posted June 07, 2006 02:41 PM         

i think it'd be weird....

especially if they lived in the same city....

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"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit"

"Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation"

posted June 07, 2006 04:26 PM         

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"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit"

"Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation"

posted June 08, 2006 07:55 PM         

I'm just the opposite. I'm much more animated in person.

As far as the awkwardness I will tell people the same things live or virtual. Besides that gives people a starting point.

posted June 08, 2006 08:09 PM           

One stayed with me for a few days (he came from the UK to my old place near DC, then we took the train to NYC so he could see his then-girlfriend).
I still keep in contact w/ him - he's married now, seems quite happy

posted June 09, 2006 01:31 AM         

I'm more communicative in person, especially in my home with a stellium in the 4th house. But if I catch a vibe from someone I go inward fast.

posted June 09, 2006 01:49 AM         

am I right?

I'm referring to the political conversations in GU. you can go cross check information etc. But not so IRL.

If you and I ever got together AG, we would talk about your future and get philosophic, Well I would anyway..I'd be interested in helping you discover your talent.

You would clam up in a Libra sort of way, not knowing which direction to go in. Then you'd go inward on me and we'd have nothing to talk about. We'd be silent for a while but it wouldn't be uncomfy.

posted June 09, 2006 03:23 AM         

Yes, it was you I was speaking of.

I think we'd be ok. You have a couple Virgo placements. Something's gotta come close to my Moon.

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AG, in person you can't go google information to support what you're talking about before you say it

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That really wouldn't matter to me. If I must discuss politics from the gut I can do so. I'm incredibly mutable with a Cap/Virgo base. Information seems to come to me by osmosis independent of whether I'm consciously looking for it or not. Besides politics is more about philosophy in the end, and I can make those arguments pretty easily.

I don't get into politics too much with people IRL. (Not for the fear of violence like Jwhop says, but rather because deep down I know there's really no point in arguing with a Republican. Everyone's got to learn or not learn in their own time. I used to be a Republican myself, so I know people can change, but still there are a lot who don't.) If there was a conversation or debate already in progress I'd might opine, but for the most part I realize that people are at different areas politically, and many not into it as much as I am, so I let it go.

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If you and I ever got together AG, we would talk about your future and get philosophic, Well I would anyway..I'd be interested in helping you discover your talent.

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Talent? I think I've got more than one. Getting philosophic is cool. Plenty of Sag here. Talking about my future sounds like an attempt to put my future life into a box. That doesn't generally work for me. You can let me know if I'm interpretting that wrong.

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You have a Libra moon, not Virgo DO you agree?

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Actually, my Moon is the part of my chart I can least figure out, but I've seen people I respect comment on the 29th degree, and they say that there's a reason it doesn't travel over that cusp into the next sign, so I guess I'm a Virgo Moon.

posted June 09, 2006 03:44 AM         

AG, your Sun trines my moon/venus and my Sun conjuncts your moon.

Saturn on the 1st usually likes to work on and learn about the self. It makes yours and my appearance more capricornian too. Talking about yourself would be a natural topic. Also, you are still searching for that big thing to bring you a true sense of belonging, succeeding..something purposeful, something bigger than what you've got going now. Am I right?

posted June 09, 2006 01:46 PM         

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AG, your Sun trines my moon/venus and my Sun conjuncts your moon.

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Ooooh, that's the 'Soul Mate' conjunction (your Sun, my Moon) according to my synastry program. Should definitely be some understanding between us.

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Saturn on the 1st usually likes to work on and learn about the self.

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Indeed. Sometimes I think that I'll eventually end up looking obsessive compulsive. I'll get my whole day into a regimented routine to accomodate every little thing I need to get done. I'll figure out exactly how much exercise I need. I'll figure out what I should eat exactly. I'll have every move planned out in a daily intinerary.... I'm not sure if I'll ever go that far, but sometimes I feel like that's where my life is headed - utter discipline. Don't know if my Gemini side can handle that, though.

Speaking of learning, I just got a midpoint interpretation done. Top of the list was this:

Mercury Conjunct Sun/Mars 0 deg 56 min

You are likely to take classes and continue to learn things throughout your life, never ceasing to work on getting a clearer and sharper understanding. While other people may say they do not have time to take classes, you make time because it is a high priority for you. Sometimes you are impatient with yourself and so anxious to master a subject that you become frustrated with yourself and possibly also your instructor, and this can cause you to prematurely terminate a training program, or get you into severe disagreements with others.

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Also, you are still searching for that big thing to bring you a true sense of belonging, succeeding..something purposeful, something bigger than what you've got going now. Am I right?

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posted June 09, 2006 02:30 PM         

I hear ya on the other stuff. I couldn't sleep either.

as far as belonging, i meant that perhaps you feel separate from others, different, not better or worse. i'm probably just projecting my own issue onto you. i do that sometimes

posted June 09, 2006 07:22 PM         

The thing about belonging for a Capricorn male is that it's only ever going to be the appearance of belonging for the most part.