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Topic: Wrecking revenge on an evil scorpio
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Swerve
Knowflake Posts: 1249
From: London
Registered: Nov 2002
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posted March 27, 2006 03:34 AM
 
LG - Yes your actions were immature. I'm sure in 10 years time you would have handled things differently.But its not 10 years time. You were hurt and you made a mistake. Better to make a mistake with an arsehole than an Angel though. Just make sure you learn from this experience. Beyond that it's time to forgive yourself, because this all feels like you were punishing yourself through him. Maybe you felt weak and ashamed and as he toyed with this you felt the best way to overcome it was by attacking that very part of yourself by expressing what you felt was strength against your perpetrator. Come on the rest of you guys, we all learn through trial and error, as long as you realise LG that this was definitely the latter. You really do sound like you were in pain and this wasn't as calculated a move as you made it sound yourself, hence the instant judgements. It was an act of desperation that was tempered by the patience of a justified hate towards this pathetic twat.
Still a mistake though. Just be aware of what was really happening. I think its all 100% about you. Good luck. Swerve IP: Logged |
lioneye68
Knowflake Posts: 6062
From: Canada
Registered: Apr 2003
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posted March 27, 2006 03:36 AM
Kudos to you lousisiana girl. You're just as vile as him.Are you proud? Really? C'mon, really???? Silly girl. Now you have to sit and wait for the other shoe to drop. And it will. All you can do is take your lumps now. Or, leave town for about 10 years. IP: Logged |
fayte.m
Knowflake Posts: 9809
From: Still out looking for Schrödinger's cat. fayte1954@hotmail.com
Registered: Mar 2005
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posted March 27, 2006 08:10 AM
I wish I had not deleted my original reply to you....that I made before I read how he slapped you.
I have thought more about it all....
Now I think I want to say...
I do not think we are getting the entire story.
Something is just not right here.
The low down thing you pulled indicates a personality who would go to extremes to have revenge.....pre meditated...planned.
Even if the person did not deserve it.
I would love to hear his side of the story.
Did you ever slap him?
Call him a Basta-d?
Did you spread rumors about him?
Why were you trusting his ex girlfriends?
They were probably bad mouthing you when you were with him.
I just feel we are missing some aspects of this drama.
You were far too calculating and cold to be an innocent victim.
That little plan will win you no respect. You have probably made some new enemies.
And the gossip and rumors will fly freely now, fueled on by this juicy bit of news.And that boy...an Honor Student...? Girl...you could have been arrested and tossed into Juvie by engaging in an entrapment with those pictures. And unless they were poloroids....The person who took them might have copies. You may be young...he may or may not be a creep.
But your revenge was not the act of a totally innocent person. So what really happened? IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 8591
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted March 27, 2006 08:27 AM
I am with Cinleann....prayers and love and light......for both of you......I know its hard but try and send positive vibes to him.....if you can......  xxx IP: Logged |
1scorp
Knowflake Posts: 2251
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Registered: Feb 2003
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posted March 27, 2006 10:09 AM
“LG - Yes your actions were immature. I'm sure in 10 years time you would have handled things differently.
But its not 10 years time. You were hurt and you made a mistake.
Better to make a mistake with an arsehole than an Angel though.
Just make sure you learn from this experience.
Come on the rest of you guys, we all learn through trial and error, as long as you realise LG that this was definitely the latter.
You really do sound like you were in pain and this wasn't as calculated a move as you made it sound yourself, hence the instant judgements. It was an act of desperation that was tempered by the patience of a justified hate towards this pathetic ****.
Still a mistake though.
Just be aware of what was really happening.”I agree with this statement. I don’t agree with the behavior… however, it hasn’t been that long ago that I was your age. I remember. Just know that it does set karma out there. Maybe this was his? Now you have it to deal with. It’s an endless undesirable cycle. You don’t sound like a bad person…. but (trying not to sound judgmental or patronizing.. not my intentions) I hope you think more clearly first next time. From my own experiences, I’ve learned that ignoring works wonders. I'd let this guy self-destruct on his own. And he will... in time.
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Lousianagrl
Knowflake Posts: 472
From: Leesville, Louisiana
Registered: Sep 2005
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posted March 27, 2006 11:09 AM
I never purposely tried to make him jealous. I knew what would happen if I did so I wasn't going to test it.But I never said anything bad about him. As a matter of fact, when people would tell me bad things about him I would say it's not true. he told me those things weren't true and he was really careful with his temper around me so I would believe him.
