posted September 02, 2008 11:00 AM         

Actually if you lexigram his and my name together you get "Twinselves". What shall I think of THAT?

posted September 02, 2008 04:43 PM         

LUST!?!?!?!?

...

How do you do this lexigram business?

Let me tell you what IIII think. I think that if you lexigram my name and his you'll get "fiery uncontrolable passion!"

Yes, the exclamation point will be included in there.

posted September 03, 2008 09:11 AM         

I wouldn`t say he does "nothing" to me (it depends on the weather, my mood or whatever I think), but I don`t dream c onstantly of doing the "matress-tango" with him.

I SHOULD be probably dreaming of that, astrologically speaking, but I just don`t.

Heck his 8th house ruler closely conjuncts my 5th house ruler, I should be completely mesmerized with him.
You saw our DW of bride-groom-conjunction, yeah?

Everything astrological is saying I should be crazy for him, and yet my soul is calling out for someone else. I guess "you can`t run away from your heart".

And my heart is not with Jude at the moment. I think.

posted September 03, 2008 09:30 AM         

you can do a "relationship lexigramm".

just write all letters of his name in one line, and all letters of your name in another line.

And the words that can be created by combining both your names, are words descriptive of your connection.

Example:

AA E I C KK N P R S TT

A EE I K N RR SS T U

(I never realized how SIMILIAR our names are! I only have an U, which he has not; and he has C and P, which I have not.)

One of the words that you can create by combination of our names is:

Reincarnate (he`s missing an E, w hich I can deliver)

Anoter word is: Caretaker

I admit the relationship Lexi with Jude Law would be so much better (probably in the above case we were just too similiar)

AA E I U DDD J L V W

A EE I K N RR SS T U

posted September 03, 2008 09:56 AM         

water

plus a rude one I'm not going to put down, that was the first one I spotted, sad really

I could get into these lexigram things

posted September 03, 2008 10:05 AM         

As in jerk-off for those who don't know British slang.

posted September 03, 2008 10:10 AM         

I didn`t see THAT.

BTW you can also do "Jerk" with the two words.

Let`s not start with words like "nail" or "tail" (can it be used in THAT context?).

I really have no idea why our two names deliver SUCH results, as I am a SAINT (at least according to my own individual name ).

posted September 03, 2008 10:55 AM         

BLUE MOON

Lure
Ride
Bicker
Bonk
Moan

posted September 03, 2008 11:02 AM         

RALPH FIENNES

posted September 03, 2008 11:05 AM         

A EE I K N RR SS T U

Resist
Kiss
Spine
Supine
Spice
Trine

posted September 03, 2008 11:12 AM         

ROBERT DOWNEY

posted September 03, 2008 11:26 AM         

regarding body language during that first encounter with him.
I fear he was just highly disinterested, but too polite to show it.

HOwever, I`m going to type it down,a s I noted it in my notebook.

Situation: after the musical. I was waiting at the stage door for him.

I was standing at a wall. On the opposite wall a colleague of him was standing and talking to a woman, who repeatedly looked at me (the colleague, not the woman), which made me even more nervous (I didn`t belong there did i?)
Three young girls were standing at the bottom of the stairs, much closer to the door, waiting for him, too.

Just when I had decided to leave (because I was behaving like a fool) he cam e through the door and his look fell on me.
I moved a loittle closer to the stairs, as he came down. But the girls stepped into his way and talked to him first, wanting to haver their picture taken with him. He turned rather abruptly towards me, handed me the camera and said: "You take the picture."
I looked dazed at him, then at the camera in my hand and said: "I do? But I don`t know how."
One of the girls explained it to me and I took the picture. I gave back the camera, the girs still surrounded him.

There was talking, I don`t remember who said what, but he was kinda distracted, or disinterested, as he was rummaging through the pockets in his coat. He then looked up and said: "I`m sorry for being so rude, but I just found a phone number in my coat." The three girls were chirping: "Not ours" and giggled, and he looked questioningly at me. I shrugged my shoulders. Not mine either. (I was blushing inwardly just the assumption that i oculd try something like that. ME. Unspeakable. LOL)

I then tried to tell him, that the show had been good. The girls again interrupted to agree in a giggly way. He made a gesture as if to say that it wasn`t all that important or good or whatever. I then ended my sentence through all the giggling and said: "You were amazing."
He froze in the middle of that gesture, looked at me, smiled surprised and said: "Amazing? Really?"
I was racking my brain, what I had said so treacherous or outstanding; I mean he WAS amazing; and I simply nodded.

