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Topic: Rainbow
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MysticMelody Moderator Posts: 3521 From: Registered: Dec 2005
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posted January 30, 2007 02:02 PM
I've got a Valentine ready to send. Everyone else please send something pretty and colorful too. And send it quick in case she goes home in the next couple days. Here is the information again: "Here is the address of the facility where Ginny is at now. I know that at this time more than ever it will do Ginny a lot of good to know that so many people care about her and are still thinking of her and praying for her." Virginia Brittony-D'Archangel Heartland Health Care Center 1061 W. Hackley Muskegon, MI 49441 IP: Logged |
Thorshammer Moderator Posts: 1026 From: salt lake city, utah, USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted January 30, 2007 09:21 PM
I called her this morning at 8:30 her time. the nurse was really nice and took the phone to her. She was tired, but she knew it was me, there was much static on the phone line, but she was awake. I miss her much.IP: Logged |
Nephthys Moderator Posts: 3800 From: California Registered: Oct 2001
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posted January 30, 2007 09:57 PM
Thank you, Mirandee, although sad news. IP: Logged |
MysticMelody Moderator Posts: 3521 From: Registered: Dec 2005
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posted January 30, 2007 11:54 PM
I'm so glad you got to talk to her Thor'sH. IP: Logged |
Mirandee Knowflake Posts: 4812 From: South of the Thumb - Taurus, Pisces, Cancer Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 31, 2007 02:20 AM
After Ginny's family told her what the doctors said and gave her the options Ginny chose to forego any more treatments and go home to be with her family and die amongst her own stuff. Tommy said that Ginny took the news totally unsurprised. She knew. The family is now organizing hospice so that they can get Ginny out of that awful place she is in and back home as quickly as possible. Ginny's two sisters will be staying with her when she gets home as Ginny will need around the clock assistance. Ginny took it better than we did. She is planning what she wants for her "final party" and said she wants the song " Always Look On The Bright Side of Life" by Monty Python from their movie, " The Meaning of Life." That's Ginny for you. IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Knowflake Posts: 5301 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Jun 2005
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posted January 31, 2007 06:35 AM
What a perfect song for her.I'd also suggest 'The UNiverse Song' from the same movie. Oh this whole thing has me alternately blessed and saddened. So much love for Rainbow Ginny and her family. I'm so glad she continues to touch all our lives. I wish her healing. IP: Logged |
Bluemoon Knowflake Posts: 4456 From: Stafford, VA USA Registered: Feb 2005
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posted January 31, 2007 08:25 AM
Bless you, Sweet Ginny Rainbow, as you contiue on your journey. Love and healing to you and yours always. IP: Logged |
Peri Moderator Posts: 2447 From: Kyiv, Ukraine Registered: Dec 2003
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posted January 31, 2007 10:05 AM
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sue g Knowflake Posts: 8591 From: former land of the leprechaun Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 31, 2007 11:42 AM
Love Healing Hope Light From over the sea.... IP: Logged |
Nephthys Moderator Posts: 3800 From: California Registered: Oct 2001
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posted January 31, 2007 01:26 PM
I am not surprised at all that Rainbow *knew*.What I would like is either her home address of that of her relatives so I can send a card. I don't want to send it to the facility due to the fact that 1. She will be going home any day now, and 2. The workers there are not competent so I don't trust that the card would get delivered to her. If you don't want to post an address publicly, you can e-mail me at Nephthys@linda-goodman.com Thanks. Blessings to Rainbow. IP: Logged |
Mirandee Knowflake Posts: 4812 From: South of the Thumb - Taurus, Pisces, Cancer Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 31, 2007 09:08 PM
Please go check out juniperb's thread here at FFA called " A Letter to Rainbow." You can post your thoughts, feelings, pictures and cards there. The thread will be printed out and mailed to Rainbow. Thanks juniper IP: Logged |
Nephthys Moderator Posts: 3800 From: California Registered: Oct 2001
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posted January 31, 2007 09:15 PM
Mirandee, That's okay, I will get her address from someone else. Thanks anyways. IP: Logged |
Lialei Knowflake Posts: 1887 From: blank canvas Registered: Jul 2005
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posted February 01, 2007 01:01 AM
Nephthys, it's kind that you hope to send Ginny a symbol of your caring. I wouldn't feel right giving out Ginny's home address. I believe that is her family's decision and not something I would feel right about presuming. My mom, Mirandee feels the same way. It's a very delicate time for her family. It was just yesterday that they all gathered with Ginny to deal with what must have been very difficult for them. They are going through much pain...so much emotion and grief, and I want to grant them the decency of compassion and respect for the time they need to take this all in, so I also wouldn't feel right pressing them for information right now.Through this all, we awaited patiently for updates, until her family was able and up to giving them. It was difficult at times, waiting and wondering. So often I wished to talk to her, but didn't call, for not wanting to intrude. Consideration of Ginny's family's heartbreak was kept in mind...as now. Ginny is very weak right now...she cannot hold a glass of water. She cannot hold a phone in her hand. She is losing her vision. I hope we can keep these things in mind. We can only take this day by day and be patient. Juniperb's thread dedicated to send Ginny Love, thoughts, pictures, whatever hearts are feeling is a good way, for now anyway, for everyone to share in finding a way to reach her and be assured it would reach her.
