posted March 28, 2008 10:41 PM         

Do you plan on forgiving any other former members youve banned? Or was it lotusheartone's lucky day? It's really nice to see people practicing forgiveness. Well done.

And may I say thank you for thinking so highly of me! Me, "of all people"!! Wow.

Yes, I do know what it means to forgive, to give a second chance, to be sympathetic and think with one's mind/heart. Great observation. Seems we have that in common!
(my query was already answered btw. ) Still, why not ask, as a member of this community why, someone who was banned gets to come back (not that i mind that she is back!); & how exactly that works out? It's not really about me "worrying about how you run your site" Randall, it's more curiosity. The rules are so interesting here. So it's because you have forgiven. That's so great!

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We have things under control but do appreciate your gratuitous concerns.

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Aye aye, captain. Anytime, pal.

posted March 28, 2008 11:15 PM         

Typically, if someone gets banned here, they have stretched the bounds of common decency (racist comments, for instance), but it does take a lot to be kicked out of the LL door (or it has in the past anyway), so it's unlikely that such persons would be seen again; however, when approached by said Members and healthy dialogue engaged, anything is possible. Rest assured that such decisions are not made lightly. My Mods and I (or some of them) have to agree. But as I said earlier, don't worry about the running of Lindaland. We have all the intricacies of running this site well under control.

posted March 28, 2008 11:24 PM         

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But as I said earlier, don't worry about the running of Lindaland. We have all the intricacies of running this site well under control.

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And as I said earlier;
I am not "worried" about how you run the site, Randall.

"The intricacies of running this site well under control." ? No one questioned that.

posted March 28, 2008 11:56 PM         

Back to more suggestions for a Forum!

I do like 20 a lot more now, though.

posted March 28, 2008 11:59 PM         

Maybe you dont realize that I have nothing against lotus and any jabs you interpret me taking at her, are not that at all. I dont even know where these "jabs" you bring up are.

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If this were just "my site," believe me a lot of things would be different.

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Hm. That's quite interesting. How so? If you believe in and resonate with Linda's teachings so strongly, how would this site be different in the way she would run it? Youve mentioned before that on your ideal site, only real true Linda fans would be here.

I am a fan of Linda's. On a scale of 1-10, i'd probably come in at a 5. I am not interested in what kind of toothpaste she used etc. but she still holds a special place in my life and heart.

And I'm no Rhodes Scholar, but I do figure that if you want a site with only Linda devotees, why not start one with different rules for members? What would be wrong with that? If it would bring you more happiness and peace then why not? What is stopping you?

posted March 29, 2008 12:06 AM         

You arent kidding anyone with your fake yawn and "boredom" Randall.

So you have decided to stick with 20 forums? Cool.

posted March 29, 2008 07:34 AM         

21
The Crown of the Magi
21 is pictured as "The Universe," and is also called "The Crown of the Magi," It promises general success, and guarantees advancement, honors, awards, and general elevation in the life and career. It indicates victory after a long struggle, for the "Crown of the Magi" is gained only after long initiation, much soul testing and various other tests of determination. However, the person or entity blessed with the number 21 may be certain of final victory over all odds and opposition. It's a most fortunate vibration--a number of karmic reward.

The Meaning of the 2 Vibration:
The following definition of Number 2 applies to both people and entities. 2 people are dreamers, with a tendency to fear the unknown or the unfamiliar. They are extremely imaginative and inventive, but not always as forceful as could be in carrying out their plans and ideas. Not all, but most 2 people are seldom as strong as those born under the single birth numbers of 1, 9, 3, or 6.

These people possess a very romantic nature, and are secretly what is called "psychic." The intuition is highly developed. One of the traits for 2 people to guard against is "fearing shadows of fears." A 2 person fears every conceivable kind of loss: loss of love, property, money, friendship, employment--loss of loved ones through death of any other kind of separation. These people need a home base, and although they adore to travel the globe as frequently as finances permit, they must have a home to return to. In no way can a 2 person be a "soldier of fortune," to whom home is where you hang your hat. They are fanatically devoted to or involved with (in either a negative or positive sense) the parents, especially the Mother. They make ideal parents themselves, but they must be careful not to smother their children with possessive love.

