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Topic: hes just not into you
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writesomething Moderator Posts: 1313 From: meet me in montauk Registered: May 2006
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posted June 02, 2006 07:45 AM
Okay I remember Lioneye saying something about the book "hes just not that into you"well i saw it at the library and finished it, and it was a really great book- it was really liberating to read, it sort of felt like the pressure was lifted off my shoulders, if someone loves you, theyll just do anything to be with you, i know nothing is black and white with aquarians, but still... this book is a godsend to women, no doubt. ------------------
"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit" "Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation" -Khalil Gibran Shop22much. IP: Logged |
double trouble gemini Knowflake Posts: 458 From: uae Registered: Dec 2005
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posted June 02, 2006 08:45 AM
i am going to get this book ... sounds like an eye opener... ---------------- if someone loves you, theyll just do anything to be with you, i know nothing is black and white with aquarians, but still... -----------------i have always agreed with this..if someone loves you they'll do anything to be with you. these are the exact lines i use when ever i discuss broken relationships. but really does this theory apply to cancers as well?? pls give me ur honest feedback. thanks. aquarians in love will surely do anything to be with you... but thats after being with their friends/family,.. then comes u!... thats what i dont lke abt aqua men! IP: Logged |
writesomething Moderator Posts: 1313 From: meet me in montauk Registered: May 2006
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posted June 02, 2006 08:50 AM
I'm not sure, ive never had a relationship with a Cancer.. a few have fancied me but I didnt like them..but i have plenty of cancer friends who always seem to be in love, they are very emotional, very needy, etc etc....or maybe i just bring out those qualities in them? haha i have no idea If a CANCER isn't making it clear he wants you and only you- then I'd walk away....cancers are pretty obvious when they are in love.... sorta disgusting really, but beautiful...lol ------------------ "WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit" "Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation" -Khalil Gibran Shop22much. IP: Logged |
WaterNymph Knowflake Posts: 2276 From: London, UK Registered: May 2005
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posted June 02, 2006 04:15 PM
quote: If a CANCER isn't making it clear he wants you and only you- then I'd walk away....cancers are pretty obvious when they are in love.... sorta disgusting really, but beautiful...lol
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Gooberzlostlovefound Knowflake Posts: 1205 From: and the embers never fade in your city by the lake Registered: Jan 2002
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posted June 02, 2006 07:34 PM
This book is fantasic. Soooo liberating, definitely If a man likes you, you'll know. If you have to make excuses for him and why he didn't call, didn't show up, didn't ask you out....he's just not that into you! IP: Logged |
Kamilla Knowflake Posts: 860 From: NJ USA Registered: Apr 2006
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posted June 02, 2006 09:39 PM
I agree. The book is very refreshing. I really wanted to get an opinion from the other side but couldn't convince any of my male friends to read it. I wonder if any guys whatsoever read it which is kind of puts me in doubt. I mean, obviously, women love it and consider it a great enlightening. Don't you think if everything was SO true there would be at least some positive feedback from men as well? IP: Logged |
writesomething Moderator Posts: 1313 From: meet me in montauk Registered: May 2006
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posted June 03, 2006 07:07 AM
kamilla- most men don't want to talk about their feelings...loli dont think i could force a man to read the book, but i think everything was true and spot on, 98 percent of men are like this the other 2 percent..are far and few between... ive never chased a man, nor will i ever, i deserve the best, and only the best.... a book like this reaffirms that belief... ------------------ "WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit" "Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation" -Khalil Gibran Shop22much. IP: Logged |
Kamilla Knowflake Posts: 860 From: NJ USA Registered: Apr 2006
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posted June 03, 2006 09:33 AM
You are rignt. The "chick movie" is probably as far as you can push it. "Chick book"...forget it..lol. I don think I ever chased a guy but I am guilty of reading too much into man's behavior occasionally. IP: Logged |
writesomething Moderator Posts: 1313 From: meet me in montauk Registered: May 2006
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posted June 03, 2006 09:37 AM
Im a virgo so its natural for me to analyze everything to death....*sigh*------------------ "WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit" "Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation" -Khalil Gibran Shop22much. IP: Logged |
lioneye68 Knowflake Posts: 6062 From: Canada Registered: Apr 2003
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posted June 03, 2006 09:57 PM
You know what's great about this book? It tells young women things that most "mature" women already know, but had to learn it the hard way. People's actions tell you who they are. So when someone is telling you who they are, BELIEVE THEM. Actions speak a hundred times louder than words. IP: Logged |
Nephthys Moderator Posts: 3800 From: California Registered: Oct 2001
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posted June 03, 2006 11:29 PM
I love that book. Asked for it and got it for my B-day 1 year ago. It is so, so true. When we're in a relationship we can be so "blind" and we will make so many excuses to not "see the light"............When we read the book, we think, "Oh, how stupid that girl is." but then we realize that we may have done that same exact thing! Thank God for Greg Behrendt. IP: Logged |
CancerianMoon Knowflake Posts: 1082 From: Sydney, Australia. Cancer Sun.....Gemini Moon.....Aqua Rising Registered: Aug 2003
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posted June 05, 2006 01:47 AM
------------------Girls---------------------------- ------- -----are like apples------------------- --------on trees. The best ones----------- ------are at the top of the tree.-------- ----The boys dont want to reach------ ---for the good ones because they ------ -are afraid of falling and getting hurt.---- -Instead, they just get the rotten apples- --from the ground that aren't as good, -- -but easy. So the apples at the top think-- -something is wrong with them, when in-- --reality, they're amazing. They just----- ---have to wait for the right boy to------- ----- come along, the one who's----------- ----------- brave enough to----------------- -----------------climb all---------------------- ----------------- the way--------------------- -----------------to the top-------------------- ----------------of the tree.------------------IP: Logged |
writesomething Moderator Posts: 1313 From: meet me in montauk Registered: May 2006
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posted June 05, 2006 02:09 AM
that was nice! where did you find that? you write it? ------------------ "WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit" "Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation" -Khalil Gibran IP: Logged |
WaterNymph Knowflake Posts: 2276 From: London, UK Registered: May 2005
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posted June 05, 2006 11:44 AM
That’s really nice CancereanMoon I think it should also be pointed out, the apples at the top only deserve a boy who’s strong enough to climb up, possibly fall the first time, but continues…so good riddance to the other boys IP: Logged |
MysticMelody Moderator Posts: 3521 From: Registered: Dec 2005
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posted June 05, 2006 04:46 PM
I read it last year too, thought it was good. It's a quick read, anyone who hasn't read it should give it a try.IP: Logged |
CancerianMoon Knowflake Posts: 1082 From: Sydney, Australia. Cancer Sun.....Gemini Moon.....Aqua Rising Registered: Aug 2003
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posted June 05, 2006 06:16 PM
No i didnt make it up..found it on a site somewhere..im a Cancerian.. i save EVERYTHING.. i have loads and loads of quotes and pictures and lovely sayings..hehehe Thought this one fit in with this thread.. IP: Logged |
proxieme unregistered
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posted June 05, 2006 06:27 PM
quote: People's actions tell you who they are. So when someone is telling you who they are, BELIEVE THEM.
*claps and cheers*IP: Logged |
hippichick Knowflake Posts: 1981 From: The Ether Registered: Jan 2006
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posted June 05, 2006 08:59 PM
CancerianMoonI love the apple anaolgy. And all of this time I thought something was wrong with me! Terri IP: Logged |