul! I have one hell of a temper on me! But I'm sick of argueing now. It has drained me too much in the 25 years I've been on this planet. It's Time for a different approach. You can't fight fire with fire, so they say. I find that if a child is having a tantrum, raising one's voice only makes matters worse. Stay calm. A cuddle may be all he or she needs. Don't react. This is just an example. We must learn to articulate ours-elves more, tact. Then we will evolve. evolve= love.
There is truth in all things. I believe that the study of psychology, for example could help us become more tolerant beings. 'War! Huh! Yeahhh! What is it good for? Absolutely nothing' (song) LOL From a sensitive & passionate Moon in Libra EXACTLY conjunct Pluto EMOTIONS! Yeah, I've had alotta them in my life! Feeling good at the moment though. Sunlight really is a good healer! More people need to know about the healing that sunlight does physically give us, even if we have damaged the ozone (tsk, tsk). LOts Of lOve, OOber peOple IP: Logged |
geminstone
Knowflake Posts: 1007
From: Golden, CO
Registered: Nov 2004
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posted June 29, 2005 07:15 PM
Fayte.M ~
I'm with Angel and Yang.... I always loved your posts... at least, if you feel that LL is not comfortable anymore, don't forget that Angel and I are on Yahoo Messenger, as well as many others( sorry Yang, I'm not sure if you are or, not my Yahoo I.D : jewlzntrav Love to You, ~ geminstone IP: Logged |
LibraSparkle
Knowflake Posts: 6034
From: Vancouver USA
Registered: May 2004
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posted July 02, 2005 10:02 AM
I stand by my statement. I don't feel it was mean or cruel.I do not come here to be sold to. I do not appreciate it. I do not respect it. I think fayte doesn't understand the differences between being frank, blunt, or honest and being mean. People often confuse honesty with cruelty. The truth hurts. IP: Logged | |
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