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eatbooks Knowflake Posts: 619 From: Registered: Dec 2006
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posted February 01, 2007 01:37 AM
this has been really making me sad....so sad..least she'll be with her loved ones, my heart aches for her and her family... IP: Logged |
Motherkonfessor Knowflake Posts: 1140 From: Registered: Oct 2003
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posted February 01, 2007 01:48 AM
I also don't know what to say....I am stunned. And sad. Rainbow MK IP: Logged |
Cassy Knowflake Posts: 384 From: Registered: May 2005
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posted February 01, 2007 07:50 AM
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Sheaa Olein Knowflake Posts: 2864 From: London Registered: Jul 2004
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posted February 01, 2007 08:01 AM
Lialei, I'm assuming the publicly written out hospital address is still ok to use? IP: Logged |
Lialei Knowflake Posts: 1887 From: blank canvas Registered: Jul 2005
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posted February 01, 2007 09:54 AM
Sheaa, I don't know. They were preparing to get her moved home, but I don't know exactly when that will be. I'm sorry to not be more help. I wish I could be. I'm not holding back on purpose. It's just because I care deeply for all and I don't know what else to do at this time. If there comes a way, I would share what I could somehow, because Ginny's happiness is most important. I only keep praying she gets home, surrounded by Love, Comfort and Beauty. So beautiful, she deserves so much better than the place medicare had her. Broke my heart to think of her there. I wish all the Love in the World for her.I'm so sad as well, you guys. {{{astral hug all around}}} IP: Logged |
Mirandee Knowflake Posts: 4812 From: South of the Thumb - Taurus, Pisces, Cancer Registered: Sep 2004
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posted February 01, 2007 02:17 PM
Nephthys, Did you get Ginny's address yet? If not I will send it to you personally but I have to get approval first. I know that you understand that. I know that you probably have known Ginny longer than I have from the original Linda Goodman site and from CE and I know that you have friends at CE. So I have no qualms in giving you Ginny's home address if it is okay with them. But no way will I post it on the worldwide web and that is why juniperb put the thread in to insure that everyone's thoughts and love gets to Ginny. This way it can be printed out and sent in one package and Ginny's family can read your words to her. I know the love you all send will do Ginny a world of good and I know how much you all want to reach out to her and her family with your love at this time. Actually, Nephthys, as you said you could probably get the address yourself. Am I remembering right that you know the Sistars? You could probably get the address from one of them. Actually that is who I would ask about it anyway. I hope that none of the rest of you feel slighted or left out in any way because I am willing to give Nephthys the address. It is just that I know that Nephthys has known Ginny for a long time. It's a very sticky situation and we are trying hard to include everyone while at the same time thinking of Ginny and her family. We also want to make sure that you reach Ginny because it does not take long to organize with Hospice and get the person home. I know Hospice from my brother's cancer and they are wonderful people who's actions are always directed at what is best for all the people involved, the patient and the family. They do work fast to get the person home with their family. I noticed that SueG and Pix posted on juniperb's thread with beautiful, loving sentiments for Ginny and her family. I know your words will mean so much to Ginny. IP: Logged |
essence Knowflake Posts: 13 From: New York, NY, USA Registered: Sep 2006
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posted February 01, 2007 03:12 PM
so utterly sad ...as sad as Rainbow/GINNY is so very special ... tears ... oxo IP: Logged |
1scorp Knowflake Posts: 2251 From: Registered: Feb 2003
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posted February 01, 2007 03:37 PM
_____________________________________ Scorpio sun, venus, mars, mercury, and uranus Libra moon, pluto, and asc. IP: Logged |
Nephthys Moderator Posts: 3800 From: California Registered: Oct 2001
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posted February 01, 2007 08:52 PM
That's okay, Mirandee, no worries on my end. Thanks anyways. ------------------ AWAKE Shake dreams from your hair My pretty child, my sweet one. Choose the day and choose the sign of your day The day's divinity First thing you see. ~James Douglas Morrison IP: Logged |
Lialei Knowflake Posts: 1887 From: blank canvas Registered: Jul 2005
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posted February 03, 2007 03:04 AM
I received a message from Tommy that Ginny will be returning home Monday.I was so touched by his dedication to his Mom. For this weekend he will be staying there at the care center by her side, making sure she is well taken care of and he will be taking an extended absent leave from work to be by her side when she returns home. Such a dear devoted and loving Son, bless him. He said that Ginny is looking forward to returning home where she can prepare more peacefully on her passing journey.
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Bluemoon Knowflake Posts: 4456 From: Stafford, VA USA Registered: Feb 2005
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posted February 03, 2007 06:13 PM
What a loving tribute to a lovely Woman.I am not surprised that she has such a wonderful son. IP: Logged |
Bluemoon Knowflake Posts: 4456 From: Stafford, VA USA Registered: Feb 2005
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posted February 05, 2007 09:14 AM
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