posted August 02, 2005 03:16 AM         

I know this guy who has a double life going. Nevermind that he is kind of a shmcuk and has never been faithful to any woman- he was once married for 3 weeks but onn the wedding day was fooling around with another woman.

Now i don't personally know the new mistress (Lana) but have read her letters -- he has me check his mail and read them to him when he goes out of town -- for him and i know that she is madly in love with him and has no idea that he has another girlfirend (Marta) that he is serious with. Now i don't know (Marta) at all but the mistress is clueless and so in love with him but lately she is starting to wonder. Now Lana has included information on her little boys in the letters saying how attached she is and they are. He has no intention of really being with her he is only using her for sex.

She is starting to clue in but everytime she mentions pulling away casue he is distant or won't return calls , etc., he lies to her to get her to stay.

Here is the dilemma- i did some digging and found her email address and was thinking of sending an anonymous email telling her to ask him who Marta is?

I hate that he does this to women and normally hate to step in but she is so in love and has children involved and i don't know if i should. I keep thinking if that were me i would want to know. HELP What would you do???

posted August 02, 2005 11:52 PM         

I would love for Marta to know too but cannot find her email addy otherwise yeah the gig would be up for him.

Thanks for all the input i do appreciate your time and concern (thanks PhilBird, LalaLinda and cathy1111100xxx (((cyberhugs
to you all))

Cathy-