One example- this is one thing I heard about him: "You're with Garren? He is probably just using you! You should stay away from him. He beat up one of his old girlfriends!"
I thought "No way, that's crazy" but I decided to ask him about it, I was really careful about doing so. His answer: "What? You don't really believe that, do you? See, those are the kind of things people say about me."
I said: "Why would they?"
him: "I guess because I used to be a trouble-maker so I'm an easy target. It's not true, though. You'll hear a lot of bulls*ht about me, just ignore it. Who's telling you all this, anyway?" He seemed like a nice guy for the first month. Then it kind of started to seep through but by then I was under his spell. I only talked to two of his ex girlfriends, they couldn't stand him themselves so they weren't jealous that I was with him. I know they wouldn't talk about me, I've known them both for a long time. And don't worry about the pictures, I had the only copies and I threw them out last wednesday. IP: Logged |
fayte.m
Knowflake Posts: 9809
From: Still out looking for Schrödinger's cat. fayte1954@hotmail.com
Registered: Mar 2005
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posted March 27, 2006 11:21 AM
Good 
Now PLEASE try and put it behind you.
And NEVER do anything like that again.
If he should approach you or anyone say anything about all this.
Just say:
It's done with.
We all made mistakes.
I just want to move on now.
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ScotScorp
Knowflake Posts: 936
From: St. Louis, Missouri
Registered: Aug 2004
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posted March 27, 2006 04:22 PM
LG:I would agree w/the people here telling you that revenge against an unenlightened Scorpio is a *very bad* thing. If he has a history of physical violence, he is apt to use it on you now. I have the strongest feeling that you must watch your back now. Do not, and I repeat, DO NOT GET INTO A CAR WITH HIM in the near future, even if you need a ride. I see a situation, where you are outside at an event, and you need a ride, and are tempted to take one from him. Bad move if you do. I don't know what sign you are, but I will tell you this: QUIT STEREOTYPING the sun signs. His personality is not like this because he's a Scorpio. It's the combination of all 10 planets, plus his North Node and all the asteriods. I'm sure you don't appreciate reading the possible "bad things" about your sun sign. Much love to you, and with age comes wisdom. IP: Logged |
Lousianagrl
Knowflake Posts: 472
From: Leesville, Louisiana
Registered: Sep 2005
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posted March 27, 2006 08:13 PM
Thanks guys for everything. I hope this doens't turn into a huge mess, though it already is and I doubt he's just going to push this aside...
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Full-fifthhouse-loulou
Knowflake Posts: 253
From: Beautiful England
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted March 29, 2006 06:56 AM
Louisianagrl......don't feel bad. We all make mistakes don't we? As an un-enlightened scorpion he brought out the worst in you. He drove you to such despair that you behaved as though possessed.In time, if older, you would have done it differently but we have to make mistakes in order to learn. In the past I have felt the need to exact revenge on occasion (my scorpio sun, venus and jupiter)....but it was always an empty victory. The greatest revenge is success. Remaining dignified, moving on and showing you are strong in yourself without the need to exact revenge.......that brings far greater happiness. Life (and fate) has a way of, I suppose, avenging those who deserve it. We don't need to if we are honourable. Good luck in the future, bless you, and look out for the magnificent eagle scorpio next time!!! They do exist!!  ------------------
I just want to love and be loved! - Marilyn Monroe, 1955 IP: Logged |
Planet_Soul
Knowflake Posts: 1152
From: The Universe
Registered: May 2005
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posted March 29, 2006 02:25 PM
The behavior was petty IMO ): However, I'd do as Pixie suggested, and tell the truth to the administrator. If you are truly sorry for your act, then you should make amends.As for your ex, just leave it alone. If he keeps harrasing you, don't respond. By resonding to his calls, you're engaging yourself in a vicious cycle of abuse/control. Personally, I do soem soul searching and analyze why he has "total control" over you ): Whatever deeper factors are involved, I hope you resolve them. Too often these sort of things develop into long term patterns with future relationships. He may indeed by a jerk/agressor but there may be something else going on in which you enable/tolerate this. It would be sad if you have freed yourself from him to end up with another abusive bf in the future. I sincerely hope you will find the strength to heal from this experience  IP: Logged |
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