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Topic: Quitting loving... anyone know how?
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cancerrg
Knowflake Posts: 2668
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Registered: Dec 2004
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posted February 26, 2006 10:57 AM
 
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Anywho, this isn't a self-pity, look I'm smiling see? haha
I'm just looking for some practical advice.
make me understand it a bit better .
you love this person but may , you dont want to show your emotions to him ( i hope the situation is something on the same line )
if thats the case , why do u have to stop loving or wanting to be loved .
why not adopt a crabs policy , we are always in love but that doesn't mean i have to go ask for love . i nver do that . or may be you could use cappy's advice thats a more sane one ( and ours is always the insane one  ) P.S : sorry for being sooooooooooo late . IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force
Knowflake Posts: 1451
From: England
Registered: Dec 2004
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posted February 27, 2006 03:22 PM
Iqhunk- Thanks for posting, like people say, you're very helpful. I'm thinking and in answer to your questions- 1. I notice no boys around me, literally, since I go to a girls school. Quite depressing really. 2. I don't know what I do, but you put that perfectly! That's exactly it, I don't attract people who vibrate to my notion of love. Though I can't be sure yet since the situation is complicated. 3. First, I would have to know some guys, secondly, I would have to go against my instincts in emotions. I think the more relevant question is, do I want someone who will love me or someone I will love?WN-  Killing.... yeah... I did think of that! Haha Virgo-Aries Artist- Hey! Haven't seen you post in a while! I might try that if I can remember! Thank you for the suggestion  ahh cancerrg my dear! Yes, I think I love this person (not in a regular way, but in a way of sorts and not to my full capacity either). He knows my emotions, he returns feelings of desire and might return the feelings of affection too if the circumstances were different (ie. my age).
I have to stop feeling so deeply for him because it hurts me when he *can't* (allow himself to) return the feelings. He goes through waves. Sometimes he makes me feel amazing and then he feels guilty and backs off very abrubtly.
I don't know what to do. I'm just trying to ride the wave out, so to speak. IP: Logged | |
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