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posted December 05, 2006 09:19 PM         

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A touching little article (written by a womanzier; Yes, they do have a soul Lol!)
http://men.msn.com/articlebl.aspx?cp-documentid=1013876

It does make me reflect ahead on my years. Deep... Very deep.

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posted December 05, 2006 09:52 PM         

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A good read. Do you have children? Are you male?

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posted December 05, 2006 10:46 PM         

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I especially like this part of a paragraph, especially the very last sentence of it, because I tend to find it to be true:

"And they will resort to ruses and deception and flattery and alcohol to get you out of your clothes. They will play on guilt. It's not necessarily calculated or malicious. It's simply biology. Sometimes we're not even aware of what we're doing. To say that we can't help it is, of course, a cop-out. We can—but many of us don't."

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posted December 05, 2006 11:00 PM         

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interesting...man id be traumatized if my father was like that!

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posted December 05, 2006 11:05 PM         

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I don't know..it seems he thinks it's okay in some way..it doesn't change the fact, that what he is doing is wrong..
and that every Woman..has a Dad, she wants to Respect. ...

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posted December 05, 2006 11:07 PM         

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DD, I'd be mortified. Seein' my daddy..... as a macky-daddy??? Hell to the nooooo!

But truthfully, you'd think that with a daughter he would actually make somewhat of an effort to set a good example....which he hasn't even done BTW.

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posted December 05, 2006 11:11 PM         

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Mack-daddy???? LOL Dulce, and YIKES!!!

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posted December 06, 2006 01:09 AM         

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at Dolce

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posted December 06, 2006 04:20 PM         

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urrr…

My farther is/was a womaniser, and never spoke ill of other men. And he’d never flaunt it in front of me. Some people have no class

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posted December 06, 2006 05:35 PM         

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A good read. Do you have children? Are you male?

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No actually . Male, yes. Am I an Uncle? oh yeah Lol! Just that, the article kinda made me think as to how I would look back at this age and time 20 years from now. Kinda jumping ahead of myself.

And well... Though I DO NOT agree with the idea of use and abuse, I do believe that society tends to be a bit right handed when it comes to what they precieve as "Womanizing."

I base my relationships on the following premise:

"Don't walk infront of me, I may not lead. Don't walk behind me, I may not follow. Walk beside me as a friend."

I'll be Frank: I have had flings in the past . Though the use of the word "fling" really doesn't justifies the value of those relationships. Both the lovely maidens and me had a clear understanding from the begining that we weren't looking for a long term relationship and that yes I indeed had past short term "flings." Ironically though, its exactly what made each moment sweet and cherish-worthy. I don't see past partings as faliures. On the contrary, the things I learned from each wonderful girl are worth more than gold. In turn I gave them bits of what I have learned in life. Its may not be deep love but its love and definately mutually benifitial .

They are still good friends of mine BTW .

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