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Topic: Anyone for philosophy debate?
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miss_muffet Knowflake Posts: 832 From: Registered: Mar 2004
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posted December 28, 2006 08:08 PM
If you were born and raise in complete bliss... would you really know that you are in complete happiness and appreciate it? Or do you think you should experience sadness to know happiness? 1. Yes - you would know you are blissfully happy. 2. No - you have to experience pain to know you are happy.- My answer would be 2. It's rather a state of mind. If you are always in bliss, there is no bliss... because it becomes a constant in your life. Anyone for a debate? IP: Logged |
Yin Knowflake Posts: 1409 From: Registered: May 2004
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posted December 28, 2006 08:12 PM
I'm never satisfied, i.e. I'm not sure I get happy. How long does the happiness have to last anyway? What's happy?
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miss_muffet Knowflake Posts: 832 From: Registered: Mar 2004
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posted December 28, 2006 08:16 PM
happiness = state of mind...? release of endorphines? quote:
That elated feeling, which can last up to 12 hours for some people, has a scientific explanation. It comes from a release of endorphins.
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Yin Knowflake Posts: 1409 From: Registered: May 2004
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posted December 28, 2006 08:30 PM
Exactly. So can you be happy for more than a couple of seconds, minutes or hours even? I don't know. I only know how I feel and I am convinced I need to be happier for longer periods of time. And I'm not. I guess I don't want to talk about happiness in general because there always be something to be added to the topic, there is always something new to learn. I want to talk about MY happiness. It's more practical
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BornUnderDioscuri Knowflake Posts: 2560 From: Never Never Land Registered: Oct 2006
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posted December 28, 2006 08:37 PM
I actually think everything is relative and you have to experience pain to appreciate happiness...not so much to know happiness but to appreciate it. But the issue lies in the fact that nothing is perfect and some occurances are worse than others and therefore the worst one would be considered pain to the person experiencing it. Its all rather relative. But i think its impossible to live a life of complete happiness and not know pain. IP: Logged |
Yin Knowflake Posts: 1409 From: Registered: May 2004
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posted December 28, 2006 08:43 PM
quote: But i think its impossible to live a life of complete happiness and not know pain.
Except for the mentally ill than are on happy pills. IP: Logged |
Zingi Knowflake Posts: 145 From: Oklahoma Registered: Mar 2006
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posted December 28, 2006 08:44 PM
quote: If you were born and raise in complete bliss... would you really know that you are in complete happiness and appreciate it? Or do you think you should experience sadness to know happiness? 1. Yes - you would know you are blissfully happy. 2. No - you have to experience pain to know you are happy. - My answer would be 2. It's rather a state of mind. If you are always in bliss, there is no bliss... because it becomes a constant in your life.
I would think if you do not know what sadness is because you have live in a state of bliss(constant)then you would not know what sadness is because there is no experience in that state. I am not saying that it would not exist but without the polar oppisite neither things can exisit. In order to have Joy there must be pain, hot there is cold etc. . Keeps things balanced. So therefore my choice would be 2,No - you have to experience pain to know (UNDERSTAND...REALIZE) you are happy.
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Yin Knowflake Posts: 1409 From: Registered: May 2004
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posted December 28, 2006 08:51 PM
I guess I'm not up for a philosophical debate. Who wants to get the party started?