This is the "chicken soup" vibration, since all 2 people are ultra concerned with the well-being of friend and relatives. They hover over everyone, making sure they don't catch a cold, throw away money foolishly, and so forth. "Have some hot chicken soup and wear your boots or you'll catch your death of pneumonia." 2 people are extremely cautious, and dislike gambling or taking chances. They love money, but like to accumulate it in a safe, stable way, then invest it securely, so it can increase through dividends and interests.

The 2 vibration is secretive, and never lets anyone know what the next move might be. They're experts at wheedling secrets from others, but they won't allow you to invade their own privacy. They'll veer from right to left and backward, then lunge forward in a surprisingly aggressive manner toward their goals. Money seems to stick to them like glue, so you'll almost never find a 2 person (or an 8 person) on public welfare or food stamps. These people are charitable (especially with family), and are prone to heading charity drives, but it chills them to even think about accepting charity themselves. It insinuates a failure to protect their assets, which is a cardinal sin to the 2 vibration. When 2 people learn to overcome fear, possessiveness, and unnecessary caution, their imagination, adaptability, and intuition can carry them to the fulfillment of all their many dreams.

The Meaning of the 3 vibration:
The following definition of Number 3 applies to both people and entities. 3 people base every actin (even when they are misguided and the action is a negative one) upon the foundation of a great ideal. They aim high for truth, and nothing less than truth with satisfy them, whether they seek the truth of a love affair, a friendship, a career, politics, or religion. They are not easily put off by evasive answers or deception, and they can spot a lie, a distortion, or dishonesty a mile away. Some of them achieve the goal of truth, others are misled into believing their own illusions, but they never stop searching. The 3 vibration is fiercely independent, seeks total freedom of speech and movement, and cannot be tied down. Travel is an absolute necessity, mingling with others and seeing the world, learning everything there is to know about every country and its people, every intellectual concept, every philosophy.

They tend to look at the bright side of everything, and their optimism is contagious. Even Capricorns with 3 as the birth number will shock themselves with these occasional bursts of sheer Pollyanna optimism.

Because of the shining quest for truth, the 3 person is either an agnostic, an atheist, or intensely devoted to a religious principle, i.e.: nuns, ministers, monks, rabbis, and priests. Religion is an important part of the life of a 3 person or entity, whether the religion is fervently, fanatically accepted or bitterly rejected. The attitude is never neutral.

Physical challenge inspires the 3 people or entities; therefore sports play a major role. The 3 vibration is shockingly blunt of speech, candid to a fault, and outraged at duplicity of any kind. There's a genuine love for animals and a strong tendency to defend the underdog human with the same loyalty they show to their dogs, horses, and other pets. There's a marked indifference to family ties, and marriage works only when freedom is total. The 3 vibration is associated with tests of physical strength, gambling, and taking a chance, whether at the casinos or on the floor of the stock market. The 3 person or entity will take a chance or bet on just about anything. Their bubbling optimism is delightfully contagious.

3 people or entities often display an odd blend of the wise philosopher and the happy-go-lucky clown, and a sense of responsibility is sometimes lacking. Some of the goals, dreams, and ambitions are serious; others are silly and frivolous. Pursuing an education matters a great deal to 3 people, and they are crushed when they're denied the halls of higher learning for whatever reason. They make excellent "armchair lawyers" or professional attorneys, since the Planet Jupiter, represented by 3, rules the law.

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I don't have anything against the number 20 but would probably prefer the 21 myself. There's a big difference in vibrations also regarding a "2" and a "3". I'm sorry I don't recall but what are LL's birth signs and birth number(s)? Maybe that would be a clue as to which vibes would be best for the site itself ... and maybe also comparing name number(s)? Also, how do these vibrations work with your own, Randall?

I like a number of the suggestions so far. The Forgotten Melodies and Forgotten Rainbows idea would be well in touch with the rest of the pattern of the forums as centered around Linda's works/passions. But I also think FFA gets overloaded and maybe a "Meet and Greet" forum would be nice ... kind of a catch all for introductions, sharing pictures, making important announcements and general updates on the lives of knowflakes could be put. Then FFA could be more of a potpourri - "any mixture, esp. of unrelated objects, subjects" - type of place. I'm not bothered by having all that in FFA but there's so much of it that maybe it needs its own place and it would be easier to keep track of those threads and information than having to fish through all FFA.

I know the aforementioned is what FFA is supposed to be for as far as the topic intros go but it does also get filled with topics that don't fit into others, general questions and musings, jokes, stories, shared links and info, etc. So just cutting either of those categories into another forum seems reasonable and might make it easier to moderate in the long run.