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Topic: My Mother died today,,,,,
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sue g
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From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted August 19, 2006 04:07 PM
 
Very suddenly, she passed over.....One minute she was there and the next gone....  Oh God. Please pray for my father who is in shock... They were together for 57 years. Love to all   IP: Logged |
LuLu
Knowflake Posts: 302
From: Louisville, Kentucky, USA
Registered: Feb 2005
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posted August 19, 2006 04:22 PM
Sue g....I am very sorry to hear that. It must be very hard for your father right now. I can't even imagine not being able to say goodbye to someone who was your friend and your love for that long. Sending you lots of love.IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
Knowflake Posts: 4598
From: The Asylum
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted August 19, 2006 04:42 PM
Oh dear....I'm sorry for your loss Sue
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Cardinalgal
Knowflake Posts: 1037
From: Lincoln, UK
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted August 19, 2006 05:09 PM
Oh Sue, please take a huge hug and just know that we're all with you and here surrounding you and your family with love  It's always such a shock when someone 'goes home.' If there's anything you need please let us know. Love to you Sue and to your family IP: Logged |
Ra
Moderator Posts: 2078
From: Atlanta
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted August 19, 2006 05:11 PM
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Hexxie
Knowflake Posts: 934
From: :::Libra Sun / 29* Gemini Rising / Aquarius Moon:::
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted August 19, 2006 05:18 PM
Dear Sue ~My condolences to you! You are in my thoughts, and I wish you and yours all the possible comfort during this difficult time. IP: Logged |
hippichick
Knowflake Posts: 1981
From: The Ether
Registered: Jan 2006
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posted August 19, 2006 05:37 PM
SendingPeace Love and, Light IP: Logged |
mysticaldream
Knowflake Posts: 806
From:
Registered: Jan 2006
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posted August 19, 2006 05:54 PM
Sue,
I'm so sorry!I will be sending prayers for your father and yourself. I know you have a lot of people's love surrounding you. 
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Azalaksh
Knowflake Posts: 6485
From: New Brighton, MN, USA
Registered: Nov 2004
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posted August 19, 2006 05:59 PM
Oh Sue, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss Please accept my condolences for you and your dad and your sis and J.....  & {{hugs}} Zala IP: Logged |
Rainbow~
Knowflake Posts: 5927
From: The Little River Indian Reservation
Registered: Jan 2002
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posted August 19, 2006 07:05 PM
Oh Sue.....I am so sorry..... Please know my prayers are with you and your father... Love,
Rainbow~ IP: Logged |
Touchstone
Knowflake Posts: 291
From: Up North
Registered: Apr 2005
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posted August 19, 2006 07:07 PM
Dear Sue, I am holding you and your family in my thoughts. Love and light to all of you. IP: Logged |
Mirandee
Knowflake Posts: 4812
From: South of the Thumb - Taurus, Pisces, Cancer
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted August 19, 2006 08:31 PM
So sorry about the loss of your mom, Sue.You, your dad and your whole family are in my thoughts and prayers. Praying for the strength you all need to get you through this difficult and heartbreaking time. Prayers also for your mom in her ongoing journey. IP: Logged |
DayDreamer
Knowflake Posts: 4841
From:
Registered: Jul 2003
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posted August 19, 2006 09:01 PM
My prayers are with you and your father IP: Logged |
future_uncertain
Knowflake Posts: 2681
From: ohio
Registered: Aug 2004
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posted August 19, 2006 10:06 PM
Sue, I'm sorry to hear about your family's loss. I'll be thinking of all of you and wishing you love, strength, and peace.
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Aphrodite
Knowflake Posts: 4992
From:
Registered: Feb 2002
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posted August 19, 2006 10:20 PM
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Wednesday
Knowflake Posts: 695
From: The big C... Canada :)
Registered: Jul 2006
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posted August 19, 2006 10:24 PM
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silverstone
Moderator Posts: 2620
From:
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted August 19, 2006 10:48 PM
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delerious
Knowflake Posts: 800
From:
Registered: Dec 2004
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posted August 19, 2006 11:46 PM
Sue G, I went through a similar thing with my parents. My mom died in her sleep of a heart attack after hosting a family dinner (which to my everlasting regret I didn't attend)I had to help my dad through this which was gut wrenching for me (they had been together 40+ yrs)I remember holding his hand late at night when he couldn't sleep....my dad, the rock, came as quite a shock to see him so vulnerable.... post more if you feel and maybe I can help you with how I dealt with it.. I really can't tell you what is worse.... people would tell me I was blessed that she didnt suffer.. but the pain of not being able to say goodbye and put our emotional affairs in order haunts me to this day. My father went that way quickly of a stroke 2 yrs later (cleaning a trout... his favorite hobbie) Then people had the nerve to tell me that the ones that God favors die peaceful deaths cause he wants them back..... Still the lack of closure and the suddeness and unexpected nature of the death rocks your world and makes you wonder what we can count on in this life..... Its been close to 20 yrs since then, and by now I can tell you I'm glad that's the way it happened.... so glad I didn't have to watch them die painfully... but I'm sure that's little comfort to you now, but in days to come I hope it will be.... I haven't been online for a while Sue G., but always felt a kinship somehow... hang in there.. we all love you.. guess embracing the circle of life/death is one of the most difficult things we can do... My prayers are with you - in time when you think of her you will smile with good memories but it took me a long time to get to that point... let the grieving process take it's course and dont rush it... IP: Logged |
Eleanore
Moderator Posts: 2512
From: Japan
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted August 20, 2006 12:20 AM
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lalalinda
Moderator Posts: 3291
From: nevada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted August 20, 2006 01:04 AM
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Lauren
Knowflake Posts: 1158
From:
Registered: Aug 2005
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posted August 20, 2006 01:44 AM
I'm so sorry to hear that Sue. I had something similar happen with a close relative, very sudden and unexpected. When someone's sick for a while you have the time to prepare for it, but when it happens out of the blue it feels like something just hit you and it takes ages to sink in. Love you lots and I hope you and your father are well. I know you're a very spiritual person. Your mum is with you in spirit. That's the main thing that seen me through deaths. I feel the people's presence and I know they are there. It sounds like something people just say, but I really feel it (8th moon) and I know, being a Scorpio you would feel that connection. Try to keep positive.. Always remember the good things and nice memories you have of her, and it will put a smile on your face. Sending you love and prayers IP: Logged |
fayte.m
Knowflake Posts: 9809
From: Still out looking for Schrödinger's cat. fayte1954@hotmail.com
Registered: Mar 2005
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posted August 20, 2006 02:16 AM
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pixelpixie
Knowflake Posts: 5301
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted August 20, 2006 02:17 AM
Oh Sue, I'm sorry, beauty.
So sorry.
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double trouble gemini
Knowflake Posts: 458
From: uae
Registered: Dec 2005
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posted August 20, 2006 03:05 AM
i have no words but only prayers for u and ur family sue g
really sorry to hear abt ur mom.
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sugar_buns
Knowflake Posts: 193
From: planet earth
Registered: Jun 2006
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posted August 20, 2006 03:10 AM
im so sorry to hear that sue...
sending my condolences n love....
n praying for ur dad...
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