posted May 07, 2008 11:38 AM         

Oka,y so to bring you up to speed after a few more weeks of major tension between the two of us and mostly aimed at me by her it was reaching a head and I basically was persevering to be the bigger person while she retreated and hid like a child who was not getting attention as I chose to ignore her and she continued to make it all my fault. Well, I basically resolved myself that I was more than willing to make a positive resolution and talk with her but if she continued to act like a spoiled child I was not going to feed into her behaviour---for my own sake as well as I have energy that is better devoted to other things and I don't need her sapping all of it.

Well, something has happened that makes me think my consignment was answered. She has sustained an injury that will keep her out of commission for at least 3 months. Now when I consigned her I did nothing to wish her ill will and in fact I was beginning to wonder of I was even heard as it seemed to be taking a while as the tension was continuing to grow and things getting to be unbearable. The odd thing about this injury it usually occurs with a little more force exerted (she ruptured her plantaris tendon while pushing open a gate.)I couldn't help but wonder-since a friend told me "God works in mysterious ways" and I couldn't help but to think there was a divine hand in this somewhere. Because I truly feel this individual needs to learn some lessons, the last time she caused trouble she wound up going out for surgery and was gone from our firehouse for a couple of months.
So anyway I wanted to get you alls take on this situation.