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miss_muffet Knowflake Posts: 832 From: Registered: Mar 2004
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posted December 28, 2006 10:18 PM
ok... this is getting interesting...so... let's further analyze this... if you do not know love (like a man and a woman type of love), if this is your first time falling in love... how would you know if she/he is the right person for you if you do not have any other to compare it with? So take for example, if you have met your soul mate as your first love, would you know deep in your heart that he/she is your soul mate without having to date other people? - philosophically speaking, you wouldn't but... I'd like to believe that if I met my true love first, I'd like to believe that I would know that it is true love, wouldn't you agree? or is that not a good comparison? MM
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Moonshine9 Knowflake Posts: 240 From: Jamaica, NY, U.S.A. Registered: Jan 2005
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posted December 29, 2006 03:05 PM
Yes I have to agree about you can't have one without the other. I guess we all have our degrees of pain and happiness? meaning how much we can take, how much is experienced at one point in time? I'm trying to keep an even keel but sometimes when your going through a painful time you have to go with it like with what I'm going through right now. I'm trying to deal with my marriage. It's not going very well. I can't explain all the details because there's so much going on. In a nutshell, I was having an affair and my husband found out he took it well at first but now it's gone from bad to worse.He goes on drug binges and becomes violent.It's been 8 months that were still trying to work things out but it's really hard. At one point I felt ashamed of what I had done and tried to take my own life. I ended up in the Psychiatric ward overnight and it was a nightmare! I'd never try to that again. I have a 2 year old boy whom I love! He's my whole world! When the new year starts I'll probably be getting a divorce but I'll do my best to deal with the consequences of my actions. Thanks for letting me write this down. Peace Love and Light to all! IP: Logged |
miss_muffet Knowflake Posts: 832 From: Registered: Mar 2004
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posted December 29, 2006 03:18 PM
I am sorry to hear that Moonshine. My heart goes out to you. Just try to remember that there must be a reason why you had the affair. Hate to say this but it really can't be all your fault. It does take two to make and break a marriage. Don't be too hard on yourself. Also remember that having an affair doesn't make you a bad mother. I am sure your little one loves you just as much.Much love, light and hope to you and yours, MM IP: Logged |
Moonshine9 Knowflake Posts: 240 From: Jamaica, NY, U.S.A. Registered: Jan 2005
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posted December 29, 2006 03:22 PM
King Solomon wrote in Ecclesiastes: "To everything there is a season and a time, for every matter under heaven... A time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance."IP: Logged |
sue g Knowflake Posts: 8591 From: former land of the leprechaun Registered: Sep 2004
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posted December 29, 2006 03:24 PM
MoonshineDont feel bad about what you did....you had your reasons... Please protect your child and yourself against drugs and violence..... How can that compare to connecting with another man, probably for love Take care of yourself girl Be strong and take the right path. IP: Logged |
sue g Knowflake Posts: 8591 From: former land of the leprechaun Registered: Sep 2004
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posted December 29, 2006 03:26 PM
I just pulled one of my cards for you Moonshine"Answered Prayer" Pray and you will be heard. IP: Logged |
Moonshine9 Knowflake Posts: 240 From: Jamaica, NY, U.S.A. Registered: Jan 2005
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posted December 29, 2006 03:30 PM
Thank you for you extremely kind and supportive words. They help! For a while I've felt like a bad mother and my husband still tries to make me feel that I am but I know deep down in my heart I'm not. I'm at the stage now of facing and owning up to what I've done, coping as best I can. It's a slow process though. Thanks again MM and have a wonderful new year!IP: Logged |
Moonshine9 Knowflake Posts: 240 From: Jamaica, NY, U.S.A. Registered: Jan 2005
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posted December 29, 2006 03:39 PM
Thank you SueG! I will pray. Pray very hard that I can get through this.I usually pray before I go to sleep. Pray that the white light of the holy spirit protect me and my child. Now I will pray morning, noon and night. You all are so wonderful! I feel so overwhelmed and overjoyed of the outpouring of support and love! Thank you!!!
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sue g Knowflake Posts: 8591 From: former land of the leprechaun Registered: Sep 2004
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posted December 29, 2006 03:44 PM
I will pray for you and your child too..... God bless IP: Logged |
Moonshine9 Knowflake Posts: 240 From: Jamaica, NY, U.S.A. Registered: Jan 2005
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posted December 29, 2006 03:54 PM
Thank you SueG! Thank you so very much!!IP: Logged |
Zingi Knowflake Posts: 145 From: Oklahoma Registered: Mar 2006
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posted December 29, 2006 09:41 PM
LOVE is law;LAW is love quote: An expert in the law tested Jesus with this question, "Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the law?" Jesus replied, "Love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like unto it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' All the law and the prophets hang on these two commandments." (Matthew 22:35-40)
We as souls come into this reality already knowing what love is (subconsciously)and this is why or what most of us are searching...longing for something we know is UNCONDITIONAL I think.
