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Topic: Dancing with women.....
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sue g Knowflake Posts: 8591 From: former land of the leprechaun Registered: Sep 2004
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posted August 15, 2005 06:33 AM
I was out last night - great evening - live music outdoods, warm evening, perfect. I met this woman - she was friendly, very womanly, large and confident and she is a dancer, so I got up on my own to dance and she joined me, and we had great craic and we really let it go, barefooted and completely lost in the music. My question is and she asked the same.........why dont many men dance the way women do - ive only met a few that really can let it go and they are usually spanish, portugese etc. If I could dance the way with men that I do with women...........oh yeah there is my answer, I am not meant to..........if you get my drift.......oh well in my next life maybe.......what do you girls and boys think??? Love to all Sue xxx
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Svetlana Knowflake Posts: 254 From: USA Registered: Jul 2005
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posted August 15, 2005 07:52 AM
I think it has to do with our society' idea of how a man should be to be concidered a "real" man.
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pixelpixie Knowflake Posts: 5301 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Jun 2005
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posted August 15, 2005 08:17 AM
I LLOOOOOOOOOVE dancing! Losing myself in the music. I usually get a small crowd, but if there is no one else, I am happy to just dance. Alone. It's true, only the occasional man... usually he is only goofing, then sits down, or will need a beer in his hand to be-bop. Unless it's a line dance, in which I usually sit down ( can't do it my way.. fixed signs all over my chart?)Line dances were invented for men I think. I go out with my mom a lot, and she has taken me aside and asked me to tone it down, as too many people (men) were watching...;ie; losing myself in the music. I tell her let them watch, I want to dance. No apologies here. (An adult and she still tries to repress my energies)
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Bluemoon Knowflake Posts: 4456 From: Stafford, VA USA Registered: Feb 2005
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posted August 15, 2005 08:46 AM
lol, Pix!! My niece and I were dance in a bar one night, both of us rather tipsy, and she told me "You and I both dance like ***** " lol. I love to dance with girls, the guys get to excited and just want to F!! WHich is okay to, But I want to dance first............... IP: Logged |
Saturn's Child Knowflake Posts: 867 From: Just left of center Registered: May 2004
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posted August 15, 2005 10:24 AM
I've had the most amount of pure fun dancing with the girls!! Sometimes on girls night out we'd go out and fairly take over the dance floor!!! Crazy uninhibited FUN!!!!IP: Logged |
WaterNymph Knowflake Posts: 2276 From: London, UK Registered: May 2005
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posted August 15, 2005 12:23 PM
I hate to say it, but non white boys are the best dancers It’s all about genetics and Biology - of course girls don’t follow this rule ------------------ aka Neptune’s Mermaid, NM, WN, Nurse Neptune, Waternixie, Nepsnympe and deputy #6 “Suffering is not caused by external, traumatic events, but by qualities of mind which shape our perceptions and responses to events. Accordingly, happiness is not to be found in the outer, social world, but in a transformation of mind which generates wisdom, tranquillity, and compassion.” - Ron Leifer IP: Logged |
peajie Knowflake Posts: 246 From: Australia Registered: Aug 2005
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posted August 17, 2005 02:12 AM
Enjoy what you can Sue. Pity us poor guys, how often do you see, or would it be acceptable for two of us "real" men to dance with each other. One day we may have "Male liberation".IP: Logged |
BlueRoamer Knowflake Posts: 3944 From: Calm Blue Ocean, Calm Blue Ocean Registered: Jun 2003
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posted August 17, 2005 05:15 AM
Hey I'm white, and I dance quite well...but I"m gay so thats the exception, I don't care about male and females expected gender roles. A lot of my straight male friends love to dance, but they're kind of an ecclectic bunch.One of the funniest things is watching a tall nerdy white guy try to dance. To me, the ability to dance projects sexual prowess, and when someone is really bad it seems like they'd be bad in bed too. Ya know, RHYTHM IP: Logged |
freebird Knowflake Posts: 817 From: Registered: Jul 2005
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posted August 17, 2005 05:27 AM
quote: To me, the ability to dance projects sexual prowess, and when someone is really bad it seems like they'd be bad in bed too. Ya know, RHYTHM
OMG The same words were said by my Scorp friend with Leo Asc few days back. Just wondering but what if one is just too shy to dance on the dance floor and completely different in bed.Food for thought.
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Bluemoon Knowflake Posts: 4456 From: Stafford, VA USA Registered: Feb 2005
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posted August 17, 2005 09:35 AM
I have to agree with Blue roamer!!! TOO true! I LOVE TO DANCE! IP: Logged |
sue g Knowflake Posts: 8591 From: former land of the leprechaun Registered: Sep 2004
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posted August 17, 2005 10:47 AM
I agree with you BR on the dancing thing being connected to our sexual ability...........and man you should see me DANCE!!!! LOL!!!Love to you Suexxx IP: Logged |
fayte.m Knowflake Posts: 9809 From: Still out looking for Schrödinger's cat. fayte1954@hotmail.com Registered: Mar 2005
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posted August 17, 2005 11:24 AM
It is sad that our society...and others too...do not think men should dance or dear me...not with each other! Utterly stupid! Most of my in person friends are either gay men or straight men not ashamed of being in touch with feelings and dancing...blowing bubbles or being silly and so forth! And they all dance! PS. I am large...I am disabled...but on a good day..me and my cane cane cut a serious rug still!
