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posted October 06, 2008 08:49 AM         

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What is it with these girly boys?

Can we have something a bit more rough and rugged on the thread. What about:

Or maybe

I can't get that picture bigger, which is annoying.

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posted October 06, 2008 08:52 AM         

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posted October 06, 2008 08:52 AM         

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LOL bm

Yes, I like manly men too (Mars in Taurus in 2nd). For some reason now, every time I see Sean Bean, i think of you, bluemoon!

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posted October 06, 2008 08:54 AM         

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When I see Sean I think of 2 pints of mild and a quickie down an alley behind the Dog and Duck.

You can take the girl out of the Midlands, but you can't, etc.

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posted October 06, 2008 08:54 AM         

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Have you heard his voice in Scent of a Woman PA? When he's shouting in the school? OMG. I guess he has a distinctive voice. I like voices too. The dance scene in that film is so sexual too. Nom nom.

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posted October 06, 2008 08:55 AM         

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Clive Owen - mmmmmmm!

You know the scene in Closer where they're in the restaurant and she gives him the pen and he grabs her hand?

Two things:

1. The look he gives her - how much he wants her and loves her - to die for.

2. The size of his hands!!!!! And when he touches Natalie Portman's face at the exhibition. Wow!

***sounds of PA fainting***

And.....he has a beautiful, manly voice.

***more fainting***

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posted October 06, 2008 08:58 AM         

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Yes, the dance scene in Scent Of A Woman is superb. His voice really stands out in that movie - that's when I first noticed how annoying I find it. Chris O'Donnell bugs the ******* crap out of me. And that was the first time I saw Philip Seymour Hoffman and just adored him on the spot - still love him now. Think he was mentioned only a couple of posts ago. I said last night that I would have loved him to play Sherlock Holmes insteand of my beloved RDJ.

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posted October 06, 2008 09:01 AM         

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Just for you, Angel.

*WARNING* It is explicit, so anyone lurking under 18 be warned, etc. If you are a tambourine basher who has a problem with non-hetero sexuality, you won't like it either. Best save your blood pressure and not watch.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hjBAKgyK0uA

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posted October 06, 2008 09:03 AM         

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oh bm - bless you!

I've seen this before. I'm sure you posted it in the original Zala thread. I recommend this to everyone. This scene is just - A M A Z I N G! What a man! If you haven't seen this - watch it - NOW! Very very sexy, I think. Just their faces. Brilliant.

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posted October 06, 2008 09:16 AM         

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I actually own the film. Don`t know what made me buy it, but wow, this is so sad and cruel and such brilliant actors.
Oh did I mention jude had a mini-part in it, too?

Jane,

thank you for pointing that out about Jude.
I`m in the strange position to see both sides in him. Polar attraction vs repulsion for me, and I don`t know what to make of it.
Maybe I will be a bit wiser, once I have seen him in real life.

And seriously, having seen the pics of Hamlet, I can`t find anything effeminate about him.

Oh and PA,

you seem to know more about the reasons for my attraction vs repulsion scenario. Could you elaborate and explain me my feelings, please?

(I am actually serious here).

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posted October 06, 2008 09:19 AM         

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I sure did.

But it never gets old.

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posted October 06, 2008 09:35 AM         

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DD

Attraction/repulsion:

A number of reasons, for start:

1. They reflect/shadow parts of ourselves that we don't want to face
2. Repulsion/fear of love and therefore to the person who may bring/show it
3. Inability to accept self - ie, as above - equal repulsion/curiousity/attraction to someone who loves you
4. Past life issues - attraction/familiarity due to past life but repulsion due to unsconscious memories of painful events and a need to close/break the link. Not meant to be in this life or you are actually meant to make a break. I believe there are a lot of those - and they often feel like soulmate partnerships. You see a lot of it in the astro forum.

I think there's numerous reasons.

My attraction to RDJ. I think there would be elements of equal attraction/repulsion - mostly because I see myself in him and him in me - so if that perception was mutual - that would be a very difficult truth to face - yourself basically. Only when you're prepared to see yourself in another person reflected back. Because it forces you to change - and ultimately, maybe, break apart - and that's frightening - unfamiliar - lonely. We are very similar - very similar energies - would be terrible together. Actually - would you believe that he would be more disciplined than me? True. He would be the parent. It is very Chironic because you have these two wounded children, basically, who would offer some kind of mutual understanding (healing). I think we come from the same place. Mutual understanding. If you look at RDJ he hasn't really healed - he's basically swapped habits - vitamins and creativity. I just see myself in him and vice versa and I'm pretty certain it would be mutual - and that it would be both intoxicating and frightening.

But I also believe where there is one element there is equal part or possibility for it's opposite. They are, after all, two separate parts of one whole. Just different ends. Love easily turns to hate. That polarity of attraction to someone you didn't want to and resisted it - something stirring inside of you not wanting it but feeling it deeply - and then when you admitted it - it eased - not necessarily helped you get over it or understand it - but just settle into it. Like, your mind is saying I don't want this person affecting me but every part of your body and/or soul saying there's something really deep happening here. The hate is your own resistence. That's all. Or there can be a personality attraction but something physically repulsive about them to you. Any number of combinations. And then add some.

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posted October 06, 2008 09:36 AM         

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blue moon - That clip may have been just for PA, but I sneaked a peek. I thought it was beautiful.

Here's another Clive clip. It's nothing hot, but it is funny. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jG6gvxHqwHQ

darkdreamer - Oh, actually I was just being facetious. I do think Jude is good-looking, but I was acting upset only b/c of how I got matched with him at myheritage. I think he's a great actor, but he's never been on my To Sex list. Ewan's there. Gerard Butler. Clive Owen. Eddie Vedder. Those are the staples.

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posted October 06, 2008 09:40 AM         

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Sheesh DD!

You interrupted a gratuitous post.

The energy with DM is far more settled than with RDJ. Seems very peaceful. There's no healing that needs to take place. Just a togetherness. Not more soulful - but deeper capacity. RDJ is definitely a soulmate - not THE - but a.

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posted October 06, 2008 09:43 AM         

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Oh man - someone delete that pic. Whatever it is about him - it gets me in places I never knew existed.

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posted October 06, 2008 09:47 AM         

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DD

Forget everything I said. One look at this person and the feelings stirred and I realise, I know nothing.

It hurts. And I can't explain it - and that hurts more.

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posted October 06, 2008 09:51 AM         

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Has this guy gotten any representation yet?

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posted October 06, 2008 09:52 AM         

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That made me laff, jane.

As you're a fan of Mr Vedder you will like this, probably know it already, good, eh? Sung with more feeling than the original (which was always one of my favourite Beatle numbers).

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LfIh34uZY00

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posted October 06, 2008 09:58 AM         

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Has this guy gotten any representation yet?

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Well, after looking at that first pic - I would say, "yes, but clearly not enough!".

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posted October 06, 2008 10:00 AM         

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Mr Butler has such a versatile face. Huge thighs - I noticed in 300. He's definitely very masculine.

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posted October 06, 2008 10:00 AM         

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I'm sorry - but those shorts are a no no! Really awful.

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posted October 06, 2008 10:01 AM         

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He's got very masculine hands and forearms.

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posted October 06, 2008 10:05 AM         

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blue - I that song.
About other EV music...I remember you mentioning listening to "Into the Wild" music on youtube. Have you seen the movie yet? It's really worth it.

PA - I know! Clothes on GB are such a no no!

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posted October 06, 2008 10:05 AM         

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oooooh, yumola!!!!

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posted October 06, 2008 10:06 AM         

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I love a man in a skirt. And a pink top. Must be my masculine sun and moon.

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