posted May 28, 2007 08:21 AM         

They're doing alot on The Secret and Law of Attraction - I've really been focusing on this theory for about six months now and chakra meditations (thanks to IQHunk ). At the beginning of this year things were really bad for me job wise and finance's up to mid April, I kept visualising, kept staying positive (mostly) throughout. Then, close to rock bottom, I went to my local crystal shop, told them 'I need something to clear negative energies', they gave me some crystal advice, insence and smudging stick and sent me on my way. Things have completely turned around. In conjunction with clearing my home through smudging, talking to Angels, clearing some clutter (more needs to go ) and ordering from the universal 'bank', I have received unexpected cheques for £4000 and £1000. Now considering my debts this doesn't make me rich, but at least breaking even and no longer in danger of bankruptcy and living on the street. I remain positive.

Now I am at the point of thinking, 'ok I have the regular things I need and am grateful for that - now how to I get the big things?' Relationship success, Career success (not just a job that pays the bills, but a satisfying career to feel passionate about).

posted May 29, 2007 07:12 PM         

1... Keeping a clear mental picture of you want, small or large

2... working toward that goal with confidence and lots of action!

ACTION... you can't sit around waiting for 'it' to fall into your lap (although it can happen)... you need to take major steps

3... if you want a better career...then you have to look for it and start networking while keeping that picture clear in your mind...you will eventually meet the right person

4... if its relationship well you will have to start meeting people or end your old relationship...if thats what you want

5...every action you take, every thought that you make should give you a good feeling, you should be in bliss, then you know you are on the path you were meant to be on... figure out what makes you so happy and do it no matter what... because you will be happy no matter what!

Tell yourself you deserve happiness, and then figure out what makes you happy.

posted May 29, 2007 07:22 PM         

In particular I resonate with keeping thoughts positive, when my head starts doubting I say to myself "No, I'm not going to do that to myself - I do deserve 'this' as much as anyone else" I guess it just takes more energy and focus over a longer period, to get the bigger things

posted May 29, 2007 08:06 PM         

I'd also suggest being grateful for what you already have. No matter how much more you want or how much better you'd like to have it, be grateful for whatever you have now. I hope that doesn't sound "preachy". I mean to really focus on feelings of gratitude. Start really feeling thankful and fortunate for all you have ... even for the things that haven't yet "materialized". The whole, "ask as if you had already received and then you'll surely have it" idea (paraphrasing). You'll put yourself in a very positive mind frame this way. It'll just open you up to more things to be grateful for.