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Topic: Mommy, that lady is FAT
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MysticMelody Moderator Posts: 3521 From: Registered: Dec 2005
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posted February 20, 2007 05:48 PM
She said this while we were walking into the video store, I told her she can't say it, it would hurt people's feelings and make them cry etc. Strange thing is that I was going in to get 'SuperSize Me' because although I rarely rent movies on my single mom going to college budget, but I figured I had waited long enough for it to be on the dollar shelf... actually it was on the two for a dollar shelf. *edited the rest because no one is interested and I'm not anymore either* Re-edited (3/03/07) to re-post original copy I cut since more are participating and I want my original feelings to be understood:
She said this while we were walking into the video store, I told her she can't say it, it would hurt people's feelings and make them cry etc. Strange thing is that I was going in to get 'SuperSize Me' because although I rarely rent movies on my single mom going to college budget, but I figured I had waited long enough for it to be on the dollar shelf... actually it was on the two for a dollar shelf. So, I watched the movie finally and had my daughter watch it, "***** " and "******** " and all. The rest of the content was much more vile and obscene than that language could ever be. From the first bit, the guy was my hero and I was filled with emotion at his bravery and his effort to make a difference. I had tried to talk to the supervisor at the college 'Early Learning Center' (sounds so great, doesn't it?) where I did work study while going to classes so I could monitor the setting and people who were responsible for my daughter while I was in class. I thought it was shameful that the pretty colored brochure claimed "healthy meals" when everything was covered in grease, even the canned vegetables and white pasta, which were always SWIMMING in margarine. Most of the "teachers" there, and my supervisor, mostly looked at me as a trouble maker and psycho nut job simply because I brought it up and asked if we could request that our vegetables (our menu was different from the college students each day so it wouldn't have been that difficult of a request) come without a stick of margarine melted in the metal tub. I have also heard a nice sized sample of every idiot in my tri-state area telling me that McD's advertising, and issues like the cost of living (for just housing, bills, and liability insurance on an old family vehicle to get to work which is above what a minimum wage job at 40 hours a week provides) that make it necessary for a dual-earning household, has nothing to do with the obesity/health problems and overall misery of most of the people in area... blah blah blah I can hear the idiots clammoring to line up and argue so I'm done. The point to the above freaking out is to explain why I cried throughout this movie. I did laugh (in a NO KIDDING sort of way) when he said that he was going to punch his children in the face whenever he went by a McDonalds, because obviously, that is the only method that a parent COULD use that might actually come close to over-powering the psychological implanting done by these corporations. *sigh* I think I need a Double Cheeseburger. I just hope jwhop and Pid don't come argue with me intellectually about this because I tell ya, I am so emotional about it that all it will take is one random comment to trip me right over to the 'conspiracy theory crazed, red, white, and blue hating Left'. I don't want to hear from anyone with a political agenda either, just from other crazed parents who understand why you just want to cry and kick the crap out of yourself for even bringing a child into this world when you are exausted from protecting them from everyone else's self-serving, blind "creations", better termed "NIGHTMARES". Oh, I know I'm not coherent. I wrote this last week for poetry class, it's called Innocence. I don't know If it's right
To share the dark And the light Innocence Purity Why, oh God Does she look To me With those eyes That are wise And would catch Deceptive Lies IP: Logged |
lotusheartone Knowflake Posts: 238 From: MOther & Father GOd Registered: Feb 2008
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posted February 20, 2007 05:58 PM
I understand...my daughters have to beg me for fast food... I prepare all our meals from scratch... we moved back to NH last April in Canada..going to McDonald's for 3 of Us, was $20.00 and a 30 minute wait.. eating out in Canada is expensive alcohol is very expensive cigarette's here in The U.S. you have the dollar menu booze it cheap $3.00 for a bottle of vodka versus Canada $23.00 we must take back control! LOve to ALL. ... IP: Logged |
Bluemoon Knowflake Posts: 4456 From: Stafford, VA USA Registered: Feb 2005
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posted February 24, 2007 08:16 PM
When young girls were asked, on Tyra, if they would rather be Dumb or Fat, most of them chose Dumb. IP: Logged |
lioneye68 Knowflake Posts: 6062 From: Canada Registered: Apr 2003
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posted March 02, 2007 02:44 PM
I'd rather be both - lol...just kidding. That makes no sense. It's like saying, do you take your lunch to work, or do you walk? Anyway, the truth is, for a skinny person, being fat is a fate worse than death - Until they get fat, then they realize life is still pretty great, even if you're fat. By the same token, life can really suck sometimes, even if you're skinny. Females have always been too obsessed with their body images. I guess everyone is too obesessed with the female body - males AND females. I guess because it's just so magnificent (or can be). IP: Logged |
virgotaurustaurus Knowflake Posts: 2474 From: upstate NY, USA Registered: Oct 2004
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posted March 02, 2007 02:53 PM
Whaat, oh man, give me fat any day as long as I can still be a smartypants!! IP: Logged |
MysticMelody Moderator Posts: 3521 From: Registered: Dec 2005
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posted March 03, 2007 02:15 AM