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Yin Knowflake Posts: 1409 From: Registered: May 2004
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posted August 17, 2005 11:53 AM
PEOPLE who can dance are a big turn-on for me, regardless of gender and sexuality. Keep on lifting me... IP: Logged |
Bluemoon Knowflake Posts: 4456 From: Stafford, VA USA Registered: Feb 2005
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posted August 17, 2005 01:23 PM
Artist: Lee Ann Womack Lyrics Song: I Hope You Dance Lyrics I hope you never lose your sense of wonder You get your fill to eat But always keep that hunger May you never take one single breath for granted God forbid love ever leave you empty handed I hope you still feel small When you stand by the ocean Whenever one door closes, I hope one more opens Promise me you'll give faith a fighting chance And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance I hope you dance I hope you dance I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance Never settle for the path of least resistance Living might mean taking chances But they're worth taking Lovin' might be a mistake But it's worth making Don't let some hell bent heart Leave you bitter When you come close to selling out Reconsider Give the heavens above More than just a passing glance And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance I hope you dance (Time is a real and constant motion always) I hope you dance (Rolling us along) I hope you dance (Tell me who) I hope you dance (Wants to look back on their youth and wonder) (Where those years have gone) I hope you still feel small When you stand by the ocean Whenever one door closes, I hope one more opens Promise me you'll give faith a fighting chance And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance Dance I hope you dance I hope you dance (Time is a real and constant motion always) I hope you dance (Rolling us along) I hope you dance (Tell me who) (Wants to look back on their youth and wonder) I hope you dance (Where those years have gone) (Tell me who) I hope you dance (Wants to look back on their youth and wonder) (Where those years have gone)
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Mystic Gemini Knowflake Posts: 1973 From: New York City Registered: Jul 2005
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posted August 17, 2005 07:32 PM
Women get get crazy together. When I go out with my female friends....they give eachother lap dances LOL.------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra "You must live in the infinite blackness that exists when I close my eyes. I see you when I fall asleep, I see you when I dream." - Talib Kweli IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 11943 From: Pleasanton, CA, USA Registered: May 2005
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posted August 17, 2005 10:57 PM
I love to dance...of course. I've even gotten to the point of being pretty comfortable on my own out there. I play music, and I'm sexy, so of course I have rhythm. I've always been under the assumption that if someone were to make fun of me I'd merely copy their dance and show them how easy it is. That's what got me beyond my fear of dancing when I was young. Now it's just fun for me. If there's dancing, chances are you'll find me on the floor at some point. I love being the one guy on the dance floor who knows how to dance. Girls/women seem to love it too. I've always had good experiences, so it's never been a big deal to me. Yes, I've been hit on by gay men, BlueRoamer, lol. ...even in Tennessee. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 11943 From: Pleasanton, CA, USA Registered: May 2005
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posted August 17, 2005 11:01 PM
Oh... I didn't say that there are a lot of American women who are seemingly apprehensive about a dancing guy. I can't believe the shyness, really. Thankfully, some woman always joins me eventually. IP: Logged |
WaterNymph Knowflake Posts: 2276 From: London, UK Registered: May 2005
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posted August 18, 2005 10:05 AM
Bring it on boys <------ I’ve been waiting for an excuse to use this smile ------------------ aka Neptune’s Mermaid, NM, WN, Nurse Neptune, Waternixie, Nepsnympe and deputy #6 Feel free to tell me if I’m annoying *kisses*IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 2320 From: Registered: Jun 2005
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posted August 18, 2005 02:08 PM
Oh how cute WN...:-)IP: Logged |
sue g Knowflake Posts: 8591 From: former land of the leprechaun Registered: Sep 2004
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posted August 20, 2005 05:50 AM
Dancing with women? Yeah maybeDancing with men...........DEFINATELY!!!!!! Was out last night at a Glam Rock 70s Disco - such a brilliant night, few there, and mainly men, and OMG there were two or three that were absolutely wicked dancers........one guy, long hair, glitter on his face and hair, purple frilly shirt and cool flares.....and such a groovy dancer......I danced with him all night off and on....and dont laugh guys but this was my HUSBAND LOL !!! I swear to God when he says he is going to play soccer that he has secretly been going for dancing lesson. He totally let it go on the floor, with no booze or smoke inside of him and he looked so gorgeous. I could have eaten him, he looked so yummy!! We were headbanging together ha ha, felt like two teenagers, me 46 and him nearly 36, what a fab feeling. The funny thing is.......we were the only ones wearing glitter, everyone else looked conservative in comparison.........but then again, we always did like to shock a little! When we went outside for some air we noticed that amazin full moon in aqua........mmm interesting thought coming in.......he has Moon in Aqua.......maybe I should take him out more often to dance to celebrate the very thing which I came here to complain about? Bloody women hey............ cant please em can ya?? Love to all Sue xxx
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AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 11943 From: Pleasanton, CA, USA Registered: May 2005
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posted August 20, 2005 06:02 AM
Virgos are often good dancers, at least the women. We earth signs just have it I think. Taurus' dance well too.IP: Logged |
sue g Knowflake Posts: 8591 From: former land of the leprechaun Registered: Sep 2004
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posted August 20, 2005 07:05 AM
When I looked to see if there was any response to my post..........I knew it was you.........ooooooeeeerrrr........we are good dancers AND good psychics arent we?Maybe I shall get to see you dance one day......didnt you say something about Vegas? xx IP: Logged |
steelrose Knowflake Posts: 810 From: Spain Registered: Sep 2004
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posted August 20, 2005 01:05 PM
Hmmm… Not all Spanish men dance but when they do… It’s a big difference with other nationalities…I’m not a good dancer but when I am lucky enough to get a partner who leads me… WOW!!! I absolutely love it!!! Dancing salsa, latin music or any Spanish music can make your blood set on fire… It’s electric… Especially when your bodies are a few inches apart… Vertical sex with clothes on…
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