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Topic: some one please help
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spirited_pixie Knowflake Posts: 31 From: usa Registered: Mar 2006
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posted April 12, 2006 07:25 PM
i just sat on my boyfriends couch for 15 min waiting for him to just look or talk to me but he didn't and i just wanted to know what others would do in my situation IP: Logged |
Thorshammer Moderator Posts: 1026 From: salt lake city, utah, USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted April 13, 2006 12:32 AM
Possibly express how you feel in a letter to him, maybe he has a hard time saying what is meant to be said verbally. He might release it on paper...just a thought.IP: Logged |
Johnny Knowflake Posts: 2056 From: Colorado, USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted April 13, 2006 01:15 AM
Punch him and tell him to pay attention to you. Sometimes us guys just need a good punch.IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Knowflake Posts: 5301 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Jun 2005
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posted April 13, 2006 01:29 AM
*punches Johnny*IP: Logged |
Heart--Shaped Cross Knowflake Posts: 7178 From: 11/6/78 11:38am Boston, MA Registered: Aug 2004
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posted April 13, 2006 02:24 AM
lol, pixelpix spirited pixie,
Without 15 minutes of resentment behind it, make sure he is aware of your needs. If you are sweet, and just say, "I could use a hug," he may surprise you with a very heartfelt one. If it's a mind-reader you're looking for, try dating a water sign. best of luck, take good care, hsc IP: Logged |
aqua Knowflake Posts: 2805 From: dreamland Registered: Jan 2004
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posted April 13, 2006 03:13 AM
BHOOM ! Johnny r u okey?
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pixelpixie Knowflake Posts: 5301 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Jun 2005
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posted April 13, 2006 09:45 AM
Was there some set of circumstances that came before this silence which lead you to believe that there was anger attached to it?Were you just sharing companionable silence? Ask him. IP: Logged |
Full-fifthhouse-loulou Knowflake Posts: 253 From: Beautiful England Registered: Mar 2006
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posted April 13, 2006 10:10 AM
Spirited Pixie......was there anything leading up this silence? Like an arguement? Perhaps he expresses inwardly, finds it hard to talk? What is his birth chart? And yours?In this situation I would let him have his peace. If he genuinely needs peace and solitude and time then give him it. Go and do something else and he will seek you when he's ready. If on the other hand it is a cruel game and he is making you suffer by ignoring you don't give him any pleasure from it. Let him be, find something exciting to do so that he realises you are interesting and fascinating and he'll soon stop being silly!!! All this I say without knowing anything about your charts! Good luck and be happy
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