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posted October 08, 2008 03:55 PM         

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BM,

If he looks like your brother and you wanna shag him, i would be worried...

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posted October 08, 2008 03:57 PM         

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DD,

What do you mean? Live in the moment? Is that what you were trying to say?

...but what does that have to do with love and the type of relationship you want...?

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posted October 08, 2008 04:10 PM         

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Meta,

I knew I wasn´t expressing myself clearly, but the reason is that I don`t know HOW to really express what I feel.

I mean that everything melts into this one moment, past, present future, that time and space just cease to exist. That everything around you cease to exist, when two people become one (and I am NOT talking about sex only).

Maybe I mean that in this one moment the illusion of separatedness dissolves, and for this one moment of melting into each other you know the truth, that you are him and he is you, and that everything is one. And that separatedness is really only an illusion.

And you don`t ask anylonger who you are or what you are. You just are. One.

Damn it, sorry, I can`t really find the words I fear.

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posted October 08, 2008 04:33 PM         

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DD,

I think i understand what you're trying to say.

Nothing else matters. Everything is distant, everything means nothing. You feel that in that moment you are connected on a different level beyond what words can define. Beyond the restrictions of this world.

Right?

Well, what i'm talking about is that happening, sort of, but not just in a moment. I'm talking about that feeling existing for the rest of your entire life once you have fallen in love with this person.

I think what i'm looking for requires self-destruction in order to build up a new life. Tear down you, tear down me, and lets sew ourselves together. Make sense?

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posted October 08, 2008 09:45 PM         

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I want to shed my skin and collide with that person. I want to sort of... melt into one another. I think i used the example, he puffs a cigarette i blow out smoke- so to speak. I want that kind of connection where, neither person could ever be able to function without the other half. So in a sense, i don't want to NEED room for myself. Whereas, i think you do want room to be who you are away from your lover. Make sense?

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Yes, does make sense. But I don't want you to mistake that I want a less intense love or union. I need a great deal of personal space and time - it's how I centre and balance myself. Someone who lives and breaths just me - that's scary. Not because I don't want to be loved any less, but because one quality that I need/desire in a man is a high sense of themselves as well. I'm a fairly strong personality so for equality, I need someone who is also very strong - but not combative. I value/need harmony.

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posted October 08, 2008 10:00 PM         

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Though the second opinion I solicited said it doesn't look like his uncle, it looks like Anakin Skywalker.

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ROFL over that comment.

My synastry with Hayden is rather good. I'll post the chart. This is one person I really wish I had accurate birth time.

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posted October 08, 2008 10:06 PM         

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posted October 08, 2008 10:07 PM         

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But I am not sure I can express with my words what I REALLY want.

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I don't think any of us ever can DD.

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posted October 08, 2008 10:13 PM         

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meta

That melding of souls that you mean - I wouldn't want that all the time - too restrictive - definitely sex as an expression of - but not every moment of every day.

I can see our differences now. You just want to exist for each other. I can't do that. I have too much sense of self and needs there. I was given all this Aries, so it's definitely right for me to focus on myself this time round. I have a very distinct feeling I've done the partnership overload in previous lifetimes. Time to find myself this time. Time for balance.

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posted October 09, 2008 01:43 AM         

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meta

You didn't answer my question re: jealousy and classmates.

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posted October 09, 2008 01:45 AM         

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bm

I find you to be mentally really sharp and your humour really dry. You really make me laugh with your comments - very clever. I'm wondering - what or who makes you laugh? You mentioned a couple of comediens in the last thread. I'm alawys curious as to what funny people find funny.

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posted October 09, 2008 02:27 AM         

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posted October 09, 2008 03:14 AM         

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Synastry with Hayden.

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posted October 09, 2008 03:45 AM         

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Yeah, I`m with PA on this one.

I don`t think an intensity like this can exist for a whole life, all the time with the same intensity.

Even though once you ahve fallen in love this way, it will linger on in the back of your mind and heart, but it can`t be the focus ALL the time, cause you wouldn´t be able to do the boring necessary things in life then.

