posted August 04, 2008 05:28 PM         

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Sorry, i don't mean to pry... well, i do. But it's rude.

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Just for that I will tell you, because it made me laugh.

Intense is an excellent word.

We met in a nightclub, and moved in with him 2 weeks later. He had split up with his first wife a year earlier, and the aftermath of this did not make for an easy start. To be honest, Meta4, I always had the impression that resistance was futile. When I read some of the stuff on here where women wonder about whether the dithering Pisceans and side stepping Cancerians in their lives are really interested, and think for God's sake get on with it! I have to remind myself that not everyone gets steamrollered into relationships. Or to be more romantic, swept off one's feet.

It's not been that long since I looked seriously into synastry, but the Grand Cross fits right as we seem to have had everything thrown at us ~ ill relatives, redunancy causing money problems, etc, etc. Some problems caused through stupidity, some sheer bad luck. But we have lasted it out, and it does have the feeling of in it till the bitter end, although many times I have felt like throwing it all in and going for something less dramatic, maybe an easy-going and predicitable Taurus.

Jealousy is an emotion that seems to have passed me by quite significantly in life. I can't stand possessiveness, I would rather be neglected. So if you noticed the Sun CNJ Saturn in Aqua on his chart, that will explain that one ~ he's a bit of a workoholic. Those planets sit on one end of my Grand Trine (Sun/Mars/Uranus). So this part works out well.

My parents have Mars Opposite Mars and their marriage seems like a 40 odd year battle of wills. It is a bit hamster on a wheel that I have got a partner I am always arguing with, so nil points for spiritual growth on that one.

What do you make of your Grand Cross? It's powerful stuff.

Venus Square Mars.

In synastry => Recently I had a conversation where someone tried to find out if I still was after my husband for his marital favours. She wanted to know because she has gone off hers, but I still like mine. Maybe that is Venus/Mars in action?

posted August 04, 2008 05:41 PM         

Looking raggedy, rugged and like he means business.

Is this a face of a man who is going to sit around pondering whether or not he feels emotionally available (to give you a good hard sh@gging)?

posted August 04, 2008 08:44 PM         

what did you want him to do to your back alley?

posted August 05, 2008 12:59 AM         

*blushes* ... Yes... i'm nosey. Sorry...

But yes, it makes sense that your relationship would have started fast and made a big impact on you both. There was a lot of red in your synastry chart!

But you're still mad for him, right? I mean, has the passion died off, do you find yourself wanting more from the relationship than you're actually getting? Or has the toils and tribulations you two have faced only made you stronger together?

posted August 05, 2008 01:20 AM         

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What do you make of your Grand Cross? It's powerful stuff.

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Umm... To be completely honest, i've never much paid attention to it.

In truth, i haven't found much on the internet about Grand Squares.

I've... well, let's just say that my childhood was something that should have turned me into a monster. Perhaps i am one already, and simply don't realize it. But, i've always been sincerely intense, serious, and heavy. Full of some sort of conflict constantly. I always managed to find myself in those sort of situations and circumstances. However, i thought that was a result of my Scorpio ASC, or my Pluto in the first house. From what i know of the Grand Cross, and the Grand Square, they cause internal struggle in 4 different parts of your life simultaneously... Right?

posted August 05, 2008 01:39 AM         

Sun in Leo
Pluto in Scorpio
Moon in Aquarius
Mars in Taurus

You know, to match my Grand Square.

I only found one match:

JonBenet Ramsey.

She was born the same day i was.

posted August 05, 2008 04:38 AM         

But what will happen in 10 years time? Your birthday brethren will have had chance to forge successful artistic careers. They will have chosen their paths, studied their art, and honed their craft. (With the Grand Square action on this particular day it may have been a tough path, but one that yields great results.)

When you enter in your data in a few years time, you will have wider list of affinities.

There are no mysteries of the universe on the celeb affinity database. You could find the same info on IMDB (International Moive Database). Flick forward to the same birthday but 10 years older, and you will see a longer list of people, working in different areas of the movie industry:
http://www.imdb.com/OnThisDay?day=6&month=August

Give it long enough and when you go back to celeb affinity different names will come up.

Listen to Mama, now.

Actually I have had a similar conversation with my own mother, when she kicks off on her "another unlucky year for Leos" speech, and one of her favourites "born under an unlucky star". As I say to her, it was unlucky for children born Jewish in Poland, but you were O.K, you missed the bombs, Hitler lost, and you're here now with children, grandchildren and a roof over your head so stop moaning.

Leos get so dramatic.

Ever so often they need their manes stroking, this one, for example:

posted August 05, 2008 05:39 AM         

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Or has the toils and tribulations you two have faced only made you stronger together?

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That one.

And that's a Grand Cross for you, maybe it is the same for the natal version. I've not lived it.

But you've seen my chart, the T-Square with Venus/Ascendant/Mars/NN/Mercury lends itself to the dramatic. Then I meet someone with a fixed T-Square whose Leo Mars brings mine into a Grand Cross (from his perspective my Venus Taurus brings his into a Grand Cross). Stars collide.

It sounds like you have worked out quicker than me that (at least compared to those about you) you might have to just accept that you are going to have an eventful and dramatic life. I don't try and fight it anymore. Things are quiet now, but I just know....

posted August 05, 2008 11:34 AM         

I laughed at your story about your husband pulling the chair out and making you fall on your "@rse". I felt bad afterwards, so i thought i'd tell you and apologize. Sorry!

i looked at the list you left on imdb. Hopper Penn was on there, you know, Sean Penn's son? Yes, he was on there, which sort of made me wince because i love Sean Penn, in a "you're an astonishing actor and beautiful man, and you make me want to shag you" type of way. I wonder if Hopper feels such a confliction... i would imagine that would cause remarkable inner struggle! Should look for a Grand Cross!?!

Yes, logically, me freaking out about JonBenet was... well, irrational. But it did, it startled me. I suppose because i was expecting more results for that same Grand Square then one person. One person who was brutally murdered at 6, you know? Yeah... i'm a weirdo.

posted August 05, 2008 11:36 AM         

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Listen to Mama, now.

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Ever so often they need their manes stroking, this one, for example:

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posted August 06, 2008 12:21 AM         

He growls... ^_^

posted August 06, 2008 07:59 AM         

Now he reminds me of my late uncle, tall and thin, something about the face (dark hair, straight nose) and the penchant for dark suits. Though my uncle was more traditionally handsome. Does Adrien have Irish ancestry? I know the name might be deceiving, and I think his dad is Jewish, but there is something familiar bout his face.

posted August 06, 2008 09:45 AM         

Do you know what his chart looks like?

... Hold on, i'll stop being lazy and look it up myself...

Sun in Aries
Moon in Virgo
Mercury in Pisces
Venus in Aries
Mars in Aquarius
Jupiter in Aquarius
Saturn in Gemini
Uranus in Libra
Neptune in Sagittarius
Pluto in Libra

And his ASC is unknown because there is not BT.

posted August 06, 2008 03:50 PM         

Here's another one. Natal Mars seconds away from mine. Perfect for a sordid weekend in an expensive hotel.

posted August 06, 2008 04:54 PM         

my son reckons Adrien and Richard look the same.

posted August 07, 2008 12:46 AM         

Strangely enough... i can see that... what your son said i mean. Adrien and Richard, maybe in the face... of a black and white photo. In the nose.

Here's a question for you, Blue Moon, why don't you list some men you'd like to... ugh umm... get to know better... ^_^