The girls then asked for an autographe. HE gave it to them, but somehow managed to stay turned halfways towards me. And the suddenly sniffed in the air and exclaimed: "Hilfiger." The girls looked clueless, he then looked at me. But neither of us girls / women were wearing that scent.

However, when he had finished with the autographs, and I didn`t say anything (still gathering up my courage), he walked on. When he just had passed me, I called his name, and he instantly stopped and turned back to me, managing to stand in such a position, that he had his back turned on the girls as well as his colleague, who was still leaning at the wall and kinda "observing" as it seemed to me. (It had some resemblance to a slapstick comedy. lol).

I then told him that I had a rather weird plea.
He gazed at me with faked shock, his eyes wide open, eyebows raised. (He can`t deny the comical talent he has. )
I then continued and told him that i would like to do a horoscope for him.

posted September 03, 2008 11:26 AM         

I explained it a little bit to him and he said: "What do I have to do to get this?"
And then starts joking. The joke wasn`t all that good, but made clear that he had already heard of something like an ascendant. Hmm, I guess, he didn`t really take me serious. And I didn`t even care.

I then told him that In eeded his birthtime to do it and he answered that he didn`t have it.

Just that moment a colleague of his comes up the way and greets him. He asks me to wait a moment and walks a few steps over to her to say Hello, but comes instantly back to me (which completely surprised me, because after all with him not knowing his birthtime, our talk was finished I guessed).
But he came back and told me that he was going to call his mother.
He then goes over to the opposite wall, takes out his mobile and talks, while he still has his body turned towards me. That was strange. But while talking he actually looked at me.
Then he came back to me, still speaking to his Dad on the mobile and repeated the time.

He somehow manoevered me so, that we were both standing facing the wall, so both of us had our bakcs turned onto the rest of the crowd.
I noticed that he was standing much too close to me. Not really observing the "distance-rules", you usually have when talking to complete strangers.
He got his pager out and explained to me how that thing worked. We actually were leaning both over that thing with our shoulders slightly touching.

So, that got me a bit confused. I mean partly he showed definite disinterest, in being very easily distracted (he must have been bored out of his mind), but this ending of the talk really puzzled me a lot.

posted September 03, 2008 11:29 AM         

My name + Ralph Fiennes=

Sinner
Kiss
Help
Keep
Harsh
Liar
Slap
Yikes
Rare
Praise
Finish

Hmm... i'm a wee bit confused now... "Help"? "Slap"? "YIKES"?!

... sounds like a nice, quiet relationship!

posted September 03, 2008 11:35 AM         

quote:

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Lure
Ride
Bicker
Bonk
Moan

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posted September 03, 2008 12:24 PM         

However, now I can let it rest, I hope. And move on.
So funny, I sent that exactly on 18:18 a number for finishing up things, isn`t it?

I will not cling to another fix idea, I have done what I needed to do and probably I will never hear from him regarding this horoscope, because honestly, I basically forced this horoscope onto him. LOL

posted September 03, 2008 12:41 PM         

quote:

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Faint heart never won fair lady.

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posted September 03, 2008 12:45 PM         

Study.

Au Pair ~ wrong country.

Ancestry Visa ~ wrong country.

Job with U.S company with office in the U.K, press for secondment? It's a workable option.

Working HolidayMaker Scheme? It's a two year visa, that's a long time:
http://www.ukvisas.gov.uk/en/howtoapply/infs/inf15workingholidaymakers

Immigration is going to start to be tightened up here and we are heading for a recession so timing isn't the greatest. Still

quote:

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where there's a will there's a way

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And where there's a problem, I've got an antiquated maxim to suit or failing that a trite cliche or song lyric.

How about

you've got to have a dream, if you don't have a dream, how you gonna have a dream come true?