I believe it is because we are as a spirit/soul that is a part of the whole because we have experienced this unconditonal love we seek it here. The question I would have to ask is why would you question "love" to begin with and just not experience being in that moment. You never know really if a certain person is "the right person". the secret is... THEY ARE ALL CORRECT FOR YOU... Because, it is the participation/growth you are needing from the experience.
What is right is the experience you are to gain with/from the other person. Moonshine9 said...
quote: ...I guess we all have our degrees of pain and happiness? meaning how much we can take, how much is experienced at one point in time?...
This experience was already laid before you before you came into this existence. You choose to experience it for what reasons I do not know but, do not back down from the LEARNING EXPERIENCE. I can emapathize with you and I hope that the pain your are going through leads you toward awonderful growth experience. I would highly recommend reading this thread and purchasing Bruce McAuthur's book... Your Life: Why It Is the Way It Is and What You Can Do About It" My prayers are with you. JET ------------------ You are not a human being in search of a spiritual experience. You are a spiritual being immersed in a human experience.
Pierre Teilhard De Chardin
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Moonshine9 Knowflake Posts: 240 From: Jamaica, NY, U.S.A. Registered: Jan 2005
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posted January 24, 2007 05:07 PM
Thank you for that Zingi. What you said really puts it in a new perspective for me. Thank you for that. I love that quote. "You are not a human being in search of a spiritual experience. You are a spiritual being immersed in a human experience." I'm sorry I haven't responded lately, I really should because I feel such a huge support system whenever I come back to lindaland. For the moment things have seemed to settle down. I'm still extremely concerned about my husband's drug taking. He doesn't do it in front of me only when he's with his other friends at work. I don't want to abandon him while he's in such a state but in the back of my mind I think about my child's welfare. I've been trying to establish myself financially so I won't have to depend on him so much. It's slow going but I believe I'll get there soon enough. Thank you everyone for your love and support! It means the world to me!!! Peace and Love to you all
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Moonshine9 Knowflake Posts: 240 From: Jamaica, NY, U.S.A. Registered: Jan 2005
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posted January 24, 2007 05:08 PM
Thank you for that Zingi. What you said really puts it in a new perspective for me. Thank you for that. I love that quote. "You are not a human being in search of a spiritual experience. You are a spiritual being immersed in a human experience." I'm sorry I haven't responded lately, I really should because I feel such a huge support system whenever I come back to lindaland. For the moment things have seemed to settle down. I'm still extremely concerned about my husband's drug taking. He doesn't do it in front of me only when he's with his other friends at work. I don't want to abandon him while he's in such a state but in the back of my mind I think about my child's welfare. I've been trying to establish myself financially so I won't have to depend on him so much. It's slow going but I believe I'll get there soon enough. Thank you everyone for your love and support! It means the world to me!!! Peace and Love to you all
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Zingi Knowflake Posts: 145 From: Oklahoma Registered: Mar 2006
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posted January 24, 2007 07:33 PM
You are so welcomed Moon . Glaad to hear that things are settling down for you. Keep a goal in mind and set forth to accomplish it. Things will work out PERFECTLY FOR YOU AND YOUR SITUATION.
