posted October 09, 2008 07:29 AM         

Once a week he took me down the pub and bought me a couple of drinks ("if you're out with me, I'm paying"). Then back to his place.

Never said much. "You might be clever, but I've got my own farm, so shut up," was his classic line. It amuses me to this day. Very young, but a good businessman, hence the property.

posted October 09, 2008 07:40 AM         

with the post regarding repulsion / attraction you are spot on, completely.
I think emotionally I feel drawn like madly to Jude in ways that my mind can`t comprehend and therefore arouses a certains uspcion.

On the mind level, or rather on the life-style level I feel embarassed by that strong feelings he is able to trigger inside me, because I - consciously- do not like some of his attitudes (and yes I know, most of it is due to the media, so who knows if it is even really there?).

But I was honest, I do not feel such a strong sexual attraction towards him - most of the time. Unless he catches me offguard (when I switch on TV and is coincidentally there).
But well, my defences are sky-high.

You made me curious. I never tried that horoscope out before.

posted October 09, 2008 07:40 AM         

Paul and me:
"The fluid and mysterious qualities of your partner's personality have a way of making you genuinely like him. He inspires great tolerance and generosity in you"
Definitely. Endless tolerance, sympathy and affection to a degree I never knew I was capable of.

"Your partner seems to embody, simply by being who he is, a quality of creative individuality which invokes a strongly sympathetic and protective response in you."
Oh yes, strike again.

"Your partner's ability to contact a rich lode of imagination within himself activates your admiration, but it also stirs up some very deep anxieties in you"
Yes.#

"The keynote of your relationship with Paul is enchantment. This quality of dreamlike beauty and bewitchment embraces many dimensions of reality, from the erotic to the spiritual"
ROFL The enchanter of my dreams.

"Your partnership with Paul will probably have a profound impact on your emotional life, for its creative energy fulfils your deepest emotional needs and gives you a sense of coming home"
Yes, I always feel like coming home. Like finally having arrived, if you know what I mean.

"The romantic and erotic dimensions of this relationship may well bring your partner into confrontation with all that has been hurt within him since early childhood. "
So sorry, I didn`t want to do this. Honestly.

With Andy.
There is an easy flow of communication between you and your partner. You have an instinctive understanding of how Andy thinks and expresses himself"
Maybe that is the reason he answers loudly the questions I pose inside my mind?

"Your partner can see a quality of optimism and adventurousness in you which stirs his affection and admiration; and your warm and generous response to him makes him feel loved and happy"
Not upset about that.

"Part of the attraction between the two of you involves the electric quality of instability and mental awakening which you bring into your partner's life"
Well, I thought it was the other way round. But electric quality and mental insanity fits pretty well. lol

"The keynote of your relationship with Andy Bieber is intensity. This quality of powerful emotional attachment is essentially very positive, and will often work in a healing and enriching way"
Oh yeah, baby, destroy me and then put me together again.

"here is a calm, containing and affectionate quality in this bond which stands in sharp contrast to the deeper and more complex energies which are at work between you"

"The emotional warmth and rapport which this relationship offers can act as a strong trigger for your creative expression and sense of individual uniqueness."

"There is something "wrong" with the partnership. But there is something about the emotional ambience of this bond which triggers old hurts and experiences of emotional deprivation from his "
That is actually very spot on I think. There is a quality of very ancient hurt and emotional attachment to this.

With Patrick:

"Sometimes it may seem as though some strange telepathic cord exists between you and Patrick "
LOL

"You seem to embody, simply by being who you are, a quality of creative individuality which invokes a strongly sympathetic and protective response from your partner"
So I am his "Paul"?

"You are deeply attracted by your partner's looks and sexual style, particularly his harmony with his body and with the physical world. But your responses to this attraction are not at all simple"
ABSOLUTELY. His sensuality and his natural attitude to his own body is definitely fascinating to me, cause I am pretty different in that regard.

"The keynote of your relationship with Patrick Stanke is durability. This bond is likely to invoke strong feelings of responsibility in both you and your partner. "

Alongside the earthy and stable qualities of this partnership, there is a more complex energy at work which requires a deeper approach to the whole matter of love and relationship."
It could have been so simple. :sighs:

"This relationship could bring a quality of light and energy to your thinking and your ability to express yourself. You will probably find increased clarity of mind "
Yes, he gives me light and energy and a vibration of optimism.

"This bond will probably have a profound effect on your partner's emotional life, for its creative energy fulfils his deepest emotional needs and gives him a sense of coming home"
Again it seems like I am to him, what Paul is for me. Can`t say if he felt it htough.

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posted October 09, 2008 07:43 AM         

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So I went there and checked my synastry with Paul, Patrick, Andy, Jude, RDJ, Sid and you.

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And what? You're just going to leave me hanging like this? You should include Kiefer. Well, maybe not - because you're not drawn to him - whereas it should really be mutual - but then, what about Jude? Okay - just include Kiefer too, just in case.

posted October 09, 2008 07:43 AM         

That doesn't mean I have ever copulated in their vicinity.

Sean Bean married the barmaid of his local. She's his fourth wife.

posted October 09, 2008 07:45 AM         

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Sean Bean married the barmaid of his local. She's his third wife.

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posted October 09, 2008 07:46 AM         

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That doesn't mean I have ever copulated in their vicinity.

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posted October 09, 2008 07:46 AM         

"You are quite bewitched by your partner's appearance, style and energetic and individualistic manner of expression. He seems to activate an intensely romantic fantasy of ideal love in you"
Illusions, all illusions, didn`t I say so?

"Put very simply, your partner's looks turn you on, and you are likely to experience a very strong sexual attraction to each other. Probably you are the sexual initiator in the relationship"

"You and Jude invoke a powerful erotic intensity in each other. You are fascinated by your partner's emotional depth and passion, and are probably in love not only with him but also with his "

With what PLEASE?

What is that about erotic intensity and sexual attractiona nd all?
They must have gotten something all wrong.

"The keynote of your relationship with Jude is durability. This bond is likely to invoke strong feelings of responsibility in both you and your partner. The solid and pragmatic quality of the "
Oh great, another one, who will haunt me for the next 20 years.

"Alongside the qualities of stability and realism which permeate this relationship, there is also an element of great emotional intensity which could affect both of you profoundly"
I thought it was all fantasy, where comes the realism-thing from?

"The emotional warmth and rapport which this relationship offers can act as a strong trigger for your creative expression and sense of individual uniqueness"

"Your partner's sense of personal attractiveness and self-worth is likely to be given strong support by this relationship - particularly by the ways in which others react to it"

posted October 09, 2008 07:48 AM         

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PA, I read this thread everyday (fly-on-the-wall Scorp voyeur). I'm just too lazy to post.
I don't remember the movie where I first saw Sean Bean, but I remember instantly having the hots for him. Ah, bad boy.

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posted October 09, 2008 07:52 AM         

OMG! That report is astonishing, isn't it! Wow - I sat here reading yours - looking like that emoticon above! Wowow!

posted October 09, 2008 07:55 AM         

that pub where is it?
It kinda "stirs" something inside me. Maybe I have been there before.

PA,

posted October 09, 2008 07:55 AM         

You and Jude =

posted October 09, 2008 07:58 AM         

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PA, you will not like my reading with RDJ, that is the reason I didn`T put it up here.
You really want to read it?

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Yeah, yeah, okay - whatever. I hope mine with Jude is better than yours then. Nah nah!