posted January 12, 2006 01:53 PM         

Now that I know him a lot better, he thinks (or at least he says) that the worst thing you can do, other than hit a girl, is cheat on her.

I just read the first post I made and I said he was 20. I messed up; he's 18.

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aquarius sun, pisces rising & venus, scorpio moon, pluto & eros ;)

posted January 12, 2006 02:53 PM         

Sorry I didn't answer to this sooner, I haven't been getting on the computer as much.

posted January 12, 2006 08:34 PM         

I didn't know you were 14 and your boyfriend is 18+ until several days ago. I had been wondering about the community culture of where you live. Do people tend to get married young (under 25 years old) and start a family there? How much encouragement do you receive to pursue a university education?

I just ask because almost all of the questions you ask here on the site are relationship related, which tells us what is more on your mind than other topics. I get the impression that may be a lot of your friends and relatives probably did not have extensive dating experiences and settled down fairly young.

posted January 13, 2006 02:12 PM         

Aphrodite- Now that I think about it, people do get married pretty soon here. My aunt got married when she was seventeen, and I know a lot of twenty-year-olds who are already married. There aren't many divorces here, either. It's sort of looked down apon. As a matter of fact a young couple (graduates of '03) just moved in across the street.

My parents are pretty strict on the kind of people I hang out with, but they both agree that he is a good guy for me. I wouldn't mind getting married young (not this young, but maybe eighteen)

posted January 13, 2006 10:56 PM         

Well there is a scorpio I know who lives up the street from me, and he IS 20 (Nov. 21 1985- sure of it this time). The reason I know him is because he used to date my good friend Charlene, who's 16 (and also a scorpio. Yeah I know a lot of them) & I was doing her a favor by going to his house and picking up some things he bought for her. A short while after that they broke up.
Now he will not leave me alone.
He sends texts to me at least 5 times a day. They are sometimes personal questions & downright strange- Like "What time do you get home from school? Does your cousin take you? Is he there when you get home? Or are you alone?"

I'm not interested in talking to him, but I don't know what I should say. I can't be mean; I guess I just don't have it in me.
I DID tell him "Franco I can't talk to you. My mom says you're too old.."
He answered "Oh...well that sucks...I'll just text you, try not to get caught."
Oh and the most recent text he sent said "You didn't CALL ME at five like you said you would! I'm hurt." I swear, I feel like he's obsessed or something.

UGH I don't know how to get rid of him! What should I do? I seriously don't know what I should say to the guy.
Also it seems like whenever I go outside, I see him and he's watching me. Yesterday I was sitting on my porch talking to one of my friends on my cell, and he sent me a text saying "Oh so you can call your friend but you can't call me! & don't say you're not on the phone because I see you, lol."
I looked around and didn't see him anywhere. I mean that's kinda weird, dont u think?

He seems nice when I DO talk to him. Kind of childish or something. I can't describe it.. I remember saying to charlene "are you sure he's not trying to.. take advantage of you?"
She answered "No I don't think he is. He is the nicest guy..He tells me he loves me. He would never do anything like that."
Now she claims he stalks her.

posted January 14, 2006 11:51 AM         

Just my 2 cents.

posted January 15, 2006 05:50 PM         

Iqhunk~ Thanks; I told him to please stop texting me, so he said "Alright if thats what you want." He still hasn't sent another yet (thank god) so maybe he'll actually leave this time.