Also, personally for me I want that feeling of desire and longing, and I can only have that, if there at times is a bit of space between him and me.
If someone is around ALL the time that longing will just fade away and I will feel suffocated in a while.

Yes, I know that makes me kinda predestined for an on and off-thing.

Seriously I need to have the option to MEET him again, and I can`t do that, if he was here all day, all hour, all minute long.

Actually I can feel bonded very much, when there is space.

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posted October 09, 2008 04:22 AM         

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Also, personally for me I want that feeling of desire and longing, and I can only have that, if there at times is a bit of space between him and me.
If someone is around ALL the time that longing will just fade away and I will feel suffocated in a while.

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Yes, I love that. That's so spot on. But, oh, isn't it typical of fire signs to want the chase? Over and over again? ROFL

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posted October 09, 2008 04:23 AM         

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Though, meta is a Leo. And Aqua Moon just like us. I'm thinking the difference is 1st house. Because you and I both have strong 1st house placements - stelliums too. So it has to come down to house more than sign or element. Because we all even have Aqua Moons and want different things. Or maybe it really just comes down to age and stages in life?

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posted October 09, 2008 04:57 AM         

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DD

Sorry to be a pain in the sittig down part, but can you give me that link to the free magi software again. I can't see it in our posts. Perhaps I became sidetracked by some of those pictures?

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posted October 09, 2008 05:00 AM         

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I have something for you re: attraction/repulsion. Okay - here 'tis. You are attracted to someone purely in feelings but they can physically or mentally repel you. It's the feelings they awaken or stir that keeps you hooked, but there can be elements to them (personality, lifestyle, physicality, etc) that just are not ideal to you. But, damn, those oh so intense feelings - they just keep you in there regardless. So it becomes a battlground between mind and heart. Maybe even soul - or soul recognition.

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posted October 09, 2008 05:29 AM         

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DD

Have you seen the free try-out Liz Greene Relationship Horoscope in the Free Horoscopes section at astro.com? What does it say about you and Jude?

Me with RDJ:

There is a good deal of passion present in the attraction between you and Rdj, for you are likely to experience very strong desire for him, and he responds easily to your intensity.

Your partner's originality and efforts to express himself creatively are likely to arouse protectiveness and generosity in you.

The specialness and creative vitality of this bond bring out of Rdj a deep capacity for romantic love which he may not have experienced before with quite such intensity.

With Kiefer:

There is an easy flow of communication between you and your partner. You have an instinctive understanding of how Kiefer thinks and expresses himself

The particular quality of mental rapport inherent in the relationship is likely to have a very positive effect on your sense of emotional security and well-being.

This relationship is likely to have a profound effect on your partner's inner life, because it touches and opens up understanding of areas of his personality which have been hurt or blocked

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posted October 09, 2008 07:02 AM         

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I have this book titled, "Love Signs & You" and it gives Sun sign explanation by year of birth. So 1970 Aries is "The Randy Detective". LOL - does that sound like me?

"If somebody wants to attract your attention, they can do it by one of two ways. The first way is to initiate a provocative conversation with you. You like to be both stimulated and titilated. Another approach is to tell you a sexy joke. You love to laugh, and appreciate a suitor who has an earthy sense of humour."

"If you're a female 1970 Aries, you want a man who is physically demonstrative. Men who are terrific conversationalists also turn you on. As far as you're concerned mental and physical stimulation go hand-in-hand."

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posted October 09, 2008 07:12 AM         

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What makes me laff? Sarcasm, quick wit, play on words, satire. British, aren't I?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=REpLvjDcM1E

We should go out down a bar one day.

A bit of smutt, I like that too, sometimes.

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posted October 09, 2008 07:15 AM         

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bm

We like similar things then. Yes, I'd be up for going to a bar with you. Definitely. Admittedly, and probably quite obviously, I don't mind smutt.

Will we be inviting Sean?

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posted October 09, 2008 07:18 AM         

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LOL - you took me back with Blackadder. One of my all time faves, but something I haven't seen for a very long time. One of the rare shows that has made me laugh out loud and for hours after.

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