Most of my original post was about the powerlessness I feel against the unhealthy state of the world looming about my daughter and my feelings about the sad info in the movie Supersize Me. I just left the first part because I knew people would be curious about the title but without the description of the traumatic Mommy angst I was experiencing it may seem to imply something rude that is not intended. I just feel the odds are stacked against me, but most of the time I accept the balance of health and modern society and our culture etc. I was just having a guilt attack because my daughter already worships the evil McDonald clown and I dream of having the time and inner fortitude to revamp my entire lifestyle and chop and cook gourmet vegetarian meals. I keep buying the cookbooks and learning new things... baby steps hehe I have been afraid to let my daughter go outside alone because I used to be terrified she would be abducted. 20/20 said something about kids having a greater chance of getting struck by lightening and I'm not going to trust that completely, but I think I can relax and just keep an eye on her through the window now that she understands to stay out of the road. I really want my daughter to read AND exercise...I saved what I erased so I'll go put it up there again and will leave it for a while. IP: Logged |
virgotaurustaurus Knowflake Posts: 2474 From: upstate NY, USA Registered: Oct 2004
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posted March 03, 2007 02:31 AM
Aww I just wanted to tell you I think there's hope still...I really liked McD's when I was a little kid, everything about it, and we ate there quite often, which was great for my parents who didn't have a lot of money. I never got obese or even gained a lot of weight despite the occassional meal at McDs for lunch out with Mom, because Mom still made healthy stuff for us at home and always told us eat our fruit and veggies. As I've grown older I've just lost a taste for McDs altogether and rarely ever go there, and don't really enjoy fast food all that much either, despite my upbringing! And my school while I was growing up had pretty nasty stuff for lunch as well. I think, even if there is the outside world influence that sucks, if you as Mom who she probably looks up to keeps doing your baby steps and eating healthier and showing that vegetables and whatnot can be delicious too, as you seem to want to do, she might get it. IP: Logged |
Johnny Knowflake Posts: 2056 From: Colorado, USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted March 04, 2007 12:14 AM
No, you're definitely coherent, MysticMelody! I agree with you %100, and it's way cool how you're so informed and passionate about it. I've been wanting to see Supersize Me for a while, but I haven't yet. Don't eat fast food, anyway, though. quote: I can hear the idiots clammoring to line up and argue so I'm done.
Haha, perfect mental image. I think I know just what you mean. You sound like such a great mom. Not my business, I know, but it's just cool. IP: Logged |
MysticMelody Moderator Posts: 3521 From: Registered: Dec 2005
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posted March 04, 2007 04:08 AM
Thanks for the support you two. It's really important to hear "you'll make it through" and "she'll turn out all right" and "you sound like a great mom". It seriously means more than you know. I think it takes me down a couple notches on the stress scale. There is beautiful energy today, don't you think? I've seen so much beauty in the world today... I'm sure it will just keep getting better! Johnny, you will find the movie interesting. At the very end after the credits have rolled he does a little experiment and puts a Big Mac and Fillet "O" Fish hehe and a Double Cheeseburger all under individual glass domes. He also puts a big burger from a restaurant, fries from a restaurant, and McDonalds fries under domes. He watches them mold over a month and 1/2 or more and the regular food is first to go, gets moldy and black and has to be removed because of the smell. McD's sandwiches last longer of course, take a long time to mold etc. But the Main Astounding Result is the McD's Fries. They last the entire experiment without even the tiniest bit of mold. They look just bought after more than a month and a 1/2. It's disconcerting. IP: Logged |
Johnny Knowflake Posts: 2056 From: Colorado, USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted March 04, 2007 04:18 AM
Um, ew. Do they batter them in formaldehyde or something? That's really gross. Even bacteria won't mess with them. Hrrm. IP: Logged |
Dervish Knowflake Posts: 328 From: California Registered: Nov 2006
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posted March 04, 2007 04:33 AM
When I was 14, my PE Class was made to get weighed and some chart was used to show which of us was obese or close to it. Only 2 of us were declared "healthy." The rest were unhealthy or even obese. Out of the 2 "healthy" ones was: 1. An anorexic 2. Me, who was under doctor's orders at the time to gain weight so that my body could handle puberty. As far as I'm concerned, that school was validating the idea that Paris Hiltonish ribs showing was "healthy" and that those girls actually healthy for real were called fat. Your tax dollars at work. (Btw, the school also served and sold fat lunches and snacks. This is a remnant of decades ago when times were harder and the government wanted to make sure that enough boys got what they needed to then turn to muscle in PE class so that they could then be drafted via Selective Services. But the girls share in that food, and typically also have a much less strenous PE class since we're not expected to be drafted, and even to this day we're not supposed to fill out the Selective Service cards. Thus, I guess the intense social pressures, though enough businesses like to promote their impossible beauty standards so that females are insecure and can thus have "solutions" sold to them. Though guys get targetted a little this way, too.) IP: Logged |
MysticMelody Moderator Posts: 3521 From: Registered: Dec 2005
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posted March 04, 2007 11:43 PM
"batter them in formaldehyde" no kidding!!"This is a remnant of decades ago when times were harder and the government wanted to make sure that enough boys got what they needed to then turn to muscle in PE class so that they could then be drafted via Selective Services." interesting, Dervish
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