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AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 11943 From: Pleasanton, CA, USA Registered: May 2005
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posted January 24, 2007 07:59 PM
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Heart--Shaped Cross Knowflake Posts: 7178 From: 11/6/78 11:38am Boston, MA Registered: Aug 2004
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posted January 25, 2007 12:33 AM
It's a trick question.If the answer is 2, then the only happiness is the relief from suffering. Happiness, or bliss, devoid of suffering would not even be a possibility. So, not only answer #1, but, the very premise of the question itself would have to be interpreted as nonsensical. Furthermore, the only bliss is consciousness of bliss. There is no bliss without consciousness of bliss. Consciousness is a given. In order for the premise of the question not to be misleading, it must allow that the bliss experienced in childhood IS conscious. It must be. (Even a blissed-out automaton experiences a certain degree and form of consciousness.) To say that we can know bliss without appreciating it, to me, sounds like an attempt at splitting semantic hairs. Appreciation of bliss is a condition of bliss. You dont experience bliss without being blissfully appreciative. Therefore, the option becomes: 1. Did this spirit have to suffer in a former life, in order to know/appreciate bliss in this one? or 2. Is it possible to know/appreciate bliss without ever having known its alternative? I am not sure the question can be answered from our present perspective. Many Eastern philosophies will tell you that everything contains its opposite. When they say that duality is illusory, they mean that, for instance, bliss is the flip-side of suffering, so, we are not really speaking of two things. The great German philosopher, Schopenhauer, agreed that the two could not be separated. His philosophy stressed the point that suffering is the positive element in existence, while happiness is nothing but the absence, or removal of suffering. I would argue that the reverse argument is equally persuasive. Either way, we are back to considering the two as indivisible. The remedy for this "paradox", according to most Eastern philosophies (Schopenhauer himself was most fascinated with Hinduism), is to quiet the mind, for the conflict is only in the mind. Eastern philosphers seem to differ, though, as to whether this may be accomplished consciously (lol), as an act of will, or if it occurs organically, -- or if there is really no difference between what a person wills and what "GOD" wills a person to will. One of the central questions in Eastern Thought appears to be, "Is abdication of will an act of will? And what the heck does that mean, anyway???" The most popular, and perhaps the most persuasive, response to this question seems to be, "Nevermind. You think too much." The Hermetic (or Western Mystery) Tradition looks a bit more optimistic to me. It may be that what it is saying is no different from what has been said in the East, but, there does appear to be more stress layed on Salvation, and the ability to "polarize" by an act of conscious will; in other words, although it is agreed that there is a single continuum (a scale of "Vibration" with opposite poles), it is possible, with wisdom gained through experience (of suffering), to increase one's rate of vibration, and align oneself with the "bliss" end of the spectrum. Suffering, - at least, suffering as we know it - becomes a thing of the past, and something which it is unnecessary to revisit in order to maintain ones high rate of vibration. ((See: The Kybalion)) So, yeah,... As far as I can understand it, this is what has been said on the matter by some who professed to be Masters. I myself do not believe I have the wisdom yet to answer it though. HSC ------------------ 'Would you know your Lord's meaning in this thing? Know it well. Love was his meaning. Who showed it to you? Love. What did he show you? Love. Why did he show it? For love. Keep yourself therein and you shall know and understand more in the same. But you shall never know nor understand any other thing, forever.' - Julian of Norwich "Judgement is the antithesis of understanding, and hatred of evil is the craftiest and least well-known of vices, so easily is it mistaken for love of good." - Valerian (aka HSC) 11http://i50.photobucket.com/albums/f309/Alem7/chart1.gif http://i50.photobucket.com/albums/f309/Alem7/steve5.jpg IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Knowflake Posts: 5301 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Jun 2005
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posted January 25, 2007 12:58 AM
Boy HSC, you really took that seriously!I actually agree though. I won't point out the parts I agreed with, but I will nod and say.. "yes, right, those exact ones." Moonshine, my heart goes out to you. Please do not be hard on yourself, the world is hard enough on you. There is no way you would've even thought of being with another person unless there were a deficiency somewhere closer to home. Whatever leads you to where you are, your heart remains, and forgiveness ( from YOU) can help you make the leap a little more certain. Not matter where you land, they're your feet you land with. It's worth the journey. lots of love to you and your child AND your husband. IP: Logged |